The Wisdom Behind Prophet Muhammad's Plural Marriages

[sirajstc]

oya jiwithe kee parak prashnekata thamanma hithala uththare deela thiyenawada

metana daanawata etana ghilla kiywaddi full post ekama tiyanawane..

 

[III Reich]

metana daanawata etana ghilla kiywaddi full post ekama tiyanawane..

islam ayata puluwan kauru hari kiwwa moda kathawak ayi wamaranna witharada

 

[sirajstc]

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[III Reich]

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අනේ පව් මචන් ඔයා . මිත්‍යාදෘශ්ථියෙන් වැහිලා හිටියත් ඔයා අහිංසකයෙක්
god , give this poor man some brains to think !

 

[ex-muslim Ahmed]

යකෝ සිරාජ් මුහම්මදා බොරු ගහල අන්තිමට අවුරුදු 9 චූටි ගෑනු බබෙක් එක්කත් බුදියලා ලමා අපචාර කරලා ලෝකෙ පුර නෝන්ඩි වෙලා හත් පොලේ ගාගත්ත මදිවට උඹ ලැජ්ජ නැතුව තව මේ වගෙ පෝස්ට් දානේ නෝන්ඩිය වහගන්නද?

 

[sirajstc]

අනේ පව් මචන් ඔයා . මිත්‍යාදෘශ්ථියෙන් වැහිලා හිටියත් ඔයා අහිංසකයෙක්
god , give this poor man some brains to think !

Allah Ameen ..May Allah show us right path Ameen..

 

[sirajstc]

යකෝ සිරාජ් මුහම්මදා බොරු ගහල අන්තිමට අවුරුදු 9 චූටි ගෑනු බබෙක් එක්කත් බුදියලා ලමා අපචාර කරලා ලෝකෙ පුර නෝන්ඩි වෙලා හත් පොලේ ගාගත්ත මදිවට උඹ ලැජ්ජ නැතුව තව මේ වගෙ පෝස්ට් දානේ නෝන්ඩිය වහගන්නද?

world today, we still have people especially in the third world countries, marry very young girls. Why should we call someone who married a 9-year old girl 1400 years ago a child molester, when we still practice it today? The girl above even gave birth at the age of 9!

And should we also call Aisha's (our Prophet's wife) parents child molesters too, since they agreed by their own will and choice to marry their daughter to our Prophet, and they were proud of it too?

 

[III Reich]

ignorace and stupidity at its best !
FACT 1 from what you have posted
>> even today 9 year old CHILD who is not physically and mentally not ready to give birth becomes pregnant
so prophet is not a pedophile who at the same time had sex with ayisha @ 9
leave that aside
FACT 2
even in muslim countries thousands of innocent girls get raped and the rapists do not get caught because islamic law favours men >> women
according to you
rape happens even today >> so raping should be okay

did you notice how stupid your argument is ?

 

[I love Srilanka]

So according to you and many who try to white was islam Ibn ishaq is a terrible liar. I thoght he's a narrater of islamic history. Ok so from now on you can' you cant use anything nattated by ishaq as i will call you a liar too

As I clearly explained to you earlier only mentioned 6 scholars hadith collections are accepted by Muslims.others may contain truth as well as lies so that muslims abstain from Quoting hadiths which was collected by others.Don't worry buddy i'm not going to use it.


Here you go right from the words of saiah al bukharii
Narrated Abu Qilaba: "Anas said, "Some people of 'Ukl or 'Uraina tribe came to Medina and its climate did not suit them. So the Prophet ordered them to go to the herd of (Milch) camels and to drink their milk and urine . So they went as directed and after they became healthy, they killed the shepherd of the Prophet and drove away all the camels. The news reached the Prophet early in the morning and he sent (men) in their pursuit and they were captured and brought at noon. He then ordered to cut their hands and feet (and it was done), and their eyes were branded with heated pieces of iron, They were put in 'Al-Harra' and when they asked for water, no water was given to them." Abu Qilaba said, "Those people committed theft and murder, became infidels after embracing Islam and fought against Allah and His Apostle . (Sahih Bukhari, Ablutions (Wudu'), Volume 1, Book 4, Number 234)"
I'll be waiting for you to call bukhari a liar

Thanks for bringing up something true from right sources.of course Uraina tribe deserve the punishment and got.how do u justify a group of people who murdered & theft. Prophet Muhammad peace be upon him trusted them at first, regardless of the bad history that this tribe had. this group Bani Uraina who came to the Muslims and pretended to embraced Islam played the same tricks that their tribe always played. They pretended to be Muslims, and then when the opportunity presented itself, they would kill as much as possible and run away. so do u need this group to be pardoned? so what is the punishment they deserve in your law book?


aha so prophet is just a puppet who marry anyone from a under age kid to a granny just to please their will .

apart from Aisha and Khadijah he even married many widows to lead them good life. if i want to agree with you in one case he wanted to marry under age, and another case he married a rich lady. then there is no reason why he married widows. so here you have to understand that his motive was not the same as you and critics keep on allege.

weak allegations ? aha . ask yourself .will you marry your 6 year old litte sister to a 54 year serial killer ? isn't that a crime ?

