marriage question

[TommyJ]

Have you ever stopped to realize what an utter selfish thought that it ?

Have children simply as a future investment

Nah bro., me and my wife both came into an agreement long before we even thought of marriage that NO KIDS will be our first and foremost solid policy without exceptions.

We dont have any need to "extend our generation" as we have enough Brothers and Sisters which have taken care of that... and we both dont like children as a concept.

Its' a completely different scenario when a couple wants to have kids but couldnt get pregnant etc...but we just don't want kids and it's never a part of our life.

For the first time, I have to agree with you

 

[Tech Bro]

ලයිට් නැතුව මොන marriage ද,

 

[dayt0na]

have kids only if you can afford them

 

[Nash_Node]

MENNA minissu , ammala thathal gen kohomada machan seen eka ? awulake nadda ?

Parents are a factor in our lives but do not have any authority to make decisions in our lives.

My wife has been pretty clear of her self from the get go with her parents even from her younger days and they have grown to accept her wishes... just as my parents always knew that I never want kids... so they too have grown to accept that as a concept of my life.

Mate, Parents should NEVER EVER have a "vote" in your life decisions between you & your wife. I will ask for their "advice" once in a while when I am in unsteady ground over something but never let them dictate our lives or anything between me & my wife.

Trust me... keep this in your mind... It's a valuable life lesson.

Never ever let your parents even feel they have a "right" to alter or make decisions in you & your wife's lives.

 

[Nash_Node]

For the first time, I have to agree with you

lol

 

[Dhanushka.N]

ochchara hithanawanam badhinna epa yako mahana weyan.mahana unu samaharu oya kisi deyak nathuwa oya okkoma gnata karanawa.

 

[Heisenberg]

වදුරා එක්ක sex කෙරුවේ නැ වදුරව කුලප්පු කෙරුවා



hi සාරා මොකද කියන්නේ threesome දාමුද

australian ,new zealand waduroda kulappu keruwe
lankawe kalu wadurada kulappu keruwe

 

[Master malli]

Badinna epa spa pala

Faak kohea giyath spa kathawak mai

 

[Kolama]

1. thaman kasada badinna hethuwa mokadda? - To live a better life.
   
2. kochchara kalayak asrya krlada bande? bedala kochcharakalda? - 1 year, Almost 6 years
   
3. wayasa kiyedida bande? - 30-33
   
4. bande love afir ekakinda proposal ekakinda? - Love
   
5. dowry ekata monada hambune? - Didn't expect and didn't get
   
6. bedala inne demawpiyo ekkada, wenamada? - Separately.
   
7. bedapu eka gena sathutu wenawada pasuthawenawada? Really happy.
   
8. kasada jiwithe thiyena sathuta mokadda? - Children, Sharing everything with a person (feelings to physical things)
   
9. kella badinna kalin kohomada dan kohomada(gthi guna, thamanta salakana wdiya)? People change with the time and it's necessary to survive. There is a big difference between a girl and mother.
   
10. badinna kalin thibuna aadare thaama thiyenawada? Bonds doesn't change. But how we show it change with other priorities.
    
11. nandamma leli, baana nandamma sambande kohomada? I don't give a fuck.
    
12. bedala kochchara kaalayak sex life eke fun eka thibunada? Still enjoy but without an excitement.
    
13. bedala kaalayak giyaama aadare thibunath sex paththen wifewa epa wenawada? Guys are guys!
    
14. kochchara kalekata sarayak denna film, diner out, trip ynawada? Once a week.
    
15. lamai hdanawada nadda? lamai hadanna hethuwa mokadda? Have a son. Because children are the most precious thing in life.
    
16. denata paul jiwithe athule thiyena lokuma prashne mokadda? Actually nothing. May be because I managed to be financially stable in a short term of time (after our marriage).

 

[viennaa]

Kammeli novi meke thiyana thread kiyawala prashna ahapan,

 

[mr4G]

Have you ever stopped to realize what an utter selfish thought that it ?

Have children simply as a future investment

Nah bro., me and my wife both came into an agreement long before we even thought of marriage that NO KIDS will be our first and foremost solid policy without exceptions.

We dont have any need to "extend our generation" as we have enough Brothers and Sisters which have taken care of that... and we both dont like children as a concept.

Its' a completely different scenario when a couple wants to have kids but couldnt get pregnant etc...but we just don't want kids and it's never a part of our life.

ube wife tikak sarai wage neh
randu wenwada denna
thawa aurudu 10kin wtra thanikamk danei kiyala hithenne nadda?

For the first time, I have to agree with you

ai ehnm uba lamai hadanne?

ochchara hithanawanam badhinna epa yako mahana weyan.mahana unu samaharu oya kisi deyak nathuwa oya okkoma gnata karanawa.

1. thaman kasada badinna hethuwa mokadda? - To live a better life.
   
