Do you know about Merit?

kalyanamithra

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    Dear friends,

    Did you ever feel that you understand some aspect of Dhamma; and latter on realized that it's wrong when comparing to Dhamma? This is due to Avijja Asava (from what I've heard - pls. correct me if not).

    Personally it happens (and will keep on happening) to me quire often. Unfortunately it may take some times to realize the mistakes. There were times I had to revert months of thinking; and it's not good when seeing ourselves back where we began.

    This is why we have to think carefully according to Dhamma (Yoniso manasikara); that's why we need to verify things that occur to our minds (due to Ayoniso Manasikara) with Dhamma whenever possible; that's why we need to have Dhamma Sakachcha to help one another; that's why we should associate with Supatipanna Bhikkus; that's why we should be humble and accept/correct our mistakes... That's why we should develop Shraddha first and foremost (so that we have a guidance till we realize Dhamma)...

    At the same time we should not get disappointed of these mistakes... :) we should be happy every time we correct the mistakes..

    Let's keep on practicing Dhamma; discussing Dhamma; helping one another to realize Dhamma....

    Theruwan saranai!
     
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    me artical eka kiyanawana wita sith nonawathwama buddimaya sanwadayaka yedenawa........hugak arthawath
    ewagema..........shite gaburatama denena artical ekak...........
    Kusalaya ha Pina pilibaladawa ethama harawath ayurin......adahas gonukarala thiyanawa....
    matath me deka pilibadawa metaram loku sanwadayak kalin thibune ne.......eth api nohithapu gravity ekak methana thiyanawa neda
    Rapa..........
     

    kalyanamithra

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    hdgpure said:
    yes kalyanamithra..........
    It is great Artical......give the way............to think........:yes:

    Dear hdgpure,
    Yes, that's right.. article was written with really good intentions.. :) I found it impressing when I skimmed over it for the first time...
    My main intention at the moment was providing a link to a Deshana so that others can think inline with Dhamma..
    I choose to read the article with more care, only after I did the second post on the thread... I admit that I was wrong not to do it the first place... :(

    Only when I read the article again I noticed few mistakes it had...
    :)

    Dear friends,

    Thinking we Shrawakas should have is called Yoniso Manasikara, which is thinking according to Dhamma and trying to understand it. Yoniso Manasikara as we know is not the reasoning/analysis done when reading any other subject...

    If it was any other subject, its OK to have opinions, discuss the way we think, etc. But Shrawakas discussing Dhamma should highlight Dhamma...

    We have to always check that what we think doesn't go 'wild'... because Avijja Asava we have try to keep us in Avijja all the time...

    Slightest mistake makes Dhamma discussions wrong... and as Shrawakas we should correct (help correct) mistakes whenever we see them. Why? Our aim of discussing Dhamma is trying to understand it... and we should understand very well how little we know; how wrong our intuition/reasoning/thinking is when it comes to Dhamma.

    That's why I decided to correct what appears to me as a mistake... because
    - if I am wrong I get a chance to know/correct that :)
    - if the article is wrong others will not be misled/ and the author would be able to correct his view

    After all our aim should be helping one another to understand Dhamma. Isn't it?

    Yes, I know that the way I had criticized appears harsh (perhaps even rude).

    Please forgive my tone; :yes: it's nothing personal. I really appreciate every thing done to help our understanding of Dhamma. :)
    But I have to be straightforward in my opposition... because I have to make sure this opposition is visible (so that I can patch up the mistake I did in appreciating the article as a whole)...

    Please verify the article (and what I say) against Dhamma; and take what you think is right...

    What I have to say is:
    • "Pinata Bhaya Venna Epa.. Pina Kiyanne Sepayata Adhivachanayak..." do not give up doing "pin"... esp. Maithree Bhavanawa...
    • "Vinnyanaya Maya karayek vage" (revatila inna bava denagena Dharmaye hesirenna... revatima nethivenna Rahath vuna da tayi... kalyana mithrayaek vage penunath hitha nam vishvasa karanna epa... dharmayama vishvasa karanna)
    Dear friends, I do not know much.. but from experience I know how misleading our minds are... that's why I am concerned..