Please keep refrain from abusing our prophet.I always meet NON muslim are big abusers.if you want to continue debating with me i need some one who talk logically without unnecessarily abusing in order to put some icing on their false allegations.
which a common law book says a person can't marry a 9years old girl? where does it say it is a crime? what is the problem for u guys when a 54 years old married to 9years old , and led the life well and 9years old aisha was happy to marry and the marriage life was very peaceful.

the marriage of the Prophet was not abnormal and there was nothing immoral about it. It was a norm at biblical times to be wedded at puberty or earlier, the age of consent one century ago in a ‘modern country’ was as low as 10 or 12, Even in our times, in certain societies, the age of consent is as low as 12 or 13. In the light of historical evidences, the marriage cannot be criticized.people of Quraish and other Arabian tribes at Prophet’s time found absolutely no fault in their marriage. On the contrary it is evident from countless narrations that the marriage was successful. They detested Islam, they did everything to belittle the Prophet, tried to prevent Islam from spreading and even attempted to kill the Prophet! However, they raised no objection to the marriage of the Prophet to Aisha since at those times such a thing was not considered ‘immoral’. now what happened was anti Islamist need something to quote against islam and its prophet so they took this also one of their weapons to malign islam.

then Joseph, Mary's husband, was "90 years old" when he married 12 to 14-year old Mary! Was he too a pedophile?

 

[sirajstc]

 

[ex-muslim Ahmed]

Yeah you just read

"justifying pedophelia 101 "

Muhammed is a pedophile. You cannot bring in "the LAW of the time" argument, Man! this is the GODS prophet! and god should have stopped him!! God could have easily set an example by using muhammed.

It didnt happen.

It is the other cultures , just ordinary men and woman , man made LAW that protect children from scumbags. NOT muhammed's religion.

Funny! try again!

 

[Brotherhood]

Thanks

 

[Hettiarachi]

Prophet Muhammad (pbuh) married Aisha ® because he was a pedophile?

Definition of a Pedophile:

"Pedophile: also spelled PEDOPHILIA, psychosexual disorder in which an adult's arousal and sexual gratification occur primarily through sexual contact with prepubescent children. The typical pedophile is unable to find satisfaction in an adult sexual relationship and may have low self-esteem, seeing sexual activity with a child as less threatening than that with an adult." Encyclopedia Britannica, 1998
"pe.do.phil.ia n [NL] (1906): sexual perversion in which children are the preferred sexual object -- pe.do.phil.i.ac or pe.do.phil.ic adj." Merriam Webster’s Collegiate Dictionary


The diagnostic criteria for pedophilia according to American Psychiatric Association:

Over a period of at least 6 months, recurrent intense sexual urges and sexual arousing fantasies involving sexual activity with a prepubescent child or children.
The person has acted on these urges, or is markedly distressed by them.
The person is at least 16 years old and at least 5 years older than the child or children in A.
DSM-III-R Diagnostic and Statistical Manual of Mental Disorders, ed 3, revised, copyright American Psychiatric Association.
"In addition to their pedophilia, a significant number of pedophiles are concomitantly or have previously been involved in exhibitionism, voyeurism, or rape". (Voyeurism’s the recurrent preoccupation with fantasized or acts that involve seeking out or observing people who are naked, or are engaged in grooming or in sexual activity". Synopsis of psychiatry, Harold I.Kaplan et al., 5th ed., pg360, Publishers: Williams and Wilkens, 1988

Does the Prophet fit the above criteria of a pedophile?

With the above criteria of a pedophile in mind, lets analyze the lifestyle of the prophet and his marriages.

