වැල කතාවක් හදන්න හොද පසුබිම් කතාවක් වගේ නේ සුන්දරයනි ;-)

Sinhalese Victor

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    I found out something about my mom and it’s messing me up bad…​

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    So yeah… this is the hardest thing I’ve ever had to write. I’m 20, and I come from a pretty normal middle class family. Nothing fancy.
    A few days ago, I found out something I was never supposed to see. I accidentally saw my mom’s chat with a guy. At first, I thought it was chill, just some old friend. But then I noticed a lot of her messages were deleted. That gave me a bad gut feeling.
    I ended up checking again and saw more of their convo. They’ve been texting each other that they love each other. It’s romantic. Flirty. And I feel sick even typing that.
    They also talk on calls sometimes. I haven’t caught one live yet, but it’s clear they’re close. Way too close.
    Since then, I haven’t been okay. My head is constantly spinning, I feel like I’m gonna break. I can’t sleep, can’t eat right, and I’m overthinking 24/7. I’m trying to act normal around everyone but it’s killing me inside.
    I don’t wanna expose anything or blow it up. I don’t even wanna talk to her. I just feel betrayed, stuck, and heartbroken.
    The worst part? I have a younger brother still doing school stuff and he’s got A/L exams soon. I’m worried what would happen to him if anything goes down. I also think about just… leaving. Moving out. Starting fresh. But I don’t know if that’s fair to my brother or even possible right now.
    I feel trapped in my own house. Like I’m carrying a bomb and I can’t let it go off. I don’t want drama, I don’t want my fam destroyed. But this secret is eating me alive.
    Has anyone ever gone through something like this? What did you do? Am I being dramatic or do I have a right to feel this way?
    I just want someone to tell me what the hell I’m supposed to do. Because I seriously feel like I’m losing it.
    One more thing to mention: And yes, I do have a dad. He’s still with us. I just didn’t mention him earlier because this post was more about what I’m dealing with emotionally. But yeah he’s here, and that honestly makes this so much worse. He loves my mom and us more than anything. He has no clue what’s going on, and I don’t think he deserves to be hurt like this. It’s tearing me up inside just keeping it all in.
     

    nevermindNevergiveup

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    I found out something about my mom and it’s messing me up bad…​

    Serious replies only


    So yeah… this is the hardest thing I’ve ever had to write. I’m 20, and I come from a pretty normal middle class family. Nothing fancy.
    A few days ago, I found out something I was never supposed to see. I accidentally saw my mom’s chat with a guy. At first, I thought it was chill, just some old friend. But then I noticed a lot of her messages were deleted. That gave me a bad gut feeling.
    I ended up checking again and saw more of their convo. They’ve been texting each other that they love each other. It’s romantic. Flirty. And I feel sick even typing that.
    They also talk on calls sometimes. I haven’t caught one live yet, but it’s clear they’re close. Way too close.
    Since then, I haven’t been okay. My head is constantly spinning, I feel like I’m gonna break. I can’t sleep, can’t eat right, and I’m overthinking 24/7. I’m trying to act normal around everyone but it’s killing me inside.
    I don’t wanna expose anything or blow it up. I don’t even wanna talk to her. I just feel betrayed, stuck, and heartbroken.
    The worst part? I have a younger brother still doing school stuff and he’s got A/L exams soon. I’m worried what would happen to him if anything goes down. I also think about just… leaving. Moving out. Starting fresh. But I don’t know if that’s fair to my brother or even possible right now.
    I feel trapped in my own house. Like I’m carrying a bomb and I can’t let it go off. I don’t want drama, I don’t want my fam destroyed. But this secret is eating me alive.
    Has anyone ever gone through something like this? What did you do? Am I being dramatic or do I have a right to feel this way?
    I just want someone to tell me what the hell I’m supposed to do. Because I seriously feel like I’m losing it.
    One more thing to mention: And yes, I do have a dad. He’s still with us. I just didn’t mention him earlier because this post was more about what I’m dealing with emotionally. But yeah he’s here, and that honestly makes this so much worse. He loves my mom and us more than anything. He has no clue what’s going on, and I don’t think he deserves to be hurt like this. It’s tearing me up inside just keeping it all in.
    This man’s mother was first & foremost a human being. So he should have respected her privacy.

    Read the tragic case of Hiruni from Finland. She might still be alive today if her 17yrs old son hadn’t interfered in their marital infidelity.
     
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    Chemist

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    Narcissistic Sociopath Manipulator
    අතේ ගහන්න කියල හිතලා කලිසමත් ගලවලා අතට ගත්තාම තමා මතක් වුණේ ඉංග්‍රීසි බැහැ කියලා. මොකක්ද ගැනද මේ වැල කථාව?

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    Gingy

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    අතේ ගහන්න කියල හිතලා කලිසමත් ගලවලා අතට ගත්තාම තමා මතක් වුණේ ඉංග්‍රීසි බැහැ කියලා. මොකක්ද ගැනද මේ වැල කථාව?

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    Sinhalese Victor

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    This man’s mother was first & foremost a human being. So he should have respected her privacy.

    Read the tragic case of Hiruni from Finland. She might still be alive today if her 17yrs old son hadn’t interfered in their marital infidelity.
    You catholics don't have any morality anyway...You people don't even bother if families break apart!!!

    අතේ ගහන්න කියල හිතලා කලිසමත් ගලවලා අතට ගත්තාම තමා මතක් වුණේ ඉංග්‍රීසි බැහැ කියලා. මොකක්ද ගැනද මේ වැල කථාව?

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    බන් මන් කිව්වේ මේක වැල් කතාවක් හදන්න හොද පසුබිම් කතාවක් කියලා :D
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    nevermindNevergiveup

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    What happened to her? I can’t find any reasons for her death
    you mean Hiruni?

    She was stabbed multiple times by her husband after weeks of arguments regarding her texting with a young Sri Lankan man working in South Korea she'd never even met. Their tech savvy teen son had helped his father dig into the texts.
     

    itguy77

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    aththa wunath boru wunath

    mewa ge case ekakata muna denna wenwa kiyanne emotionally unstable teen kenekta lifetime mental case wenna puluwan scene ekak
    specially family ekata love eken inna ekekta.
    godak welwata ganu sanhathiyatama wayira karanne ehema ewun


    pera pinakata ape gewal wala ohoma dewal wela na,

    wuna nam hithaganna ba me kiyana mama wunath monwa karaganiyida kiyala e wage waysaka hitiya nam

    honest opinion eka