What The FUCK Wrong with People

maxtalker

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    I think the problem here is single motherhood is rising around the world. This could be your kids in the future. Children who grow up in single parent households are less successful than kids with both parents and this is a fact.

    That's I agree. The question we need to ask is when see someone get a divorce is not "Whats fuck wrong with people" but think "What went wrong".
    If couple couldn't makes things right they should get a divorce/separate .

    Many married couples who needs a divorce aren't getting one because of people like the original poster snoop around and asking "What's the fuck wrong" and try to become cultural police. What to do if there is no love anymore. Check how many homicides / assaults /household violence happen in the country just because of this. I think that harm children more than single motherhood.

    Don't get this wrong, I'm happily married since long time. But I've seen many cases how much people suffer just because they can't go for a divorce.
     

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    හිතෙන්නෙ නැද්ද marriage කියන එක අපි හෙන සාමන්‍යයි කියල හිතන් හිටියට ඒක හෙන අසාමන්‍යයි කියල
    I mean we are supposed to stay with this one person for the rest of our life and not have sex with anyone except with our partner.
    Am I the only one who see this state of affairs as highly unnatural and goes against human nature?
    Don't get me wrong
    There are some people who are meant to be together.
    But I don't think that is for everyone.
     

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    I think the problem here is single motherhood is rising around the world. This could be your kids in the future. Children who grow up in single parent households are less successful than kids with both parents and this is a fact.
    The first world will be full of unsuccessful people 😱
     
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    හිතෙන්නෙ නැද්ද marriage කියන එක අපි හෙන සාමන්‍යයි කියල හිතන් හිටියට ඒක හෙන අසාමන්‍යයි කියල
    I mean we are supposed to stay with this one person for the rest of our life and not have sex with anyone except with our partner.
    Am I the only one who see this state of affairs as highly unnatural and goes against human nature?
    Don't get me wrong
    There are some people who are meant to be together.
    But I don't think that is for everyone.
    Strongly Agreed.
    This is the main reason I never wanna get married.
     

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    හැමකෙනාම බදිනවනේ කියල රැල්ලට බදින්න ගියාම ඔහොම තමයි. තමනුත් ඉවරයි, ගෑනු කෙනයි,දරුවොයි ඔක්කොම ටිකත් අනාතයි.
    ow bn okkoma ewun badinne rallata ekthama aththa anthimnata devorce wenwa ithn
     
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    හිතෙන්නෙ නැද්ද marriage කියන එක අපි හෙන සාමන්‍යයි කියල හිතන් හිටියට ඒක හෙන අසාමන්‍යයි කියල
    I mean we are supposed to stay with this one person for the rest of our life and not have sex with anyone except with our partner.
    Am I the only one who see this state of affairs as highly unnatural and goes against human nature?
    Don't get me wrong
    There are some people who are meant to be together.
    But I don't think that is for everyone.

    Human were not evolved into marriage. They roam and hunt/gather food. Meantime they breed
    The entire concept being together for few years came in order to protect their babies
    The concept marriage came after agricultural era where people stayed in same land to cultivate

    Living together is ok, but if you have chosen i will be living with this person its ok to marry because there will be legal issues sometime later
    As an Male person died and if he has properties/assets, partner does not have a claim but husbands parents/siblings have the claim. If they have not opened joined accounts even she cannot have anything

    So i think its ok to get married (For law) but also if things are not going well it should be ok to get divorced
     

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    අපි ගන්න හැම තීරණයක්ම හරියටම හරියන්න ගන්න බෑනේ බන්. නොගැලපෙන අය වෙන් වෙන එක හොඳයි. නීතියෙනුත් ඉඩ දීලා තියෙන්නෙ ඒ නිසයි. ඒත් ඔය වෙන් වීම දරුවො හැදුවට පස්සෙ වෙන එකයි අවුල. මහ උන් නිසා පොඩි උන් දුක් විඳින එකයි වෙන්නෙ. අපි උන් මුල් දවසෙම ගෑනිව බඩ කරනවා. අවුරුදු 2ක් 3ක් යනකොට මහ උන්ට එකට ඉන්න බැරි වෙනවා. කිරිසප්පයො පව්. ළමයි හදන එක අවුරුදු 2ක් 3ක් පරක්කු වෙලා කරන්න ඕනේ.
     

