just said:
first thing i should clearly say is i agree 100% with you on this.the most important point from where we should see this is what you have stated here.
- we all have our line somewhere: there are two extreme ends, cover head to toe and ware virtually nothing at all (yes i do think its extremism too, not sure why ppl dont notice it as much as other one
). now between both this points people find their own "modest to dress like this" point.but disagree among themselves to com into a standard. (for your info even my wife and me disagree on interpretations and sometimes have dialouges abt this, obvioisly as the person doing it she's concerned mo but generally we agree 
)
now wat islam has done is given that standard (ok at this very moment i hope i wasnt label as brainwashed as well
). i accept it for these reasons
- although we all agree there should be a limit, there are no other instances i find where a common set of instructions found like this. if you have then show me ill consider for sure.
- but again if u say it cannot or shouldnt be a standard like that. then you definitely will leave one option to your son/daughters uncurrupted innocent minds in future one day.thats naked women (and men) doing their sick stuff in tv, road, movies,web etc everywhere in the name of freedom and you just have to watch your precious child drowning into this helplessly..(you must be knowing incest is common word already in the society now, a son looking at his mom in such a sickening way
)
i have no personel grudge with you, but again and again im sticking to my stance cos. theres no time left for this. you can say we cant have bedroom stuff in public television. but thats exactly happening in light speed.
now i know this is being told to u over and over again. but since its something to do with your personel freedom you'll always take a defensive stance.
what im telling you is NOT TO ACCEPT THIS AND FOLLOW IT,NO WAY: but to educate yourself on this.
- first islam doesnt say like cover from head to toe (this is what they show in FOX and CNN for obviouse reasons
)
- islam prohibits killing of innocent people.
- so dont judge a religion by few extremists, not only islam but any other religions (refer here for more about this )
again when someone says find about a religion first thing comes to mind is ok now im gona be brainwashed.
so its upto you as a concerned future mom, to check wat you can do to contribute towards a safer future for your child...
but all what i ask you is please dont put down a hope, that i can have atleast to secure my childrens future when all this sick stuff get out of grip and start crushing innocent childrens lifes in the name of "freedom", becouse of few haters comments and few extremists acts,that are more highlighted than the majority.
thanks
i agree with u... so do u let ur wife wear wat she wants tho?
one thing i DO NOT DO is judge a religion. i have no problem against any single religion in this world, so dont take it that way, as i told teenstar in another post, my best friend is muslim. i would never judge a person for their beleifs. now i do sometimes get shocked or surprised or evn dumbfounded on some things that people do, like when i went to sri lanka the first time it was a complete culture shock to me, especially when they told us not to drink cold water u know simple stuff like that is just beyond me. BUT. i would never judge a person by wat they beleive in cuz i wouldnt want to to be judged for wat i beleive in. i sometimes think, about all different religions, wat all the different people beleive in and i would never give up on my faith, but i think a person sometimes wonders, wat if none of them are real even, wat if we are all holding on to a false hope. who is to say thatone religion is better than another? its not! thats wat the word faith is all about, u dont know wat is there, but u have faith, and some peoples faith is more stronger than others.
now im not calling anyone brainwashed here, i was looking at all the arguments and the comments and saw some people saying muslims are brainwashed this and that watever watever, i was having lunch yesterday by the world trade centers (where they used to be) and i couldnt eat my lunch by looking around and just imagining wat it looked like right where i was sitting on that day, and imagining wat the hell i would have done if i had seen a 757 crash into a buiolding i would have had a heart attack on the spot! i was talking to my husband, i said to him... WHY????? why would someone do that, that is my question for all terrorists acts of the world. WHY??? my husband said to me one simple word that i saw alot of sinhala peole on this thread say ..."BRAINWASHED". i do beleive that those men who are bin ladens little entourage are absolutely brainwashed. to me they dont see Allah as their God, they see bin laden as their God... he is the one who told them that this is Allahs way... this is the way to get into heaven. yes they were told that. that is brainwashing there. and i beleive that they are also very vulnerable, they want so badly to follow Allah, and they will take these words, to kill innocent people b.c someone who claims to know wat Allah have said that it will get them into heaven. and i dont agree with that i wish they wouldnt follow that word, just to me its just like the ltte, these leaders BRAINWASH the followers into killing themselves giving them false hopes and false words, but why dont these leaders do it themselves? why dont bin laden do his dirty deeds on his own rther than getting these followers to do so by telling them wat Allah supposedly said? why dont that fat ass prabhakaran do his own suicide bombings rather than getting someone else to do them??? bc they know that they are liars and that doing so wont get them anywhere! thats what i mean when i say brainwashed in my point of view... those examples are no questions about it : brainwashed!
hope u understand wat i just wrote and dont think im talking about all muslims, cuz im not. im talking aout the terrorist groups al queda, ltte all brainwash these people into thinking for doing such work will get them into heaven
thats ashame
oh and as for the part about finding out about a new religion and people thinking that they will be brainwashed, that is stupid, anyone who thinks just learning about a new religion will be brainwashed then they are sooooo stupid. u know, i was born a christian and ill be christian til the day i die, unless tehre is proof that there are no such thing as "religions", BUT im so into other religions, i love other cultures, i love knowing wat they beleive in and the whole 9...... one religion ill say to u, i DO NOT LIKE hasidic jews. for real. i dont know wat their beleifs are, but there are alot of them here where i live, and i had to be in the hospital room with one after i had my baby, they are such nasty people, they have to worst attitudes and they FREAKIN STINK! no lie! i will say i do not like them for those reasons. that is a whole nother story but if anyone like to know just ask me.
if a person is strong enough in their beleifs to explore other religions, but stick to ur own religion, that is so great, and the way it should be. peole are way too easily influenced, just like the al queda group for example and the ltte. there is nothing wrog in getting to know other religions.
thats wats so great about being human 
