7 Conditions For a Woman's Dress In Islam

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hahahaaaaa I FREAKIN LOVE U GUYS!!!! i love this topic and i love all of the point of views and the witty comments from my girls......

i never knew it was to protect the women...k... i always heard they werent allowed to show the wrist or the hands or some shit. how come there are many different outfits for muslim women uh??? some of them are covered head to toe in black dress, even the face, the only thing exposed is the eyes, but then again tehre are muslims who wear jeans and a shirt with only a scarf over their head??

i feel bad for them as well.... and yes black DOES attract more heat... tehre is a black couple here i see them walking up and down the street soemtimes, and the woman is completely covered only her eyes are showing, and i feel so bad for her, cuz in the summertime here, its hotter than sri lanka even cuz this place is nothing but concrete (i live in new york city). i feel maybe one day she will have a heat stroke or something...


i think it should be her choice to wear those things or not, like its choice to wear salwar, or a sari.... and i dont agree on the more than one wife thing.... that is not protection to me, that is a sex addicted man whore :( of course no offense to any of u guys teenstar, i aint got nothin but love for the muslims, buddhists hindus and all my brothers and sisters, but for a person to marry more than one person is discusting and i wouldnt have it .... i would chop off his goods ;)
 

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KOOOOOOOLLL!!!

such a lotta ppl to the rescue of poor muslim women who are being slaved by the religion. some names here are familiar...heros :rolleyes:

i would like to clarify few things from those who seems so worried about those poor women for the way they choose to dress (thanks to the freedom to dress the way they like)

1. did any muslim women complain to you regarding this?

2. women in other religions (from mother theresa to lady buddist monks) do cover their body and shave their head etc as a act of deciplene.so do u guy feel sorry for them the same way?

3. in despite of rapes in muslim countries(how MANY?), hot summer in UK, concrete jungles in NewYork not only they seems to be wearing it, but new muslims women who converted on their own will seems adopting to it.can u all think of a reason?


Please answer...


these are just my thoughts:
  • Some people believe in something and choose to adopt their life to it.
  • Some people dont believe in anything but still respect others feelings.
  • Some people dont even know why they were born and think of their own life as a coincidence/ accident/ mistake (Nikan WAL Gas wage...:rolleyes:)
i dont see any positive outcom from answering/ discussion with the 3rd type.they just come to waste theirs and others time..:rofl::rofl:

OK I see someone coming this way...:lol::lol:
 
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With these words I address you – as someone of intelligence:

It is to you, the Cultivator of Generations, Producer or Great Men.

I will point out in it some of what Islam requires of the individual and the society concerning the rights of women .....

1. Have you seen the Jewel? Why is it that the people love it while it is simply a piece of stone? It is because it is not so easy to see it, nor can you touch it except by paying an exorbitant price. Similar is the case of the woman – it is forbidden for a man to see her or touch her, in order that he does not dishonor her. She is like an untouched (pure) jewel, which is affected by the least touch.

2. Have you seen how a rose wilts, withers, and loses it luster and beauty if it is touched too much. Likewise, the woman is not allowed to be touched except by one in a lawful relationship of marriage. And whoever attempts to touch her – unlawfully – will earn a severe punishment or death.

3. Do you know the punishment for one who violates the marriage trust and cheats on his wife? The penalty is death, since he has fallen short in regards to the jewel which is with him, in addition to transgressing the rights of others.

4. Have you seen a jewel searching for a person (to possess it)? The same is the case of the women, like a precious jewel, she is the one who is sought out, not the seeker. It is incumbent upon the man to seek her hand. And if she agrees to marry him, then he will present to her a marriage dowry and something from his wealth.

5. Consider the Ruler or Head of State – if every one were able to speak to him directly and sit in his presence, he wouldn't be held in awe, nor possess the same prestige and status amongst the people that he has. Similarly, the woman is like a noble Queen. It is not the right of every person to speak to her directly or sit in her presence; this is something allowed to the select few.

6. The Supreme Being has created the male strong of body in order that he may go out and earn his livelihood, even in difficult circumstances. This is so that he may serve the women and children of his family. As for the woman, she has been created gentle, soft and sensitive, so that she may cultivate the future generations. The man goes out and works with the natural elements, while the woman deals with the human being (raising the children).

7. What do you think would happen if a lion and gazelle were placed together in one place? Is it possible for them to co-exist? Obviously not! Likewise, it is of necessity that the man be separated from the woman, in the interest of the woman. She is beautiful, attractive and weak. Hence, the strong will overcome her and devour her and violate her chastity – even if she were not willing.

