I have a different point of view.
the virginity is important only for girls.If they sure that they are really a virgin when they get to the bed for the very first time,no matter what happen...I mean that blood thing.
it is so unfair to expect virginity from every and each girl.because we are well passed a millenium,there are many reasons to loose virginity other than sexual intercorse.if anyone (boy)sleep with many girls and deflower many of them and finally when he marry a girl and expecting virginity from her.what a crime shame.
on the other hand girls may do everything(u know what)and save the virginity for the husband at first night.do you think she is a virgin ???hell no. she is a bitch at heart.(I heard brittney spears was a virgin when marry,but her friends told she did anal,ha ha what a f****ng virgin.be with one,trust em' and you will be fine.