2. kochchara kalayak asrya krlada bande? bedala kochcharakalda? - 1 year, Almost 6 years
   
3. wayasa kiyedida bande? - 30-33
   
4. bande love afir ekakinda proposal ekakinda? - Love
   
5. dowry ekata monada hambune? - Didn't expect and didn't get
   
6. bedala inne demawpiyo ekkada, wenamada? - Separately.
   
7. bedapu eka gena sathutu wenawada pasuthawenawada? Really happy.
   
8. kasada jiwithe thiyena sathuta mokadda? - Children, Sharing everything with a person (feelings to physical things)
   
9. kella badinna kalin kohomada dan kohomada(gthi guna, thamanta salakana wdiya)? People change with the time and it's necessary to survive. There is a big difference between a girl and mother.
   
10. badinna kalin thibuna aadare thaama thiyenawada? Bonds doesn't change. But how we show it change with other priorities.
    
11. nandamma leli, baana nandamma sambande kohomada? I don't give a fuck.
    
12. bedala kochchara kaalayak sex life eke fun eka thibunada? Still enjoy but without an excitement.
    
13. bedala kaalayak giyaama aadare thibunath sex paththen wifewa epa wenawada? Guys are guys!
    
14. kochchara kalekata sarayak denna film, diner out, trip ynawada? Once a week.
    
15. lamai hdanawada nadda? lamai hadanna hethuwa mokadda? Have a son. Because children are the most precious thing in life.
    
16. denata paul jiwithe athule thiyena lokuma prashne mokadda? Actually nothing. May be because I managed to be financially stable in a short term of time (after our marriage).

 

[Big Cass]

Bf කැමති වෙවි ඔයාගෙ වයිෆ්ට...

කවුද Bf

australian ,new zealand waduroda kulappu keruwe
lankawe kalu wadurada kulappu keruwe

කළු වදුරා

 

[JohnSnow]

Umbe answer set eken theruna umba thama awuruddai kiyala

මාත් ඕකමයි කියන්න හිටියේ.. අවුරුදු 10ක පලපුරුද්ද තියෙන අයකුගේ මේ ටිකට පිලිතුරු අවශ්‍යයි.

 

[mr4G]

කමෙන්ට් එකක් දාන්නම්...ඒත් අවුල් වෙන්න එපා...පේන දේ තමයි කියන්නේ...මුලින්ම කියපන් උබගෙ වයසයි ...රැකියා ක්ශේත්‍රයයි..???

25
IT field eke jobak krnne

 

[mr4G]

මාත් ඕකමයි කියන්න හිටියේ.. අවුරුදු 10ක පලපුරුද්ද තියෙන අයකුගේ මේ ටිකට පිලිතුරු අවශ්‍යයි.

banda muladi hamoma aspen inne
matath ona ehema 5+ unath aulk na

 

[Master malli]

Have you ever stopped to realize what an utter selfish thought that it ?

Have children simply as a future investment

Nah bro., me and my wife both came into an agreement long before we even thought of marriage that NO KIDS will be our first and foremost solid policy without exceptions.

We dont have any need to "extend our generation" as we have enough Brothers and Sisters which have taken care of that... and we both dont like children as a concept.

Its' a completely different scenario when a couple wants to have kids but couldnt get pregnant etc...but we just don't want kids and it's never a part of our life.

Living together hitiya wage

 

[Ashman]

අද සෙනසුරාදා නිසා අපේ කොල්ලෝ ටික ක්ලාස් ගිහින් බන් ඇත්තේ. හවස් වෙලා ක්ලාස් ඉවරවුණාම අපේ කොල්ලන්ගෙන් උත්තර ටිකක් ගන්න පුලුවන්

 

[Nash_Node]

ube wife tikak sarai wage neh
randu wenwada denna
thawa aurudu 10kin wtra thanikamk danei kiyala hithenne nadda?

I am already married for 10+ years

and no... she's a total cuddle bunny and a saint. The type that keeps quiet when I steam over. She's more like a very deep reservoir that doesnt stir even when an earthquake hits....Her idea of a fight is usually not making my tea in the morning and driving off to work without waking me up. So my punishment is having to drink the shit tea our maid makes and being late to work

 

[Nash_Node]

Living together hitiya wage

bad analogy... you dont know either what living-together nor marriage means at all.

 

[wildone]

I am already married for 10+ years

and no... she's a total cuddle bunny and a saint. The type that keeps quiet when I steam over. She's more like a very deep reservoir that doesnt stir even when an earthquake hits....Her idea of a fight is usually not making my tea in the morning and driving off to work without waking me up. So my punishment is having to drink the shit tea our maid makes and being late to work

Lucky you. some would kill to have that sort of a wife. I have not even thought about getting married yet but by the way some of my married colleagues interact with their wives i can imagine the bitching an whining of them. but again i think a wife's behavior could depend on her husband, how valuable he is to her and her respect and admiration.