Guys hav anyone you dated a married woman??

deathrowz_sri

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What im gonna ask from you guys is totally unethical in the Sri Lankan context but i think there are plenty of u out there who wished there's someone to share your story...

How you feel about it... Guys what you think of dating a married woman?? How do you think its different to dating a single woman?? I know for fact that married woman are extra baggage but i personally feel that they are more mature to handle mood swings than single women.. of course thats my personal opinion and you guys out there dating married women or interested in married women are welcomed to share your opinions :yes:
 

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    wht has happende to everybody today??!!

    and NO i will never ever date a married woman..that is like f*cking a pig..

    u dnt kno where its been
     

    DJ.Parker

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    pamithK said:
    wht has happende to everybody today??!!

    and NO i will never ever date a married woman..that is like f*cking a pig..

    u dnt kno where its been

    yeah.....
    :rolleyes: :rolleyes:
    y u wanna date a married woman?

    lust,lust and lust
     

    pamithK

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    deathrowz_sri said:
    Well i was not talk talking about f**kin bro.... basically its bout understanding and caring...


    well thats wht it will lead up to everntually..wont it?

    anyway its certainly not ethical..and feelings wise the two people are betraying eachother

    sorry if i started u r thread on the wrong foot:sorry: :sorry: :sorry:
     

    psyche

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    I personally don't like the idea of dating a married woman, simply 'coz you don't know what kind of complications that may arise in her family 'coz of you. Definitely it won't be good if her spouse finds out ultimately. Its not a question about being feared or anything but what you have to think is, how would I feel if my wife does the same thing on one fine day. Obviously a man of respect won't feel good about it.

    Well if you want a woman with low mood-swings and more maturity then its best to go for a girl who's SENIOR TO YOU (like 2,3 years perhaps) and SINGLE..:P :P ..I would certainly give a shot at that.....:D :D .
     
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    deathrowz_sri

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    Psyche..I like the way you think..but nowadays single girls look for money and fame rather than pure love and care.. They are interested in worldly things rather than fulfilling a emotional need. Single girls take life so easy and 2-3years down the line u'l end with a broken heart and empty wallet :yes:

    For all those immature kids over there.. What im saying is dating a married woman may not necessarily mean that the relationship is purely based on lust and physical needs.. Its something beyond that..I hope u guys get the point im trying to stress here right?
     

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    deathrowz_sri said:
    Psyche..I like the way you think..but nowadays single girls look for money and fame rather than pure love and care.. They are interested in worldly things rather than fulfilling a emotional need. Single girls take life so easy and 2-3years down the line u'l end with a broken heart and empty wallet :yes:

    For all those immature kids over there.. What im saying is dating a married woman may not necessarily mean that the relationship is purely based on lust and physical needs.. Its something beyond that..I hope u guys get the point im trying to stress here right?


    as an immature kid..i hav no idea of getting married anyone right now..

    you seem to be matured so its better if u listen to yourself:cool: :cool:
     

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    For all those immature kids over there.. What im saying is dating a married woman may not necessarily mean that the relationship is purely based on lust and physical needs.. Its something beyond that..I hope u guys get the point im trying to stress here right?
    Ane palayan ban yanna. Bandapu ganiyek enawa nam enne oya seen ekatama thama. Nathnam enne redi hodannada? Miniha rata gihipu, ehema nathnam miniha impotent, nathnam miniha inne godak dura, onna oya welawata thamayi bandapu genu langata enne.
     

    psyche

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    deathrowz_sri said:
    Psyche..I like the way you think..but nowadays single girls look for money and fame rather than pure love and care.. They are interested in worldly things rather than fulfilling a emotional need. Single girls take life so easy and 2-3years down the line u'l end with a broken heart and empty wallet :yes:

    For all those immature kids over there.. What im saying is dating a married woman may not necessarily mean that the relationship is purely based on lust and physical needs.. Its something beyond that..I hope u guys get the point im trying to stress here right?

    Do you actually think....that.... makes the married women better than the single ones??? :baffled:

    Have you taken the time to consider these....

    Why wud a married woman seek another man's love, comfort and affection in the 1st place?? Don't you think that whatever you are getting to hear about her married life is obviously from HER ALONE?? Don't you think that those married women can cook up a story to gain your care?? Finally, do you actually think you could TRUST a woman of that nature??.....I know these are some of the basic questions that might have come to your head as well....but they are very vital to get the right answers for them as well...

    Fine....Lets say "the married woman" is actually innocent and truthful in all of this....still don't you think that she had come to that humble, innocent, low mood-swings, matured state coz she had been having bitter taste of married life that she's helpless and don't won't to screw up with the next guy she can satisfy "whatever" her needs with??

    Ok the man she's been married to could be a terror, ill-treating son-of-a bitch BUT then again if the woman has some kind of decency she could seek relief through a divorce if her man is incorrigible and after making countless attempts to save the marriage. I know its a extreme move but at the end of the day if she seeks comfort of another man while being married ultimately it would end up in a divorce anyhow 'coz the more time she spends with another man the more closer she gets to him.

    The other thing is some women are just time-servers. They would seek other men's comfort to get away from the mental agony and stress she goes through at home with her husband. If she's able to settle terms with the husband on fine day and that'll be the boot to the secret lover of hers.

    Ok now thats some of the things you can look in the married woman's side. What about your side who wants to be with a married woman. Don't you think you are being a selfish person as well to satisfy your needs of being with a more matured, less mood-swings and more emotionally understanding person so that YOU CAN BE HAPPY AT THE END. Don't you think that you are trying to use her (in whatever way you put it) to your advantage?? Don't you think thats wrong to do that without considering what sort of complications that could come-up to that married girl and perhaps to you as well by trying to satify those needs of yours for that temporary period??

    Your point where you said that you can find these qualities mostly or only with married women.....COULD BE RIGHT!!!! But as you have mentioned in an earlier post its ethically and morally wrong and also you could fall into a huge trouble if things go wrong....and it will someday....'coz the success rates of having secret relationships with married women forever are very low. Plus when you get married someday those very women could be a problem for you as well and ruin your marriage life if you happen to encounter those women some day. So why take a huge risk of that sort JUST TO SATISFY YOUR TEMPORARY NEEDS......Hmm??



    Wal Bada said:
    Ane palayan ban yanna. Bandapu ganiyek enawa nam enne oya seen ekatama thama. Nathnam enne redi hodannada? Miniha rata gihipu, ehema nathnam miniha impotent, nathnam miniha inne godak dura, onna oya welawata thamayi bandapu genu langata enne.

    I don't like the way he said it :frown: :frown: but I would partially agree with what he says though 'coz most women are like that since they are ALSO LOOKING TO SATISFY SOME KIND OF NEED.
     
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    okk..now first off..wtf?? for a guy to say that itz ok to get w/ a married woman, kinda jus singles him out as a selfish prick..wtf?? wutz wrong w/ single women??
    im not spportin him but jst for rcrd do you wana list of wats wrng wit sngle on the othr hand all women in particular???
     

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    mmm............
    i think that it depends on the person not whether they r single or taken...but 4 guy 2 even think of gettin w/ a married woman iz jus wrong...and itz jus as wrong 4 a married woman 2 get w/ another guy,. thaz all im saying.
     

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    pamithK said:
    wht has happende to everybody today??!!

    and NO i will never ever date a married woman..that is like f*cking a pig..

    u dnt kno where its been
    ohh no.. never... om not gonna marry or date a married woman ever...

    @ pamithK => dateing a married woman & f*cking a pig are 2 totaly diff situations isnt it??? :lol::P