What do you do when u get angry!!!!!

VSGM

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    Here are 4 steps to control your anger and have it vent in proper ways.
    1. Count to 10 when you are getting upset. This is a normal way that we have all heard. We have heard it because it works if you practice it. Count to 10 and you may solve many of your outbursts before they happen.
    2. Do something that is physically exerting. Instead of punching a wall or a person, go run around the house, or mow the yard. Go for a walk, swim, bikeride, or shoot some hoops. This can provide a physical outlet for your emotions.
    3. Find something that is calming. Try deep breathing from your diaphragm. Take 10 deep calming breaths. This can be very soothing for most people. Combine this with step 1 and count to 10 slowly while breathing.
    4. Use “I” statements instead of “you” statements. I am frustrated because you didn’t help with the housework, instead of You didn’t help me with the housework. This helps in multiple ways one is your way of thinking is a bit better and you also do not upset the other person so that both parties are angry. Which of course is not a good outcome for anyone.
    You can combine multiple steps above to help alleviate anger. Don’t hold it in, but don’t blow up. Calm yourself down and talk about it by using step number 4 above. Go for a swim or a nice shower, and you can alleviate the stresses that cause unhealthy anger.

    do u do all these?? :shocked::shocked::lol::lol:

    I haven't see u do :P
     

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    How do you Control or anger?? :rofl:

    pls don't get angry to me :P

    wont shout like this but can control
     

    diamonddrago

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    Well sometimes i just get angry and do wat everyone does...take it out on the person who made me angry....AND the people arund me.....:(

    sometimes i swallow my anger...and distract myself....by playing games....

    and if i cannot distract myself....i just meditate....
    :lol::lol:

    AND HOW DARE U ASK ME THIS Q......jk jk
     

    reshadie

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    Here are 4 steps to control your anger and have it vent in proper ways.
    1. Count to 10 when you are getting upset. This is a normal way that we have all heard. We have heard it because it works if you practice it. Count to 10 and you may solve many of your outbursts before they happen.
    2. Do something that is physically exerting. Instead of punching a wall or a person, go run around the house, or mow the yard. Go for a walk, swim, bikeride, or shoot some hoops. This can provide a physical outlet for your emotions.
    3. Find something that is calming. Try deep breathing from your diaphragm. Take 10 deep calming breaths. This can be very soothing for most people. Combine this with step 1 and count to 10 slowly while breathing.
    4. Use “I” statements instead of “you” statements. I am frustrated because you didn’t help with the housework, instead of You didn’t help me with the housework. This helps in multiple ways one is your way of thinking is a bit better and you also do not upset the other person so that both parties are angry. Which of course is not a good outcome for anyone.
    You can combine multiple steps above to help alleviate anger. Don’t hold it in, but don’t blow up. Calm yourself down and talk about it by using step number 4 above. Go for a swim or a nice shower, and you can alleviate the stresses that cause unhealthy anger.

    mata nam mewa hari yanne na. langa paatha thiyana monawa hari polee gahuwoth nam tharaha niwei
     

    RuwinRTY

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    uguru ridenakan kegahala kegahala, ita passe yanawa para dige ohe ewidina gena, yana gaman pare wetial thiyena arawata mewahata gahanawa.... lol :P :lol: ita passe aith back to hm thama :rofl:

    man kiyannam honda wadak
    eiffel eke udata pallehaata naginna
    me dawas wala seethal hinda eiffel eke yakada cooool wela atthe
    eka hinda ikmanata tharaha adu wei
     

    VSGM

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    Well sometimes i just get angry and do wat everyone does...take it out on the person who made me angry....AND the people arund me.....:(

    sometimes i swallow my anger...and distract myself....by playing games....

    and if i cannot distract myself....i just meditate....
    :lol::lol:

    AND HOW DARE U ASK ME THIS Q......jk jk

    :):)