How to overcome the Jealousy??

[mirissanew]

Most people are trying to pretend that they have higher qualities but we all have drawbacks as well. One of the major negative feature in the human mind is jealousy. I was not happy with the people who did better than me in academics (fortunately only few did better ).

With the progress of time I understood that this thing would take me nowhere and started to focus on other things rather than being jealous on someone's achievements.

Many people are not happy with the achievements of others. If the bride id beautiful they are waiting for the divorce. If someone buys a new car others try to buy something better than that. If they saw a beautiful girl they try to make her look like a slut.

I just pointed out few examples. The list is going on and on. But the fact is that this will eventually have a bad effect on us. To avoid that it's better not to compare yourself with others. Use your free time to do someting useful. Watch a tv series, a movie, do some exercies, engage in gardening. Enjoy your life. Don't wish others if you don't feel genuinely happy. Wish only if you are truly happy!!!!!!!!

 

[dayt0na]

It’s not negative. It’s what you do based on jealousy that matters.
Could be negative or positive

 

[mirissanew]

It’s not negative. It’s what you do based on jealousy that matters.
Could be negative or positive

If something is triggered by jealousy it is not good. Even of the outcome is good

 

[Honey Bunch]

බ්ම්ප්

 

[dayt0na]

If something is triggered by jealousy it is not good. Even of the outcome is good

Why not? If the outcome is good and the trigger was jealousy?

 

[dilann]

 

[mirissanew]

Why not? If the outcome is good and the trigger was jealousy?

If you becomes a scientist cuz one of your friends became a one. Outcome is good. But most of the time you would not enjoy the job

 

[ruchira55]

මම ඉස්සර කුඩු ගැහුව. මාත් එක්ක එකට ගගහ හිටපු එකා නැවැත්තුවා. මට ඌව දකිනකොට ඉරිසියාවෙ බෑ. ඒ පාර මමත් ගහන එක නැවැත්තුවා.

 

[dayt0na]

If you becomes a scientist cuz one of your friends became a one. Outcome is good. But most of the time you would not enjoy the job

I don’t think that’s how it works
Rather the jealous person would want to excel in his/her own field.

 

[mirissanew]

I don’t think that’s how it works
Rather the jealous person would want to excel in his/her own field.

Then most probably he/she will miss their hobbies

 

[Samaposha]

ගොඩක්ම ඕක වෙන්නෙ වගේ facebook,IG wage social media ප්ලැට්ෆෝම්වල අනෙක් මිනිස්සු දාන දේවල් එක්ක තමන්ව compare කරන්න ගිහින්

 

[mirissanew]

ගොඩක්ම ඕක වෙන්නෙ වගේ facebook,IG wage social media ප්ලැට්ෆෝම්වල අනෙක් මිනිස්සු දාන දේවල් එක්ක තමන්ව compare කරන්න ගිහින්

Compare nokara hitiyama harine

 

[Emios]

But that feeling when others are jealous of you, their roti faces, nothing can replace that joy