මචන් introvert වෙන එක කිසි ප්රශ්නයක් නෑ ලව් එකකට යන්න. උබ කිසි කමකට නැති මෙලෝ දෙයක් නැති වගකීමක් ගන්න බැරි නිකමෙක් වගේ එකෙක් නෙමෙයි නම් බය නැතුව කෙල්ලෙක්ට ටෝක් කරපන්. ගොඩක් උන් එක්කෝ ක්රශ් එක හරි ඩ්රීම් ගෑනි හරි මොකක් හරි හුත්තක් කියාගෙන, ලොවෙත් කැමති නොවෙන, එක ම ගෑනියෙක් පස්සෙ දිගට ම වැටිලා ඉන්න එක. වටේ ම ඉන්න ගෑනුන්ගේ කිබි siබින්න කියලා නෙමෙයි කියන්නෙ. එක්කෝ නැත්නම් කැමත්ත අහලා අකමැති උනා ම ඒක දරා ගන්න බැරුව තමන් ගැන කලකිරෙනවා එහෙම නැත්නම් කෙල්ලට බලපෑම් කරනවා. ඒ දෙක ම නොවී reject උනා ම මිනිහෙක් වගේ නැගිටලා වෙන කෙනෙක්ට ට්රයි කරන්න. අකමතැති උනා කියලා ලැජ්ජ වෙන්න පොලවේ හැපෙන්න ඕන නෑ. කොහොම නමුත් එක පාර ගොඩක් රන් කරන්නත් එපා.හම්බ වෙන කෙල්ලට හොදට ආදරේ කරන්න වෙන ගෑනු ගැන වද වෙන්නත් එපා.ඒක introvert කෙනෙක්ට කරන්න බැරි නෑ
Mmmmmmmmmm....this reminds me of someone I knew.
When I was in school, I was an introverted person (not extremely introverted), and I didn't have many friends. I didn't have any social media accounts, and I didn't like to travel or hang out with friends. Home was my comfort zone.
When I was in grade 12, I started a relationship with a boy who was extremely extroverted. He had so many friends, was on all social media platforms, traveled, hung out with friends, and went to parties - his life was full. But when it came to me, he was the only person I talked to and hung out with.
At the beginning of the relationship, everything was right. We felt like soulmates and had a bond that was so special, words can't describe it (he's still very special to me).
But after a year or two, I felt that he wasn't giving me his attention. He barely checked my messages, was online with his friends, but when I texted him, he didn't even open my messages. I felt insecure and depressed at the same time, overwhelmed by loneliness. So, I tried to get his attention by being possessive and controlling, attempting to change him, even though it was neither his fault nor mine.
Every relationship should have a balance. If you're introverted, make sure to date someone with whom you feel secure. It doesn't matter if they're introverted, extroverted, or ambivert; the key is finding someone who understands you and your situation.