සමලින්ගික සේවනයට උපදෙස් (18+)
මචන්ලා කාටත් මම කියල තියනවානේ මගේ ලින්ගිකත්වය ගැන? ගිය සතියේ මමයි, මගේ අවුරුදු දෙකක පෙම්වතායි විවාහ ගිවිසගත්තා එන්ගලන්තයේ බර්මින්හැම් නගරේ.
අද මම උඹලට කියලා දෙන්න යන්නේ සමලින්ගික සේවනය.. නැතිනම් ගුදමාර්ග සන්සර්ගයේ යෙදෙන්නේ කොහොමද කියලා.
ඉතින් මම ද්රවිඩ නිසාත්, මගේ සින්හල එච්චර හොද නැති නිසාත්, ඉඞ්ලිශ් වලින් මේක ලියන්නම්. කියවලා බලලා හොදයි නම්, රෙපක් හරි බම්ප් එකක් හරි දාලා යන්න.
කාටහරි අපහාසයක් වුනානම්, සමාව අයදිනවා. ඒත් මම දන්නවා එලකිරියෙත් මම වගේ කොල්ලන්ට කැමති එවුන් ඉන්නවා කියලා.
Historically, anal sex has been commonly associated with male homosexuality. However, many gay men and men who have sex with men in general (those who identify as gay, bisexual, heterosexual or have not identified their sexual identity) do not engage in anal sex.
Among men who have anal sex with other men, the insertive partner may be referred to as the top and the one being penetrated may be referred to as the bottom. Those who enjoy either role may be referred to as versatile.
Gay men who prefer anal sex may view it as their version of intercourse and a natural expression of intimacy capable of providing great pleasure.
The notion that it might resonate with gay men with the same emotional significance that vaginal sex resonates with heterosexuals has also been considered.
Some men who have sex with men, however, believe that being a receptive partner during anal sex questions their masculinity.
Men who have sex with men may also prefer to engage in frot or other forms of mutual masturbation because they find it more pleasurable or more affectionate, to preserve technical virginity, or as safe sex alternatives to anal sex, while other frot advocates denounce anal sex as degrading to the receptive partner and unnecessarily risky.
Pain during receptive anal sex among gay men (or men who have sex with men) is formally known as anodyspareunia. One study found that about 12% of gay men find it too painful to pursue receptive anal sex, and concluded that the perception of anal sex as painful is as likely to be psychologically or emotionally based as it is to be physically based. Another study that examined pain during insertive and receptive anal sex in gay men found that 3% of tops (insertive partners) and 16% of bottoms (receptive partners) reported significant pain. Factors predictive of pain during anal sex include inadequate lubrication, feeling tense or anxious, lack of stimulation, as well as lack of social ease with being gay and being closeted. Research has found that psychological factors can in fact be the primary contributors to the experience of pain during anal intercourse and that adequate communication between sexual partners can prevent it, countering the notion that pain is always inevitable during anal sex
Anal sex can expose participants to two principal dangers: infections due to the high number of infectious microorganisms not found elsewhere on the body, and physical damage to the anus and rectum due to their fragility.
Increased experimentation with anal sex by people without sound knowledge about risks and what safety measures do and do not work may be linked to an increase in sexually transmitted infections (STIs/STDs); for example, teenagers may consider vaginal intercourse riskier than anal intercourse and believe that a STI can only result from the former activity
මචන්ලා කාටත් මම කියල තියනවානේ මගේ ලින්ගිකත්වය ගැන? ගිය සතියේ මමයි, මගේ අවුරුදු දෙකක පෙම්වතායි විවාහ ගිවිසගත්තා එන්ගලන්තයේ බර්මින්හැම් නගරේ.
අද මම උඹලට කියලා දෙන්න යන්නේ සමලින්ගික සේවනය.. නැතිනම් ගුදමාර්ග සන්සර්ගයේ යෙදෙන්නේ කොහොමද කියලා.
ඉතින් මම ද්රවිඩ නිසාත්, මගේ සින්හල එච්චර හොද නැති නිසාත්, ඉඞ්ලිශ් වලින් මේක ලියන්නම්. කියවලා බලලා හොදයි නම්, රෙපක් හරි බම්ප් එකක් හරි දාලා යන්න.
කාටහරි අපහාසයක් වුනානම්, සමාව අයදිනවා. ඒත් මම දන්නවා එලකිරියෙත් මම වගේ කොල්ලන්ට කැමති එවුන් ඉන්නවා කියලා.
Historically, anal sex has been commonly associated with male homosexuality. However, many gay men and men who have sex with men in general (those who identify as gay, bisexual, heterosexual or have not identified their sexual identity) do not engage in anal sex.
Among men who have anal sex with other men, the insertive partner may be referred to as the top and the one being penetrated may be referred to as the bottom. Those who enjoy either role may be referred to as versatile.
Gay men who prefer anal sex may view it as their version of intercourse and a natural expression of intimacy capable of providing great pleasure.
The notion that it might resonate with gay men with the same emotional significance that vaginal sex resonates with heterosexuals has also been considered.
Some men who have sex with men, however, believe that being a receptive partner during anal sex questions their masculinity.
Men who have sex with men may also prefer to engage in frot or other forms of mutual masturbation because they find it more pleasurable or more affectionate, to preserve technical virginity, or as safe sex alternatives to anal sex, while other frot advocates denounce anal sex as degrading to the receptive partner and unnecessarily risky.
Pain during receptive anal sex among gay men (or men who have sex with men) is formally known as anodyspareunia. One study found that about 12% of gay men find it too painful to pursue receptive anal sex, and concluded that the perception of anal sex as painful is as likely to be psychologically or emotionally based as it is to be physically based. Another study that examined pain during insertive and receptive anal sex in gay men found that 3% of tops (insertive partners) and 16% of bottoms (receptive partners) reported significant pain. Factors predictive of pain during anal sex include inadequate lubrication, feeling tense or anxious, lack of stimulation, as well as lack of social ease with being gay and being closeted. Research has found that psychological factors can in fact be the primary contributors to the experience of pain during anal intercourse and that adequate communication between sexual partners can prevent it, countering the notion that pain is always inevitable during anal sex
Anal sex can expose participants to two principal dangers: infections due to the high number of infectious microorganisms not found elsewhere on the body, and physical damage to the anus and rectum due to their fragility.
Increased experimentation with anal sex by people without sound knowledge about risks and what safety measures do and do not work may be linked to an increase in sexually transmitted infections (STIs/STDs); for example, teenagers may consider vaginal intercourse riskier than anal intercourse and believe that a STI can only result from the former activity
