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sadsoul123

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my girlfriend always wanted to have sex with other guys and now she did had sex with with another guy,i don't know what to do and i am so helpless,heart broken and desperate right now.i cant tell this to anybody else.i know 99% of you guys will simply say "dude,she is crazy,leave her for your own good".but its not that simple.i really love her.and she also loves me,i know that.but how can i stop thinking about what she has done? and i have a feeling that she won't stop doing this,she is gonna have sex with someone again when she get the chance.if i say no (actually i did like thousand times, i told her to stop flirting with other guys blah blah blah everyday, but she says "i am not flirting with anyone,i am just talking",but if you guys listen to the way she talks and the things she says a 10 year old kid can tell that she is flirting) she starts to ignore me and sometimes she says stuff like "i like to fuck with other guys,i like to cheat on you blah blah blah".i tried to leave her like 1000 times but i coudn't.she made a lots of promises to me and broke them like nothing,and she has excuses for everything whether it is right or wrong.please dont take this as a joke.me and my world is totally wrecked and i am suffering every single day because of this.i need your advices,i will also show this to her and lets see her reaction.i really hope your advices helps me to get her in to the sense.i wanna marry her and i wanna spend the rest of my life with her.and i want to be the only man in her life,the only man whos gonna make her happy everyday,the one who make her laugh,caresses,keep her safe :( :(
 
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sadsoul123

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Just saying... Isn't this a contradiction?

i can see why you say that.but the thing is even though she hurts me i still love her,every time she do something that hurts my feelings i get mad,heart broken but it only lasts for a couple of hours,when i see her face i cant be mad at her anymore.so i hide my feelings and pretend to be happy.then suffer in silence.i used to ask her "do you love me?" so often,sometimes she says i cant leave you,i want to be with you but i have dreams,desires which i cant and wont give up for you.
 
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amilanuwanamara

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    u ar completely blind with love machan... if u dont leave her, one day she will definitely do that and u will have to face and suffer everything even now u ar not ready to do it.
     

    smother

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    I’m sitting here, shaking
    Happiness and despair combined
    Like watered out lemonade
    The stranglehold that life has around my neck
    Has momentarily loosened, and I can finally breathe
    For the first time in what feels
    Like an eternity I feel happy
    Beleaguered and relieved at the same time

    I’m shaking from the euphoria that’s tearing and scratching me,
    I want to get away from here, to some place
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    sadsoul123

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    y Upset ????????:lol::lol::lol::lol::lol::lol::lol:

    answer to your question is in the first page of this thread.i live in a hell,am i suppose to be happy? or laugh.i really love her.i dont know what to do,i cant leave her i know that for sure :( no matter what she has done i still have a little faith that one day she will be the girl i want her to be.
     

    asylum

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    it's look like she have a lust that you can not satisfy leave her that's the only way. what if after you marry her she goes and have sex with other guys then what you going ti do ?. can you live with it knowing your wife is cheating on you can you trust her word as you said she make promises to you and broke them like nothing.

    from your description it's sound like she is a bad woman and you don't trust her if so how can you live with her like that?. sometime in life you have to take life changing decisions like your are about to. take those
    decisions with your brain not from your heart don't do something you will regret doing for rest of your life.

    if you can't really really let her go then marry her knowing you have to face the consequence of your
    decision and expect the worst.
     

    scurvy

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    my girlfriend always wanted to have sex with other guys and now she did had sex with with another guy,i don't know what to do and i am so helpless,heart broken and desperate right now.i cant tell this to anybody else.i know 99% of you guys will simply say "dude,she is crazy,leave her for your own good".but its not that simple.i really love her.and she also loves me,i know that.but how can i stop thinking about what she has done? and i have a feeling that she won't stop doing this,she is gonna have sex with someone again when she get the chance.if i say no (actually i did like thousand times, i told her to stop flirting with other guys blah blah blah everyday, but she says "i am not flirting with anyone,i am just talking",but if you guys listen to the way she talks and the things she says a 10 year old kid can tell that she is flirting) she starts to ignore me and sometimes she says stuff like "i like to fuck with other guys,i like to cheat on you blah blah blah".i tried to leave her like 1000 times but i coudn't.she made a lots of promises to me and broke them like nothing,and she has excuses for everything whether it is right or wrong.please dont take this as a joke.me and my world is totally wrecked and i am suffering every single day because of this.i need your advices,i will also show this to her and lets see her reaction.i really hope your advices helps me to get her in to the sense.i wanna marry her and i wanna spend the rest of my life with her.and i want to be the only man in her life,the only man whos gonna make her happy everyday,the one who make her laugh,caresses,keep her safe :( :(
    Toge paiya kota athi pons. :lol::lol::lol: