As Man you imagine romantic things right !, if your a couple tell it your girl then she know you like them . You need be a pig and need to have rapist and sex addict feelings about your girl . tell them to her tell every detail of it . assume you need rim job just say it just make a dream story and add the rimming part. when you do that stuff your girl will open , then try them with her . when she cook pull down her panty or hug n squeeze her boobs . watch TV together and touch her pussy finger her . watch some porn together and ask her to try. Just watch fifty shades of gray bro . that shit works like hell . don't hit her hard ok just act it bro . make your own play room purchase sum stuff use them with your girl. fucking is something and being avatar type connection is wonderful. Don't let your girl to stay relax on weekends , if its not in to things take her and do your dreams, you image inside you.