8. The woman who performs work equal to the work of a man is entitled to – and is given – the same salary as the man.

9. The woman is allowed to work in any occupation, which she is capable of, as long as it is in consonance with the nature of her delicate physique.

10. The woman – like man - is addressed in the divine revelation with responsibilities for which she - like man - is equally rewarded.

11. The woman is excused from certain religious ceremonies and obligations during her post-child birth and menstrual periods, since these conditions are a cause of weakness and hence, she is in need of rest and relaxation.

12. If a woman dies while giving birth to a child, she is rewarded with the highest station in Paradise.

13. The person who is killed while defending his mother, wife, daughter or sister will be rewarded with the highest station in Paradise.

14. It is permissible for a woman to seek a separation from her husband if he has failed to fulfill her marital rights.

15. Is there anything more valuable to the human being than his life? Indeed, the honor and dignity of women is more valuable, precious and important to the Muslim than his own life.

16. It is permissible for the woman to remarry – whomever she desires – if he is divorced from her husband or widowed.

17. If a woman possesses wealth, she is free to use it in any lawful way, without permission of anyone [father, husband or others].

18. The woman has the right to the inheritance of her relative – at the time of his death – even if he does not desire that she receive it.

19. It is obligatory upon the man to spend his wealth for the maintenance – housing, food, etc. – of those under his care including his mother, wife or daughter, even if he doesn't desire to do so.

20. The mother has been given preference over the father – three times over – concerning their right to kindness and benevolence from their children.

22. Whoever truly desires paradise – Know that paradise lies at the feet of the mother, for the one who pleases her.

23. Whoever has daughters and treats them well – they will be a cause of him being screened from the hell-fire.

23. If a man kills a woman intentionally, he no longer deserves to live and will be killed, even if the victim was his wife.

24. The Messenger of Allah – Blessings of Allah and Peace be Upon him – advised concerning the woman: Treat the women well. He also said: The best of you are those who are the best in the treatment of their wives.He also said: No one honors the woman except an honorable man. And no one humiliates her or holds her in contempt except one who is evil, vile, wicked and depraved.

With these words I address you – as someone of intelligence:

Is there any greater Honor than this?
 
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Hijab: How It Protects and Benefits Women and Society

One of the greatest benefits of Hijab, is the natural protection it gives to a woman. By wearing Hijab, a woman shields herself from the rampant desires of man. By his very nature, man is a creature of intense desire. The Hijab controls this desire and thus not only protects the woman, but also the man. Sexually motivated crimes in the west are on the increase. Rape, molestation and harassment are reaching epidemic levels. Undoubtedly the clothing of a woman has something to do with this. When women walk around with literally nothing on, some men see it as a signal to do as they please. This results in the honour of a woman being scarred for life. The Muslim woman does not have this problem. She knows that when she walks on the streets, the men will not look at her. Why? Because there is nothing for them to look at!! She feels like a princess who is shielded from the savages of her domain. Peace and security is felt beneath the veil. The woman of Hijab does not have to reveal her body in order to gain respect. She does not have to have her ‘bits’ hanging out so that men can drool over her. If a man desires her, then it has to be for her religion and intellect. The Hijab gives him no other choice. She is a woman who is truly shielded from the nature of man.
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[FONT=Arial,Helvetica] -Nature- The nature of a woman is fundamentally different from man. Women are more timid, gentle and caring then men. This is the reason why they have been chosen (by Allaah) to be the perfect rearers of children. The Hijab reinforces this nature of the woman. We praise Allaah that he has ordered this Hijab, for the world that we live in seeks to change our very nature as human beings. Men try to be women and women try to be men. People are being led into confusion by the political correctness which is so popular in our societies. Many women have jumped onto the bandwagon of feminism and lesbianism, shouting how evil and oppressive men are. But when one looks at these sad creatures, their delusion is clear. While claiming to hate men, their attire suggests otherwise. Short hair, bomber jackets and steel toecapped boots, are the vogue for these women. Their hatred for men is so much, that their very appearance resembles the enemy!! Some of these women have even gone to the extreme of growing masses of facial hair. The hideous site of these bearded ladies, is enough to put anyone off their dinner!!! Such depravity is far from natural. The Hijab on the other hand, enables the woman to stay as a woman. Rather then being a monstrosity, a woman in Hijab is like an oyster with a beautiful pearl inside it. Her femininity has stayed feminine, without being altered into masculinity. There is no doubt about it, this is a TRUE WOMAN.[/FONT]

