she is bad for my health - This is the best thing you have learned from that past experience. SuperbYeah, it happened to me two hours ago. She just popped out on Instagram with a message request saying "hi" And I was drunk. Fuck, I told everything that I had in my mind. I used to curse her and hate her, But no more. It was useless and it returned to me.
And she said she has no more boyfriend currently. And I don't want to hook up with her again. definitely, she is bad for my health. I don't want to ruin my life again. My 20s were fucking messed up with her, partially. I don't want to fuck it again.
@Himazharin tell me about your idea about this if you are in my shoes.
I had the exact same experience, in my early twenties and she wanted to come back into my life after 7-8 years... But, I let her speak to me as a friend or a person I know, and nothing more than that. She left me, and her parents forced her to do so because I was fucking poor back then.. even her parents wanted to hook her back with me after realizing what I have become after she left me ..
let them go ban.. un nathi unata passe name ubage life eka sirawatama goda giye, un life eke inna eka patta toxic.. un eliyen inna tharamata apita hodai.. this applies for both girls and boys
ado eki hena naki wela athi neda?...must be husband is going after another one. she remembered you... thats the usual case