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    හිතෙන්නෙ නැද්ද marriage කියන එක අපි හෙන සාමන්‍යයි කියල හිතන් හිටියට ඒක හෙන අසාමන්‍යයි කියල
    I mean we are supposed to stay with this one person for the rest of our life and not have sex with anyone except with our partner.
    Am I the only one who see this state of affairs as highly unnatural and goes against human nature?
    Don't get me wrong
    There are some people who are meant to be together.
    But I don't think that is for everyone.
    100% agree with you.

    manasikawa durwala minissu badeem hoynawa. nidahse inna ema tama hodama 😊
    Yes
    ------ Post added on Dec 17, 2021 at 1:40 PM

    ow bn okkoma ewun badinne rallata ekthama aththa anthimnata devorce wenwa ithn
    What I believe in also same.
    A person should marry not once his age is mature but once he is mentally mature
    ------ Post added on Dec 17, 2021 at 1:42 PM

    Human were not evolved into marriage. They roam and hunt/gather food. Meantime they breed
    The entire concept being together for few years came in order to protect their babies
    The concept marriage came after agricultural era where people stayed in same land to cultivate

    Living together is ok, but if you have chosen i will be living with this person its ok to marry because there will be legal issues sometime later
    As an Male person died and if he has properties/assets, partner does not have a claim but husbands parents/siblings have the claim. If they have not opened joined accounts even she cannot have anything

    So i think its ok to get married (For law) but also if things are not going well it should be ok to get divorced
    Agreed
    ------ Post added on Dec 17, 2021 at 1:43 PM
     

    MAX2500W

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    The first world will be full of unsuccessful people 😱
    Relatively. Most of the rich / elite families know this and ensure both parents stay together.

    I dont mean guys like bill gates. They are nobodies compared the people running things.

    Think more along the lines of Rothchild Family , which is a elite family
     

    hansanax

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    Human were not evolved into marriage. They roam and hunt/gather food. Meantime they breed
    The entire concept being together for few years came in order to protect their babies
    The concept marriage came after agricultural era where people stayed in same land to cultivate

    Living together is ok, but if you have chosen i will be living with this person its ok to marry because there will be legal issues sometime later
    As an Male person died and if he has properties/assets, partner does not have a claim but husbands parents/siblings have the claim. If they have not opened joined accounts even she cannot have anything

    So i think its ok to get married (For law) but also if things are not going well it should be ok to get divorced
    Apes live in groups where there is a rigid dominance hierarchy for males.
    Every male ape knows where is his place in the dominance hierarchy.
    The Higher you go up in the dominance hierarchy there is more chance of having sex.
    Of course, there is sex outside of those rigid boundaries, but generally, group members tend to uphold this structure.
    I think it is entirely fair to assume ancient humans lived in groups that are more or less similar to this.
    The access to females is rigidly controlled by this social structure.
    I think human groups grew larger and larger and enforcing this dominance hierarchy became more difficult,
    and the dominance hierarchy at least on some level broke down therefore giving rise to lifelong monogamous relationships.

    ps: the babies were being looked after by the group collectively,
    each baby would have a mother but not a father.
    that is why I think the single parent argument is a bunch of BS.
     
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    Apes live in groups where there is a rigid dominance hierarchy for males.
    Every male ape knows where is his place in the dominance hierarchy.
    The Higher you go up in the dominance hierarchy there is more chance of having sex.
    Of course, there is sex outside of those rigid boundaries, but generally, group members tend to uphold this structure.
    I think it is entirely fair to assume ancient humans lived in groups that are more or less similar to this.
    The access to females is rigidly controlled by this social structure.
    I think human groups grew larger and larger and enforcing this dominance hierarchy became more difficult,
    and the dominance hierarchy at least on some level broke down therefore giving rise to lifelong monogamous relationships.
    I feel with these SM and apps like tinder this monogamous relationship are slowly disappearing.humans evolve right.we cannot say it will be good or bad untill it happens.
     
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    hansanax

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    I feel with these SM and apps like tinder this monogamous relationship are slowly disappearing.humans evolve right.we cannot say it will be good or bad untill it happens.

    humans are reverting back to their primordial form
    I think we never fully abandoned that dominance hierarchy thing.
    kings and powerful people always had multiple partners.
    and the women always tend to gravitate toward powerful men.
    and deep down every male knew his place in the dominance hierarchy.
    Marriage thing has been a useful fiction to form a functioning society, that's all.
    useful fiction in the sense that;
    although I am going to say I will have no other partner besides you for the rest of my life.
    everybody knows everybody sleeps around.
    but that "lie" is going to help to form a functioning human society.
     

    kj1

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    humans are reverting back to their primordial form
    I think we never fully abandoned that dominance hierarchy thing.
    kings and powerful people always had multiple partners.
    and the women always tend to gravitate toward powerful men.
    and deep down every male knew his place in the dominance hierarchy.
    Marriage thing has been a useful fiction to form a functioning society, that's all.
    useful fiction in the sense that;
    although I am going to say I will have no other partner besides you for the rest of my life.
    everybody knows everybody sleeps around.
    but that "lie" is going to help to form a functioning human society.
    Agreed. May be technology will come to human aid.but that's a big may be since we are talking about sexual pleasure.