Break up advise please

BernieSanders

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    Hi guys, I recently went through a break up and it's been really difficult to deal with things. I thought everything is going well but she suddenly gave thousands of reasons and said let's stop it. I tried my best to save it but it seems it's not going to work. I'm going through a really stressful period and can't even concentrate on my work because of this. I don't know what to do.

    I know I should forget it and move on with my life but it's really hard at the moment.
     

    Voldemort Bro

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    Hi guys, I recently went through a break up and it's been really difficult to deal with things. I thought everything is going well but she suddenly gave thousands of reasons and said let's stop it. I tried my best to save it but it seems it's not going to work. I'm going through a really stressful period and can't even concentrate on my work because of this. I don't know what to do.

    I know I should forget it and move on with my life but it's really hard at the moment.
    Join a gym machan.. focus on muscle building.. and eat and train.... have some social relationships.. go trips with friends...avoid listening of sad songs. If you are working from home, try to go back to the office asap.
    If you have the confident approach a nice girl than ur ex and try to settle. This will ease ur pain bro
     
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    Hi guys, I recently went through a break up and it's been really difficult to deal with things. I thought everything is going well but she suddenly gave thousands of reasons and said let's stop it. I tried my best to save it but it seems it's not going to work. I'm going through a really stressful period and can't even concentrate on my work because of this. I don't know what to do.

    I know I should forget it and move on with my life but it's really hard at the moment.
    try to hangout with another girl asap. was in a similar situation before which ruined my mentality for almost 3 years.
     
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    ඕව ඔහොම තමයි බං. ඕවට බෙහෙත් නෑ. කාලය තමයි එකම විසඳුම.

    මගෙත් ඔලුව ටිකක් අවුල් ගිහින් තියෙන්නේ මේ ටිකේ. මගේ x යාලුවෙලා හිටපු එකා එක්ක බ්‍රේකප් වෙලා. දැන් මට ඒකිව වෙනදට වඩා මතක් වෙනව. නතර කරගන්න හැදුවට බෑ. මොනව කරන්නද බං. හිත ක්‍රොන්ට්‍රෝල් කරන්න පුලුවන් නම් මොනා කරන්න බැරිද.
     

    BernieSanders

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    Join a gym machan.. focus on muscle building.. and eat and train.... have some social relationships.. go trips with friends...avoid listening of sad songs. If you are working from home, try to go back to the office asap.
    It's the memories machan, I end up thinking about all the good times we had and trying to think what I could have done differently. But she never gave me chance. She suddenly gave me thousands of reasons and I was so surprised to see how fast she changed. I don't know whether it's for another guy or not but it's the feeling that you have that you have been cheated and something you thought was stable is taken away from you.

    She's been a big part of my life and we had plans. Now it seems like everythings gone and I'm sure she has other people or maybe she would have already found someone, but I'm a person with a small circle and I made the mistake of making her the main focus of my life. I think what was wrong with me and why I was not good enough for her. And I would have done anything to make it right.
     

    Voldemort Bro

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    ඕව ඔහොම තමයි බං. ඕවට බෙහෙත් නෑ. කාලය තමයි එකම විසඳුම.

    මගෙත් ඔලුව ටිකක් අවුල් ගිහින් තියෙන්නේ මේ ටිකේ. මගේ x යාලුවෙලා හිටපු එකා එක්ක බ්‍රේකප් වෙලා. දැන් මට ඒකිව වෙනදට වඩා මතක් වෙනව. නතර කරගන්න හැදුවට බෑ. මොනව කරන්නද බං. හිත ක්‍රොන්ට්‍රෝල් කරන්න පුලුවන් නම් මොනා කරන්න බැරිද.
    Ukapu heti. Sex karapuwa matak weddi inna be neda :baffled:
     

    siripala1950

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    මට වුනේ ඕකේ අනිත් පැත්ත. මගේ කිසිම අඩුපාඩුවක් දැකපු නැති, මට ඇත්තටම ආදරේ කරපු කෙල්ලව මම කිසිම හේතුවක් නැතුව ඇත ඇරලා දැම්මා. දැන් මම පරක්කු වැඩි. දැන් ඒ දේවල් මතක් වෙද්දී හිතට වේදනයි මාර විදිහට :(
     
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