Reply to thread

Message: <blockquote data-quote="visula kavinda" data-source="post: 27604155" data-attributes="member: 577973"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/a/AVvXsEi8L1SNd6YoBDBlruhNPrn3opMwxbL8Wtx5gjKrcRQVAZWOi7NDeRkVOlGBxoFM2NSscA4xxv258tyDQ-1h3uY58V8LnCwsnLtHf3GGHgorIffP3V-OyHXCCE-smnnpevvhUoTLNrPddbtZPOM5Qx0Eilotmc4BDiqvsBijWAARVvwOabDUbgd-rwzDgA=s1405" target="_blank"><img src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/a/AVvXsEi8L1SNd6YoBDBlruhNPrn3opMwxbL8Wtx5gjKrcRQVAZWOi7NDeRkVOlGBxoFM2NSscA4xxv258tyDQ-1h3uY58V8LnCwsnLtHf3GGHgorIffP3V-OyHXCCE-smnnpevvhUoTLNrPddbtZPOM5Qx0Eilotmc4BDiqvsBijWAARVvwOabDUbgd-rwzDgA=s320" alt="" class="fr-fic fr-dii fr-draggable " style="" /></a><h3>Interview with Zori</h3><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/a/AVvXsEi8L1SNd6YoBDBlruhNPrn3opMwxbL8Wtx5gjKrcRQVAZWOi7NDeRkVOlGBxoFM2NSscA4xxv258tyDQ-1h3uY58V8LnCwsnLtHf3GGHgorIffP3V-OyHXCCE-smnnpevvhUoTLNrPddbtZPOM5Qx0Eilotmc4BDiqvsBijWAARVvwOabDUbgd-rwzDgA=s1405" target="_blank"><img src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/a/AVvXsEi8L1SNd6YoBDBlruhNPrn3opMwxbL8Wtx5gjKrcRQVAZWOi7NDeRkVOlGBxoFM2NSscA4xxv258tyDQ-1h3uY58V8LnCwsnLtHf3GGHgorIffP3V-OyHXCCE-smnnpevvhUoTLNrPddbtZPOM5Qx0Eilotmc4BDiqvsBijWAARVvwOabDUbgd-rwzDgA=s320" alt="" class="fr-fic fr-dii fr-draggable " style="" /></a>Monika: Today let me introduce you to Zori, a Sri Lankan-born social media influencer and a transgender woman from Dubai, the most populous city in the United Arab Emirates (UAE), documenting her transition on social media. Hello Zori!Zori: Hello Monika. I am so happy and honored. Thank you for this opportunity.Monika: Could you say a few words about yourself?Zori: I am Zori, and I am 24 years old. I live in Dubai but I am originally from Sri Lanka. I have successfully finished my studies recently, and I am also a social media influencer and content creator.Monika: What did you study?Zori: I studied international relations.Monika: What inspired you to share your intimate life moments via social media?Zori: Growing up I have always been very confident but when I started my transition I started to feel a little insecure. So when I first shared a little intimate content online I received a lot of positive feedback and I was very overwhelmed. So I started continuing posting intimate content and it really made me feel good about myself.Monika: Why did you choose Zori for your name?Zori: It is such a funny story to share. I grew up in a middle eastern country and my mother has always called me Zori when I was little. So I kind of picked it from there.Monika: Do you get many questions from your social media followers? What do they ask for?Zori: Yes, I do. Most of them are asking if they can meet me. <table style='width: 100%'><tr><td><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/a/AVvXsEjDWToLcSBdmvDGBdhJrhVC4x6rMzfxBCnmXpLD4AAtYeI42R2E3th0o5ZIvVPdszIaPJMJjYBMZzqkI7_2L_NN2Un8thSPc14Ge50-bys_YUPI502lm14inmTzUcaJ_aK_SMDQY2C_tpP3a0bd9AWpthG-sVlGEezQ4B9Fsg0VD07Cs1HUIx0ZbgY7iQ=s2045" target="_blank"><img src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/a/AVvXsEjDWToLcSBdmvDGBdhJrhVC4x6rMzfxBCnmXpLD4AAtYeI42R2E3th0o5ZIvVPdszIaPJMJjYBMZzqkI7_2L_NN2Un8thSPc14Ge50-bys_YUPI502lm14inmTzUcaJ_aK_SMDQY2C_tpP3a0bd9AWpthG-sVlGEezQ4B9Fsg0VD07Cs1HUIx0ZbgY7iQ=w400-h399" alt="" class="fr-fic fr-dii fr-draggable " style="" /></a></td></tr><tr><td>"My family was not surprised because I've always been very feminine."</td></tr></table> Monika: We all pay the highest price for the fulfillment of our dreams to be ourselves. As a result, we lose our families, friends, jobs, and social positions. Did you pay such a high price as well? What was the hardest thing about your coming out?Zori: Fortunately I did not have to make any compromises yet.Monika: Was your family surprised by your transition? Did they accept it easily?Zori: My family was not surprised because I've always been very feminine. But they were uncomfortable in the beginning. They have accepted me for who I am but I feel like they are not happy with the life choice I made for myself.Monika: Are you satisfied with the effects of the hormone treatment?Zori: I am definitely very happy. Hormones have done wonders to my body but I also have to mention that it all came with a little bit of depression.Monika: We are said to be prisoners of passing or non-passing syndrome. Although cosmetic surgeries help to overcome it, we will always be judged accordingly. How can we cope with this?Zori: I have always been worried that I will never pass but right now I have realized that it doesn't really matter to me as long as I am happy.Monika: What is the situation of transgender women in Sri Lanka?Zori: Fortunately no laws specifically criminalize transgender women in Sri Lanka. However, people are very narrow-minded. At the same time, there's plenty of freedom to live our lives on our own. <table style='width: 100%'><tr><td><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/a/AVvXsEjFrDYUaGL9sQOVGkyD6xM0I-_5QBf3biQEeVKVKsA5NAbHgI3cxmVAYL8ZACg-nSFsYnoKfGB2K800sxpZ84MMYi6BlE2W2hVxxoCjKjuPB3be0YBR9mB8P__62rKJ4g_xTiQreaZmXOv2M-A9gVff_TLQqVcx5pa-veV2CXO1PBsAmU02fOFmgggznQ=s1709" target="_blank"><img src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/a/AVvXsEjFrDYUaGL9sQOVGkyD6xM0I-_5QBf3biQEeVKVKsA5NAbHgI3cxmVAYL8ZACg-nSFsYnoKfGB2K800sxpZ84MMYi6BlE2W2hVxxoCjKjuPB3be0YBR9mB8P__62rKJ4g_xTiQreaZmXOv2M-A9gVff_TLQqVcx5pa-veV2CXO1PBsAmU02fOFmgggznQ=w311-h400" alt="" class="fr-fic fr-dii fr-draggable " style="" /></a></td></tr><tr><td>"Fortunately no laws specifically criminalize transgender women in Sri Lanka."