    Theruwan saranai!
     
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    kalyanamithra

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    Dear friends,

    We should try to learn and get an understanding of Basic things Budurajanan wahanse disclosed...

    Otherwise we may get mistaken to believe in ("aruthak nomethiva vaha pehedima") things not in accordance with Dhamma...

    Dhammapadapali-Cittavaggo-38.jpg


    Anyway what matters is our developing Shraddha, Sila, Sathi, Samadhi, Panna...
    So I am willing to stop my involvement in this discussion if most of you do not agree with it...

    At the same time I am more than willing to acknowledge and correct myself if what I've stated is contrarary to Dhamma...

    Please let me know (or PM me regarding) any mistake I may have done in any of my posts...

    Thanks

    Theruwan saranai!
     
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    kalyanamithra

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    rapa said:
    ow ithima niweradi hebai pin karala sasarin ethara wannata nam noheki
    esadaha kusal wediya yuthui:)
    fully agreed... :)
    Sahdu! Sadhu! Sadhu!

    Thanks for bringining us Dhamma all the time... :):):)


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    rapa said:
    ow machan meka kiyawapu welawe mata apu hengeema kiyanna mage shabda koshaye wachana madi
    etharam pehedeemak athi una :)
    mama kiyawapu hodama lipi walin ekak kiwwoth niweradi :)

    Aththa rapa.niyama arthawath lipiyak.Ape samahra aththo pin raskaranne wayasata gihillane.:P eeken eegollo balaporoththuwenne hoda thanaka ayeth ipadenna kiyala.
    kochchara bana ahawwath sil gaththath thrushnawanam nathiwelama naa.samahara aya pin ras karanawa kiyana eka waradiyata hithanne.
    eeka nisa mee lipiya godak udaw wei kattiyata.
     

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    Chamila said:
    Aththa rapa.niyama arthawath lipiyak.Ape samahra aththo pin raskaranne wayasata gihillane.:P eeken eegollo balaporoththuwenne hoda thanaka ayeth ipadenna kiyala.
    kochchara bana ahawwath sil gaththath thrushnawanam nathiwelama naa.samahara aya pin ras karanawa kiyana eka waradiyata hithanne.
    eeka nisa mee lipiya godak udaw wei kattiyata.
    Esa, kana , nasaya ...........wage abyanthra indriyan witharak nowei..........minisunge manasa namathi abyantara indriyath diyunu karaganna ona..............:yes: :yes: :yes:
    ekata hoda praweshayak me Artical eka labadunna............
     

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    hdgpure said:
    Esa, kana , nasaya ...........wage abyanthra indriyan witharak nowei..........minisunge manasa namathi abyantara indriyath diyunu karaganna ona..............:yes: :yes: :yes:
    ekata hoda praweshayak me Artical eka labadunna............

    aththa machan.mee laba dunna praweshaya hariyatama hari.
     

    kalyanamithra

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    rapa said:
    No problem bro :D
    we must live with damma in all the time :)
    I'm trying , I'm trying , I'm trying :cool:
    Hariyata hari; ehema thami api hemoma hithanna one... :)

    Api thula Dharmaya vedenneth hethu nisama ne.. api Dharmaya vedena vidiyata hethu sakasa karana vita phalaya vidihata avabodhaya lebeyi... oya gena hondata kiyavena Sutrayak thamay Upanisa Sutraya; evagema Avijja Suttaya...

    Evata adala Pujya Kiribathgoda Gnanananda svaminwahansege deshana mehi thiyenava..
    http://www.gautamabuddha.ca/bana/sinhala/013_Upanisa_sutta.mp3
    http://www.gautamabuddha.org/downloads/Mp3/Avijja_Sutta..mp3

    Me samajaye "Shraddhawa" pahath karala katha karana aya meva kiyavanne/ahanne nethi eka thamai aparade...

    viriyen hari magen pita paninne nethuva yana eka thamyi vedagath...

    Ekane me Shri Saddharmaya gagakata upama karala thiyenne... magadi karadarayak novunoth nivana nemethi sagarayata mai Dharmaya purudu karana kena edenne...

    Theruwan saranai!
     