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[FONT=Arial,Helvetica] -Honour- Contrary to the tales of the media, the Hijab provides an honour for the woman like no other garment does. For many women, a dress designed by Versace[8] or Armani is all the honour they need. But the Hijab carries far more honour then these worthless clothes. Whilst the dresses of the catwalks are designed by mere mortals, the Hijab comes from the one who is immortal, Allaah. Through it a woman is held with the utmost respect. True Muslim men are obliged to keep their Muslim sisters away from the corruption of this world. Thus a Muslim will not allow for someone to ogle his wife, chat her up or harass her. The honour of a Muslim woman demands that this does not happen. How contrary this is to life in the west. Men in the west feel no obligation to protect women from the harms of society. This is why a man will allow his wife to be a stripper, call-girl and even a prostitute. Honour knows no place in the west. This honour will only be achieved from Islam and its Hijab.[/FONT]
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[FONT=Arial,Helvetica]The honour of a Muslim woman is so high, that we believe that the state of a society is dependent upon its women. If the women are corrupt and immoral, then the society will be corrupt and immoral. If the women are righteous and god-fearing, then the society will be righteous and god-fearing. Women are the educators of the nation. But if they have no honour and have been corrupted, then society will be void of education and steeped in ignorance. This is the predicament of a society which rejects Hijab. This is the predicament of all Western societies, which stubbornly cling onto their depressing ways of life.[/FONT]
 

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  • 1. did any muslim women complain to you regarding this? - Yes.

    2. women in other religions (from mother theresa to lady buddist monks) do cover their body and shave their head etc as a act of deciplene.so do u guy feel sorry for them the same way? - Don't crack jokes. Nuns and women are two seperate categories. Don't try to mix up them.

    3. in despite of rapes in muslim countries(how MANY?), hot summer in UK, concrete jungles in NewYork not only they seems to be wearing it, but new muslims women who converted on their own will seems adopting to it.can u all think of a reason? - Yes, Being brainwashed.
     

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    1. did any muslim women complain to you regarding this? - Yes.

    2. women in other religions (from mother theresa to lady buddist monks) do cover their body and shave their head etc as a act of deciplene.so do u guy feel sorry for them the same way? - Don't crack jokes. Nuns and women are two seperate categories. Don't try to mix up them.

    3. in despite of rapes in muslim countries(how MANY?), hot summer in UK, concrete jungles in NewYork not only they seems to be wearing it, but new muslims women who converted on their own will seems adopting to it.can u all think of a reason? - Yes, Being brainwashed.

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    To afw - some statistics as promised.

    Egypt – approx 20,000 rapes per year (http://www.unhcr.org/refworld/country,,IRIN,,EGY,,47bea83fc,0.html)

    Indonesia – approx 1372 rapes per year
    (http://www.nationmaster.com/country/id-indonesia/cri-crime)

    Morocco – 1105 rapes per year (http://www.nationmaster.com/country/mo-morocco/cri-crime)

    Bangladesh- 10 out of every 10,000 women raped every year. (http://www.wsws.org/articles/1999/nov1999/sasa-n29.shtml)

    Maldives - 1 in 3 Maldivian women aged 15-49 has experienced some form of physical or sexual violence at least once in their lives. (http://www.minivannews.com/news/news.php?id=2944)

    Teheran, Iran – approx. every six days a woman is raped and murdered in the city. (http://news.bbc.co.uk/1/hi/world/middle_east/975997.stm)

    Qatar (total population = 812,842) – approx 12 rapes per year (this is significant given the small population, the figure which represents both males and females). (http://www.nationmaster.com/country/qa-qatar/cri-crime)

    Oman (total population = 2,566,981) – approx 115 rapes per year (again, this is significant given the small population, the figure which represents both males and females). (http://www.nationmaster.com/country/mu-oman/cri-crime)


    And many more go unreported because rape is taboo, and often the law is not in favour of the victim. So the actual figures are possibly much higher in each of these countries.
     

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    1. did any muslim women complain to you regarding this? As a matter of fact yes, and she even went as far as calling it ugly. She doesn't cover her head btw.

    2. women in other religions (from mother theresa to lady buddist monks) do cover their body and shave their head etc as a act of deciplene.so do u guy feel sorry for them the same way? How about comparing like with like? You said it, they are monks. So how can you make a just comparison between a female monk and a female who's not? Monks were never forced into it, and it's a way of live they have chosen for themselves. BUT if you insist on such a comparison, don't forget that in Buddhism male monks wear similar attire and have shaven heads too. So there is no discrimination of dresscodes as is between muslim men and women :P

    3. in despite of rapes in muslim countries(how MANY?), hot summer in UK, concrete jungles in NewYork not only they seems to be wearing it, but new muslims women who converted on their own will seems adopting to it.can u all think of a reason? due to brainwashing and coercion.
     

    jess

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    just said:
    KOOOOOOOLLL!!!

    such a lotta ppl to the rescue of poor muslim women who are being slaved by the religion. some names here are familiar...heros :rolleyes:

    i would like to clarify few things from those who seems so worried about those poor women for the way they choose to dress (thanks to the freedom to dress the way they like)

    1. did any muslim women complain to you regarding this?