</td></tr></table> Monika: And in Dubai?Zori: It is very different as it is an Islamic country. Therefore we have to be very careful as it is not legalized. But Dubai is a very safe city for any woman if you live a normal life.Monika: How big is the transgender community in Dubai? Do you keep in touch with other transgender women there?Zori: The community is not active here and I only have one transgender friend in here.Monika: Do you remember the first time you saw a transgender woman on TV or met anyone transgender in person?Zori: So I saw transgender women when I was 13 years old on Facebook. I didn't even know that it was possible. At that time I was crossdressing.Monika: When did you realize that you were not a crossdresser but a transgender woman?Zori: So I always had this feeling that I’m a girl but I didn’t know where to start. I used to tell myself someday I will be and then I discovered HRT.Monika: Are there any transgender role models that you follow or followed?Zori: I actually do follow Nikita Dragun. She is a very young, talented influencer and entrepreneur.Monika: Do you like fashion? What kind of outfits do you usually wear? Any special fashion designs, colors, or trends?Zori: Yes, of course, I love fashion. I am a big fan of body-hugging maxi dresses. I also like wearing neutral colors. It all depends on my mood and where I'm going.Monika: Do you often experiment with your makeup?Zori: Guilty!!! I love makeup. I spend too much money on makeup.Monika: By the way, do you like being complimented on your looks?Zori: Yes. I do receive a lot of compliments online but in person, I'm a very shy and introverted type of girl. So I'd be a little uncomfortable in person if a stranger complimented me. <table style='width: 100%'><tr><td><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/a/AVvXsEitPl8zD9hHF1IxwGxe5mUVvQnWOHea6LnrZ1mtf63XRsJIiglFMQhFbZVwd-7qpReIlsbEZz_Y-iUk0NJFQH3As2XDqdnWio0w1XSzwoP21uBzF8_lZju7JjGbN4jfhG_SqaSPMiu44wuv3QjdZKa8W-4RwIOSUMjTk6jAPpnysYqbt5vrdK1chQfMWA=s1887" target="_blank"><img src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/a/AVvXsEitPl8zD9hHF1IxwGxe5mUVvQnWOHea6LnrZ1mtf63XRsJIiglFMQhFbZVwd-7qpReIlsbEZz_Y-iUk0NJFQH3As2XDqdnWio0w1XSzwoP21uBzF8_lZju7JjGbN4jfhG_SqaSPMiu44wuv3QjdZKa8W-4RwIOSUMjTk6jAPpnysYqbt5vrdK1chQfMWA=w296-h400" alt="" class="fr-fic fr-dii fr-draggable " style="" /></a></td></tr><tr><td>"I do receive a lot of compliments online but in person, I'm a very shy and introverted type of girl."</td></tr></table> Monika: You look like a million dollars. Have you ever tried modeling or acting?Zori: No, I never really tried. But maybe in the future.Monika: Do you remember your first job interview as a woman?Zori: Yes, of course, I do. It was a little difficult for me as I was very insecure.Monika: What would you advise to all transwomen looking for employment?Zori: I think if you feel that you are ready to take that risk you should definitely go seek opportunities.Monika: Are you involved in the life of the local LGBTQ community?Zori: Unfortunately no. As I mentioned before, UAE is an Islamic country. Therefore we do not have an active community but I would love to be an active member as soon as I decide to move to a Western country.Monika: Could you tell me about the importance of love in your life?Zori: I am a very affectionate person and love is the most important thing in my life.Monika: Many transgender ladies write their memoirs. Have you ever thought about writing such a book yourself?Zori: I haven’t really thought about it yet but maybe in the future. Let’s see.Monika: What is your next step in the present time and where do you see yourself within the next 5-7 years?Zori: I really want to have a family. So I hope that I will meet a good partner that is understanding and supportive.Monika: What would you recommend to all transgender women that are afraid of transition?Zori: Well what I have to say is that, if you really want to embrace yourself just do it. Don’t be afraid. Take this risk for your own happiness.Monika: Zori, it was a pleasure to interview you. Thanks a lot!Zori: Thank you very much for this opportunity.Source: <a href="https://theheroines.blogspot.com/2022/03/interview-with-zori.html" target="_blank">https://theheroines.blogspot.com/2022/03/interview-with-zori.html</a></blockquote>

Verification: Awruddata maasa keeyada?

Top Bottom