Name of Bride Bride’s age at marriage Comments

hadija bint khawilad 40 Twice widowed before
Sauda Bint Zama 50 Widow
Aisha bint Abu Bakr 9
Hafsa Bint Umar bin Khattab 22 Widow
Zainab bint Khuzaima 30
Umm-I-Salma bint Abu Umayi 26 Widow
Zainab Bint Jahash 38 Widow
Juwaeria Bint Harith 20 Widow
Umm-I-Habiba bint Abu Sufyan 36 Widow
Marya Qibtiya bint shamun 17 Virgin, Egyptian
Safia bint Hayi bin Akhtab 17 Widow
Raihana bint umru bin hanafa Not available
Maimuna bint harith 36 Widow

Statistics from the above table:

Percentage of his wives who were 17years and older = 91 %

Percentage of his wives who were widows = 75%

Comment: The statistics show that the prophet’s marriage to Aisha at her young age was an exception and not a norm of his other marriages. Furthermore ‘a pedophile’s main mode of sexual satisfaction is with prepubescent girls’, which is contradictory to the 91% of prophet’s marriage to women 17 years and over. An unbiased examination of Prophet’s life and his marriages to his wives blatantly rejects the notion of his lifestyle fitting that of a pedophile. All his brides were aged widows (except Aisha and Marium).
Moreover, according to the criteria in the references cited above in ‘Synopsis of Psychiatry’, a vast majority of pedophiles possess a history of exhibitionism, voyeurism, or rape. Again, there is no single reference from either religious or secular sources that the noble Prophet ever indulged in such sadistic behavior (God forbid). This truth is observed and accepted by both Muslims and unbiased non-Muslims scholars.


"It is impossible for anyone who studies the life and character of the great Prophet of Arabia, who knows how he taught and how he lived, to feel anything but reverence for that mighty Prophet, one of the great messengers of the Supreme. And although in what I put to you I shall say many things which may be familiar to many, yet I myself feel whenever I re-read them, a new way of admiration, a new sense of reverence for that mighty Arabian teacher." – Annie Besant, THE LIFE AND TEACHINGS OF MUHAMMAD, Madras, 1932, p. 4.

 

[Brotherhood]

Yeah you just read

"justifying pedophelia 101 "

Muhammed is a pedophile. You cannot bring in "the LAW of the time" argument, Man! this is the GODS prophet! and god should have stopped him!! God could have easily set an example by using muhammed.

It didnt happen.

It is the other cultures , just ordinary men and woman , man made LAW that protect children from scumbags. NOT muhammed's religion.

Funny! try again!

Buddha married at the age of 16 and Yasodhara was also 16. wasn't that a child marriage?

At the age of 29 Yasodhara gave birth to their only child. Also at the age of 29 buddha abandoned his wife and son (Rahula) to find the answer to life. but why? was it because she gave birth to a baby after 13 years and that sounded bit fishy to buddha?

 

[Hettiarachi]

Buddha married at the age of 16 and Yasodhara was also 16. wasn't that a child marriage?

At the age of 29 Yasodhara gave birth to their only child. Also at the age of 29 buddha abandoned his wife and son (Rahula) to find the answer to life. but why? was it because she gave birth to a baby after 13 years and that sounded bit fishy to buddha?

Joseph, Mary's husband, was "90 years old" when he married 12 to 14-year old Mary! HE is not pedophile?

In Exodus 21:10, a man can marry an infinite amount of women without any limits to how many he can marry.

In 2 Samuel 5:13; 1 Chronicles 3:1-9, 14:3, King David had six wives and numerous concubines.

In 1 Kings 11:3, King Solomon had 700 wives and 300 concubines.

In 2 Chronicles 11:21, King Solomon's son Rehoboam had 18 wives and 60 concubines.

Now the problem for this Non muslim guys, They want some how to attack islam, regardless whatever the nonsense they have in their own faith.and they prefer maligning islam falsely in any means.

 

[Brotherhood]

Joseph, Mary's husband, was "90 years old" when he married 12 to 14-year old Mary! HE is not pedophile?

In Exodus 21:10, a man can marry an infinite amount of women without any limits to how many he can marry.

In 2 Samuel 5:13; 1 Chronicles 3:1-9, 14:3, King David had six wives and numerous concubines.

In 1 Kings 11:3, King Solomon had 700 wives and 300 concubines.

In 2 Chronicles 11:21, King Solomon's son Rehoboam had 18 wives and 60 concubines.

Now the problem for this Non muslim guys, They want some how to attack islam, regardless whatever the nonsense they have in their own faith.and they prefer maligning islam falsely in any means.

 

[ex-muslim Ahmed]

Buddha married at the age of 16 and Yasodhara was also 16. wasn't that a child marriage?

At the age of 29 Yasodhara gave birth to their only child. Also at the age of 29 buddha abandoned his wife and son (Rahula) to find the answer to life. but why? was it because she gave birth to a baby after 13 years and that sounded bit fishy to buddha?

Whay muslims are so stupid??

