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jeewan tk

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    Mama me post eka dapu mul dawaswalamath kiuweuwa wage mathakai.eth matath jivithe weraduna.mamath mulinma hitha hitiye marry karaddi hodata hoyala balala hithala ganna ona thiranayak kiyala.eth mama harima moda widihata mage life eke gena thiranaya gaththe.mulinma dekkama eyage penuwmata, kathawata mama pissu wetuna.eyata akamathi wenna ,mata gelapenne kiyala hithanna hethu dahak thibunath mama eyage penumata, kathawata ahuwela iwarai.ithin mama eyata kemathi una.adare kala api athara kochara nogalapim thibunath.mama puluwan tharam eya wenuwen hedagehuna.eth matath simawak thiyenawane..meka liyapu kenata wage matath jiwithe weraduna.eken api dennagema jiwithe winasa una, mama moda widihata thirana gaththa nisa. den mama widawanawa.

    meka kiyawana ubalatath mama kiyanne wiwahaya genanam siyaparak hithala ganna ona thiranayak kiyala..mata me aththme weraduna..ubala ehema karaganna epa.
     

    acryan

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    thawa ekake mama nikan dakka deyake harida danne na , oya school kale + uni ekadi sports karapu , car ekake thaniyama drive karagena (specially manual ekake ;)) age 20 idan thamange wada karanaganna , lamaiyita adare , sathunta adare , hama welama hina wela inna , drinks gannawata awulake nathi kellke nam normally anith ayata wada hodaiyi from my experience ;)
     
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    SLhuman

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    Compatibility

    Should be able to think alike. Should be able to weigh advantages vs disadvantages. And specially they should have future goals and should support each others goals also. And parents from both parties should understand the goals and support also. If we earn more than them, and if we can provide a roof above their head and provide food on the table, some respect should be given to us. Some people are too attached to family and is clingy af. Avoid these kind of people.

    And never be with a person who under-estimates you, your education and your goals.


    I stopped my 6 years of relationship because of these points.


    spot on machan....rather die like a lion than die a coward and live a stressed life. if they cant give some respect no point.Women have this thinking that we are the providers and they should just stay at home and do nothing..if we ask them they say are you not ashamed to ask me to do it I am a woman??:confused::confused:
     

    Mr.Myself

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    thawa ekake mama nikan dakka deyake harida danne na , oya school kale + uni ekadi sports karapu , car ekake thaniyama drive karagena (specially manual ekake ;)) age 20 idan thamange wada karanaganna , lamaiyita adare , sathunta adare , hama welama hina wela inna , drinks gannawata awulake nathi kellke nam normally anith ayata wada hodaiyi from my experience ;)

    No. Hithen awlak naththath, umbata adareta boruwata hari epa kiyanawa machan hoda kellek nam.
     

    gihan798114

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    spot on machan....rather die like a lion than die a coward and live a stressed life. if they cant give some respect no point.Women have this thinking that we are the providers and they should just stay at home and do nothing..if we ask them they say are you not ashamed to ask me to do it I am a woman??:confused::confused:

    never back down, amen brother, amen :cool:
     

    chethana kalan

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    අපේ කාලේ වගේ නෙවිනේ දැන්. අම්මෝ මට නම් මැරෙන්න බැහැ. අයිත් ඉස්කෝලේ යන්න උනොතින් කියල හිතෙද්දි බයයි.අපිට තිබ්බ නිදහස දැන් දරුවොන්ට කෝ. ඒ නිසා ගන්න තීරණේ හොඳට හිතල බලල ගන්න.