Changing One’s course…

Ms. m&m

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Decision making is the “toughest” at younger days and sometimes some decisions you take at a certain point you wish you could go back and change the past COMPLETELY!!

Let it be your profession ,let it be your studies ,let it be your relationships or let it be a person you loved the most who no longer exists ….. or it could be of something you really wish you could turn back the time and change completely….

Why would one want to change that person’s course completely halfway down the life??? Was it because things are not going your way the way you planned them to be Or do you think you really need a CHANGE ??

How do powerful successful people come to where they are right now? Did they have a proper focus on what they want to do and strived for it from the start or was it pure luck ??? A person like Barack Obama who claimed that he is a person who descended from a generation where ‘who’s father less than 60 years ago who might have not been served at a local restaurant can now stand before you to take the most sacred oath’… Did he really plan I will get there on this age and time or is it just LUCK ??? Did Bill Gates ever thought he’d be a Multi Billionaire by discovering an addiction as well as a way of making Human life and day to day work easy?

A poor academic like (now) Sir Richard Branson who was a poor performer in his academics started selling records from the boot of his car became the founder and the owner of Virgin Empire and the inspiration for many youthful wanna-be-successful souls.

I am appalled by how some people succeed in life and some are just lost in life!! Is it luck or is it destiny or is it one’s urge to succeed in life?????

 

x-pert

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Nice thought :)

Personally I don't believe there is an element called luck. Luck is just a word people give some results, if they happened as a coincident or a sudden incident.

Human brain usually tries to connect things we see and do, and if we cannot connect some good thing with our day-to-day activities, we conclude it as a lucky happening.

Nothing happens for luck.

If you go back and see those successful people's lives, they are achieved their success by following their dreams.

Martin King once said if a person don't have have a dream or an objective in their life, which he or she can die for, he/she cannot be considered as a successful person.

So the main important thing is to have some objectives in life, but they has to be realistic. And then follow your gut instinct. In other words, follow your dreams and be prepared to follow them with your life!

Then ultimately all things will get connected to make the life a successful life! :)

Having some objectives doesn't mean that you have a single path (course). The path may change depending on the obstacles you face. But the ultimate objective should never change.