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    kalyanamithra said:
    Hariyata hari; ehema thami api hemoma hithanna one... :)

    Api thula Dharmaya vedenneth hethu nisama ne.. api Dharmaya vedena vidiyata hethu sakasa karana vita phalaya vidihata avabodhaya lebeyi... oya gena hondata kiyavena Sutrayak thamay Upanisa Sutraya; evagema Avijja Suttaya...

    Evata adala Pujya Kiribathgoda Gnanananda svaminwahansege deshana mehi thiyenava..
    http://www.gautamabuddha.ca/bana/sinhala/013_Upanisa_sutta.mp3
    http://www.gautamabuddha.org/downloads/Mp3/Avijja_Sutta..mp3

    Me samajaye "Shraddhawa" pahath karala katha karana aya meva kiyavanne/ahanne nethi eka thamai aparade...

    viriyen hari magen pita paninne nethuva yana eka thamyi vedagath...

    Ekane me Shri Saddharmaya gagakata upama karala thiyenne... magadi karadarayak novunoth nivana nemethi sagarayata mai Dharmaya purudu karana kena edenne...

    Theruwan saranai!
    oba hari mithraya :)
    mama podi prashnayak ahannada?
    oba hithanne mee samjaye ee kiyanne mee jeewana ratawa thula idagena apita niverdi darama maragaye giyoth eka anugamanaya karanna lesida?
    mama kiyanna uthasa karapu therenna athi kiyala vishawasa karanawa :)
     

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    rapa said:
    oba hari mithraya :)
    mama podi prashnayak ahannada?
    oba hithanne mee samjaye ee kiyanne mee jeewana ratawa thula idagena apita niverdi darama maragaye giyoth eka anugamanaya karanna lesida?
    mama kiyanna uthasa karapu therenna athi kiyala vishawasa karanawa :)
    amarui kiyala thamai mamath ahala thiyenne :)

    oka karaganne "niyapoththata gaththa pas tikaka" vage pramanayak; "maha polova" tharam pramanayak karaganne ne; karanna one kiyala danneth ne...

    vede amaruma thamai; eth be kiyala pasu thevenna honda ne; thama avathasseru karagannath honda ne... Margaye angalak idiriyata giyath mahath palai...

    vede amaru mokada, ape hitha ("vinnyanaya") hedila thiyenne Avijjavenne...

    me vinnyanayen denaganne deta ne "lokaya" kiyanne; e kiyanne lokaya thiyenneth api thulama thamayi... e vagema oya lokaya mavala dena ekak ne; mevumkaraya "vinyanayayi"...

    avijjasahagath vinnnyanayak mavala denne avijjavatam gelapi yana lokayayi... e hinda ne Budu genek ge Dharmaya asanakam Avijjava kiyala deyak thiyenavada kiyalavath apata denne ne... dekkada vede heti!

    me dharmaya ahenna kalin api gatha karapu jeevithaya genama hithuvath oka therum ganna puluvan...

    ithin me ken midenna one kenek karanna one Dharmaya anuvama sithana ekayi; me Yoniso Manasikarayath ekka Praggava vedenava... eken vinnyanayth, me mavapu lokaye thiyena anek devaluth ethi setiyenma therum ganna heki veyi... oka ne Dharmayen api kara ganna one...

    ithin api karanna one Dharmaya eththa da kiyala mulinma balana ekayi; eka ehttha kiyala podi shraddhavak avath ethi... ethakota api e anva katayuthu karanna patan gani... me margaya api thula vedena ekaka...

    Shraddha, Viriya, Sathi, Samadhi, Panna adhi siyalla vedena Dharmane...

    vadathma vedagath Appramadhi vimayi... enam kepavimayi...ithiri siyallama vedeyi...

    Thavath jeevithayata godak deval ganna puluvan deyak thamayi Thayodhamma Suthraya.

    One nam methanin ahanna puluvan: http://www.gautamabuddha.org/downloads/mp3/5/5.8_Thayodamma_Sutta.mp3

    Eka dehsna karal athiyena vidihata harima lesiyen ape jeewithayata galapa ganna puluvan...


    Theruwan saranai!
     
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