    2. women in other religions (from mother theresa to lady buddist monks) do cover their body and shave their head etc as a act of deciplene.so do u guy feel sorry for them the same way?

    3. in despite of rapes in muslim countries(how MANY?), hot summer in UK, concrete jungles in NewYork not only they seems to be wearing it, but new muslims women who converted on their own will seems adopting to it.can u all think of a reason?


    Please answer...


    these are just my thoughts:
    • Some people believe in something and choose to adopt their life to it.
    • Some people dont believe in anything but still respect others feelings.
    • Some people dont even know why they were born and think of their own life as a coincidence/ accident/ mistake (Nikan WAL Gas wage...:rolleyes:)
    i dont see any positive outcom from answering/ discussion with the 3rd type.they just come to waste theirs and others time..:rofl::rofl:

    OK I see someone coming this way...:lol::lol:


    heroes?? people are expressing their thoughts and concern, and others come to LEARN about it. have u ever met EVERY muslim woman in the world?? do u know that EVERY muslim woman likes to be that way??? i dont think so! these people seem to KNOW of some muslim women who do not like the way they HAVE to be. then there are other women who would have it no other way. thats the wonderful thing about this world, and this forum, is that everyone is able to express their thoughts, opinions and concerns about others.... they could be nasty and say something very biast like "oh they are muslim they DESERVE to be made to dress that way", would u like that?? no, they are simply concerned about it. no one is bashing anyone here, its simply concern about another human being and the way they are being treated. and thats exactly right about nuns and monks, they CHOOSE to take that path in life, whereas muslim woman have no choice.... at least from wat i understand. wat about the parents? they would probably give that girl a hard time if she wanted to dress another way then after she gets married she would probably also be given a hard time by the husband as well.... if u havent met all muslim women of the world and dont know how they feel then i dont think u should be such a smart ass to people showing concern for someone else in this world. if there were more people like these guys in this world caring about another then tehre would be no problems no war, no racism,no kind of prejudices , but people who try to show some attitude against people caring is the main problem and WHY we have war, racism and prejudices..... thats all...


    by the way, just to inform u honey... this world is full of dicusting people in all countries all religions.... do u think tehre have been no muslim women raped? ur wrong honey, just because they are covered head to toe dont mean a thing, if some crazy discusting man sees a woman... A WOMAN IN GENERAL no matter wat she is wearing, if he is crazy and deranged and on the hunt for women he will get her if he wants, and if u think a long dress and head covering will stop him then ur wrong, wat about the children of the world?? how about that? do u think just because they are children they wont get raped? if so ur wrong again and obviously ur ignoring wats going on in the world around u because that shit happenes everyday! everyday innocent little children BOYS AND GIRLS are getting raped and killed by an adult, do u think thats because they are not wearing the muslim attire? no cuz a sick person is a sick person no matter wat a person wears!!!!!! so go ahead and roll ur eyes about that one!
     
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    nadeeshaF said:
    To afw - some statistics as promised.

    Egypt – approx 20,000 rapes per year (http://www.unhcr.org/refworld/country,,IRIN,,EGY,,47bea83fc,0.html)

    Indonesia – approx 1372 rapes per year
    (http://www.nationmaster.com/country/id-indonesia/cri-crime)

    Morocco – 1105 rapes per year (http://www.nationmaster.com/country/mo-morocco/cri-crime)

    Bangladesh- 10 out of every 10,000 women raped every year. (http://www.wsws.org/articles/1999/nov1999/sasa-n29.shtml)

    Maldives - 1 in 3 Maldivian women aged 15-49 has experienced some form of physical or sexual violence at least once in their lives. (http://www.minivannews.com/news/news.php?id=2944)

    Teheran, Iran – approx. every six days a woman is raped and murdered in the city. (http://news.bbc.co.uk/1/hi/world/middle_east/975997.stm)

    Qatar (total population = 812,842) – approx 12 rapes per year (this is significant given the small population, the figure which represents both males and females). (http://www.nationmaster.com/country/qa-qatar/cri-crime)

    Oman (total population = 2,566,981) – approx 115 rapes per year (again, this is significant given the small population, the figure which represents both males and females). (http://www.nationmaster.com/country/mu-oman/cri-crime)


    And many more go unreported because rape is taboo, and often the law is not in favour of the victim. So the actual figures are possibly much higher in each of these countries.