(6years X 2)+ 4 = 16 years Ayesha was 6!
And muhammed was 54 !
Isnt this pedophilia??
Is age 6 is a age where you can excersise right to consent?
Stupid arguments for the followers of a phedophile KILLER!

 

[AncientGlory]

Buddha married at the age of 16 and Yasodhara was also 16. wasn't that a child marriage?

No.

 

[sirajstc]

Prophet Muhammad (pbuh) married Aisha ® because he was a pedophile?

Definition of a Pedophile:

"Pedophile: also spelled PEDOPHILIA, psychosexual disorder in which an adult's arousal and sexual gratification occur primarily through sexual contact with prepubescent children. The typical pedophile is unable to find satisfaction in an adult sexual relationship and may have low self-esteem, seeing sexual activity with a child as less threatening than that with an adult." Encyclopedia Britannica, 1998
"pe.do.phil.ia n [NL] (1906): sexual perversion in which children are the preferred sexual object -- pe.do.phil.i.ac or pe.do.phil.ic adj." Merriam Webster’s Collegiate Dictionary


The diagnostic criteria for pedophilia according to American Psychiatric Association:

Over a period of at least 6 months, recurrent intense sexual urges and sexual arousing fantasies involving sexual activity with a prepubescent child or children.
The person has acted on these urges, or is markedly distressed by them.
The person is at least 16 years old and at least 5 years older than the child or children in A.
DSM-III-R Diagnostic and Statistical Manual of Mental Disorders, ed 3, revised, copyright American Psychiatric Association.
"In addition to their pedophilia, a significant number of pedophiles are concomitantly or have previously been involved in exhibitionism, voyeurism, or rape". (Voyeurism’s the recurrent preoccupation with fantasized or acts that involve seeking out or observing people who are naked, or are engaged in grooming or in sexual activity". Synopsis of psychiatry, Harold I.Kaplan et al., 5th ed., pg360, Publishers: Williams and Wilkens, 1988

Does the Prophet fit the above criteria of a pedophile?

With the above criteria of a pedophile in mind, lets analyze the lifestyle of the prophet and his marriages.

Name of Bride Bride’s age at marriage Comments

hadija bint khawilad 40 Twice widowed before
Sauda Bint Zama 50 Widow
Aisha bint Abu Bakr 9
Hafsa Bint Umar bin Khattab 22 Widow
Zainab bint Khuzaima 30
Umm-I-Salma bint Abu Umayi 26 Widow
Zainab Bint Jahash 38 Widow
Juwaeria Bint Harith 20 Widow
Umm-I-Habiba bint Abu Sufyan 36 Widow
Marya Qibtiya bint shamun 17 Virgin, Egyptian
Safia bint Hayi bin Akhtab 17 Widow
Raihana bint umru bin hanafa Not available
Maimuna bint harith 36 Widow

Statistics from the above table:

Percentage of his wives who were 17years and older = 91 %

Percentage of his wives who were widows = 75%

Comment: The statistics show that the prophet’s marriage to Aisha at her young age was an exception and not a norm of his other marriages. Furthermore ‘a pedophile’s main mode of sexual satisfaction is with prepubescent girls’, which is contradictory to the 91% of prophet’s marriage to women 17 years and over. An unbiased examination of Prophet’s life and his marriages to his wives blatantly rejects the notion of his lifestyle fitting that of a pedophile. All his brides were aged widows (except Aisha and Marium).
Moreover, according to the criteria in the references cited above in ‘Synopsis of Psychiatry’, a vast majority of pedophiles possess a history of exhibitionism, voyeurism, or rape. Again, there is no single reference from either religious or secular sources that the noble Prophet ever indulged in such sadistic behavior (God forbid). This truth is observed and accepted by both Muslims and unbiased non-Muslims scholars.


"It is impossible for anyone who studies the life and character of the great Prophet of Arabia, who knows how he taught and how he lived, to feel anything but reverence for that mighty Prophet, one of the great messengers of the Supreme. And although in what I put to you I shall say many things which may be familiar to many, yet I myself feel whenever I re-read them, a new way of admiration, a new sense of reverence for that mighty Arabian teacher." – Annie Besant, THE LIFE AND TEACHINGS OF MUHAMMAD, Madras, 1932, p. 4.

 

[Hettiarachi]

Whay muslims are so stupid??

(6years X 2)+ 4 = 16 years Ayesha was 6!
And muhammed was 54 !
Isnt this pedophilia??
Is age 6 is a age where you can excersise right to consent?
Stupid arguments for the followers of a phedophile KILLER!

I gave definition for pedophilia. this fools don't understand..Why your people even rape your own daughter is not paedophilia? who is stupid here?