Me and my wife doesnt have any friends..we are not sad or desparate to have any friends..we have fun in our own way..The problem is other people are having serious issues of us not having any friends.. sometimes it may look like we are hard to approch, but we do not look like the grumpy type ..I am not an introvert i can adjust to social situation alright but my wife is an introvert.we do also have a 3 year old child we both are around 29 years.. is this going to effect our future..i mean no having any friends...anyone out there who are like us....
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Network is your network
There is something called social capital.
You will never attain financial freedom.
There is something called social capital.
You will never attain financial freedom.
Nope.. with time .. freinds also will build their own life.. so they won't have time for others . Same for me.. i have my own group of friends.. i use to have a lot . Including girls.. now i just have like 4 who i rarely talk or meet.. i haven't seen them in 1.5 years..
So its not a big deal.. enjoy ur life with your family...
nothing much will happen to you. but having friends is good for your mental health.
දෙන්නටම නැත්නම් හොදයි . එකෙක්ට යාළුවො සෙට් වෙන්නේ නැතුව අනිත් එකාට යාළුවො නැතුව ඉන්න බෑ වගේ උනොත් අවුල් නේ ?
Better to find a similar couple like yours.can go on trips together etc.But it’s hard to find freinds after that age
A few things need to be clarified..
did you ditch your friends because your wife is an introvert? are you guys highly educated people? or do you guys feel other people are not suitable enough for you guys or they wouldn't understand your vibe?
here's the deal.. if you don't have any good people around you.. better to stay without friends.. that's ok.. but keep your self some colleagues and neighbours.
they might be awful as friends and may give you guys bad advice or may do things that you may not like, but sometimes they'll be there for you guys in a difficult situation at your job or in your house..
friend is someone closer to you, they advise and correct you when you do shitty things. they are gonna be happy for you on your achievements
not every person can become a friend.. you may not meet the type of friend that you looking for in your lifetime, but you can still socialize within a limit by not making anyone friends. if they invite you guys for social gatherings. Don't reject every invitation, visit a few and see.. by remembering they are not your friends.. they are just people you know.
did you ditch your friends because your wife is an introvert? are you guys highly educated people? or do you guys feel other people are not suitable enough for you guys or they wouldn't understand your vibe?
here's the deal.. if you don't have any good people around you.. better to stay without friends.. that's ok.. but keep your self some colleagues and neighbours.
they might be awful as friends and may give you guys bad advice or may do things that you may not like, but sometimes they'll be there for you guys in a difficult situation at your job or in your house..
friend is someone closer to you, they advise and correct you when you do shitty things. they are gonna be happy for you on your achievements
not every person can become a friend.. you may not meet the type of friend that you looking for in your lifetime, but you can still socialize within a limit by not making anyone friends. if they invite you guys for social gatherings. Don't reject every invitation, visit a few and see.. by remembering they are not your friends.. they are just people you know.
there may be situations you may need people. ex for local events like funerals etc. Pretty hard to organise those on our own.
In case one of you get sick you may need company of others(hospital stuff). But if u have huge family or relatives it may be a relief.
Then again connections matter. In sri lanka to do certain things (gov stuff, school stuff) we may need some connections because of bad governance here.
At the moment we may not see the value. But we may need them sometimes if we don't have relatives to back us up.
In case one of you get sick you may need company of others(hospital stuff). But if u have huge family or relatives it may be a relief.
Then again connections matter. In sri lanka to do certain things (gov stuff, school stuff) we may need some connections because of bad governance here.
At the moment we may not see the value. But we may need them sometimes if we don't have relatives to back us up.
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same scenario here,
how about your relative situation, ?
mine is worse.all of them are like blood sucking leeches. so we keep our relationships in measurable distance,
we need people in some situations at our lifetime.
no need to always hang out with each other,
just help them at their difficult times,
every 1 of 10 families you help will remember how you treat them and they return the favor when you need it,
if you are surrounded by good peoples that number will rise up to 10 out of 10.
hope you get the idea,
how about your relative situation, ?
mine is worse.all of them are like blood sucking leeches. so we keep our relationships in measurable distance,
we need people in some situations at our lifetime.
no need to always hang out with each other,
just help them at their difficult times,
every 1 of 10 families you help will remember how you treat them and they return the favor when you need it,
if you are surrounded by good peoples that number will rise up to 10 out of 10.
hope you get the idea,
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