    Thank you for providing me with some great links to prove my point go to this and see the truth....
    :yes: :yes:
    All the top western countries are proud of leading the table :yes: :yes: :yes:
    Now i think u would see my point.... Hijab plays an important role in reducing rape crimes...

    everyone go to this link and see the truth
    http://www.nationmaster.com/graph/cri_rap-crime-rapes

    sorry to find Sri Lanka at #32....

    Pls be careful NadeeshaF... U might become a victim :P :P :P :P
     

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    so then wts d use of dt so calld fu*** beauty if thy cnt xpose it???
    its lyk u r keeepin ya mony safe until u die whr u take no benifit of em!:rolleyes:

    Hmm.. thawath Kenek ehenam Innawa Adai Eliyata panala thiyenney mallen...
    Ok Mata kiyanna Puluwanda Gahanunge Lassana Kiyanney Monawada KIyala Mulinma Ethakota mama Kiyannam Oya KiyapuEkata Uththarey...:yes:
     

    Wal Bada

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  • afw said:
    Thank you for providing me with some great links to prove my point go to this and see the truth....
    :yes: :yes:
    All the top western countries are proud of leading the table :yes: :yes: :yes:
    Now i think u would see my point.... Hijab plays an important role in reducing rape crimes...

    everyone go to this link and see the truth
    http://www.nationmaster.com/graph/cri_rap-crime-rapes

    sorry to find Sri Lanka at #32....

    Pls be careful NadeeshaF... U might become a victim :P :P :P :P
    Usual bullshit plays it's part. So prove that the reporting rate is same in both countries. If you report it in USA you are the victiom and unless proven otherwise you are innocent. In Muslim countries, you are not a victim, but the prosecuted for adultery, unless proven otherwise. Can you see the difference?
     

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    nadeeshaF said:
    1. did any muslim women complain to you regarding this? As a matter of fact yes, and she even went as far as calling it ugly. She doesn't cover her head btw.
    so your "MUSLIM" friend had the freedom of choise isnt she..:rolleyes:. is she still a muslim? if so she had the freedom and still being a mulsim..:yes: (freedom and islam..do you get it :no:)

    nadeeshaF said:
    2. women in other religions (from mother theresa to lady buddist monks) do cover their body and shave their head etc as a act of deciplene.so do u guy feel sorry for them the same way? How about comparing like with like? You said it, they are monks. So how can you make a just comparison between a female monk and a female who's not? Monks were never forced into it, and it's a way of live they have chosen for themselves. BUT if you insist on such a comparison, don't forget that in Buddhism male monks wear similar attire and have shaven heads too. So there is no discrimination of dresscodes as is between muslim men and women :P
    when it comes to dicrimination, why u deviding them into catagories all are human and as a person who sees everyone equel (do you?:lol:) whether they mulsilm christian or buddist you should be able to see they all in a same state.you can say muslims cos of mohammed, buddist cos of budda and christians cos of jesus..can u?..why only they ones devoted to his/her beliefe and other opressed?:rolleyes:

    nadeeshaF said:
    3. in despite of rapes in muslim countries(how MANY?), hot summer in UK, concrete jungles in NewYork not only they seems to be wearing it, but new muslims women who converted on their own will seems adopting to it.can u all think of a reason? due to brainwashing and coercion.
    this answer was copied from someone else isnt it :lol::lol::lol:. best thing to do if you cant answer is to just skip.its ok :rofl:
     

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    Wal Bada said:
    1. did any muslim women complain to you regarding this? - Yes.
    is it?:lol: can i know her complain? let all know wat these ppl doing to this innocent women:P

    Wal Bada said:
    2. women in other religions (from mother theresa to lady buddist monks) do cover their body and shave their head etc as a act of deciplene.so do u guy feel sorry for them the same way? - Don't crack jokes. Nuns and women are two seperate categories. Don't try to mix up them.
    mix up? haha am i mixing or ar you deviding? human beings are human beings whether they muslim christian or buddist..din u learn as a doctor..:rofl:

    Wal Bada said:
    3. in despite of rapes in muslim countries(how MANY?), hot summer in UK, concrete jungles in NewYork not only they seems to be wearing it, but new muslims women who converted on their own will seems adopting to it.can u all think of a reason? - Yes, Being brainwashed.
    if buddist choses to cover n shave devotion, christian dresses properly modesty, muslim brainwashed..:P

    i found a brain that really needs washing..can u guess :lol::lol: