Well to start with, you are not the real Reshmi85.......
Well assuming that you are speaking on behalf of her, I am posting this reply.
The reason why Reshmi has become unpopular in this site is because :
1. She intentionally / unintentionally neglected the PM's that she had received from various members which were potential start-ups for romance seeking... This was how she lost the firt wicket
2. She started posting more of intellectual matter in the forum which invlolved some civilized talks, which were not accepted from the conventional narrow minded majority of the members from a girl (Assuming that its a girl)... a considerable percentage of these members were those who had sent such PM's at the beginning.
Second wicket down!
3. She posted some wicked threads, like this one, and "thanking" for the members who had sent PM's, this was just adding hay to a wild fire!
Wicket down!
So she totally lost the name, the respect, and the image of a female in the forum... Every other accusation that followed were out of the fury, but have no proper base.