How to Reduce Sex Feelings

Emin3m

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i think u didn't even know what meant by addicted, but i had prob and now it is got cleared by some of advices,thanks those ppls.but i don't know wot prob u got, don't u like to change myself o right person or anything else...don't post rubbish comments if u didn't know my situation.ok.
 

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I'm a muslim but i think u r a Buddhist guy so
Buddhist Religion eka hariyata igena ganing....Poth path valin & monks laagen { kohomada hesirenna one , & sex gena budu haamiduruvo mokadda kiyala thiyanne } puluvantharam aagamata nemburu veyang.....ethakota oya magul tika ibema hariyai

No I'm not Buddhist, I'm Catholic Guy,but ur right , because I'm not attend any church even Sunday also,that is the my weak point,so i try to improve my religion related activities as soon as i can.
 

Hapuwa

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    bro .. don't try to force your self to suppress your feelings, it will make it worse. just go and meet a consultant.. its not a big deal... also try to change your direction step by step..involve in things that interest you like movies, games, traveling..etc... love your gf for her attitudes, kindness, etc.
     
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    BLACK MONEY

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    bro ..go and meet a consultant.. its not a big deal...
    :D
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    kosandpol

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    Badly i need my girlfriend, coz i love her so much, that's why i try to change myself and be a real lover to her.
    that includes sex as well. if there's no sexual feelings for each other, you two wont last long. If she doesnt want you sexually, then your affair is likely to be one sided and that she doesnt have any true feelings for you.
    Either way, you will have to talk to her about this and find out exactly her thoughts are in the matter. Love is not just chatting together or walking around together.
     

    Malith Sanka

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    i think u didn't even know what meant by addicted, but i had prob and now it is got cleared by some of advices,thanks those ppls.but i don't know wot prob u got, don't u like to change myself o right person or anything else...don't post rubbish comments if u didn't know my situation.ok.
    "RUBBISH COMMENTS" huh....

    you know what,

    i finally figured out with one thing
    do you wanna know what that is????

    YOU ARE AN ASSSSHOLE
     

    diamonddrago

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    In the attic...
    its normal to feel that.....

    and here is a secret...girls are also addicted to sex.....

    they will try to deny this...but they have the same sexual drive as any man....only difference is....girls have to be under certain conditions for it...like a man with good salary....constant gifts....romance and all that nonsense...:lol::lol:


    they think too much into sex.....that is their problem.....my advice...dump her....she obviously dosen't like you enough to accept you for....WHO YOU ARE....:no::no:
     
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    krizta

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    ....she is a village girl......

    What if the situation like this, you found a town girl...posh one.....she has interest in sex too????? :rolleyes:
    will you try to controll your feelings because you love her soo much????
    machan how old are you? and your girl?

    machan kellekta saamanyen apitath wadiya sex gana unanduwa wadi! un eeka penvanne naha!!!;)


    don't follow other ppls paths just try to get them to follow in your path! :P

    just an idea!:D
     

    IveyStyle

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    sex addicted.hmmm
    whatz wrong with that man?
    enjoy ur life!
    as long as u dont rape her,or any other abuse with underage,i would say its ok...
    dont think too much on sex!there are more valuable and interesting thing u can do with ur partner!
     

    Nalin25

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    machanla ,please anyone help me , because i am a sex addicter, tell me a way to reduce my sex feelings, my girlfriend don't like such things, she is a village girl,but when i was with her, i used to behave like a shitty, but i don't like to do so.i love her very much,but i don't know how to kill that shitty feelings, so anyone tell me a way , how can i reduce such behaviors ??????? help me please.

    :(:(:(



    It's not that you are a sex addict bro, it's just what you are. You cannot keep a rubber ball under the water, and so are your feelings. So you will accept the fact, by simply reading my post, or after few years to come.

    If you want to have sex with her every time you meet her but she hates the same, then obviously you guys would part away, today or tomorrow.

    At the same time, you cannot lie to yourself, that you do not want sex with her and pretend to be the all good guy type of a thing, as the day you get married, you will definitely look for other women to fulfill the same feeling. Think about it? There's your healthy wife, in the house 24/7 but she doesn't want to fulfill your needs, as much as you want, so what's next?

    That's just your destiny. You are not the only guy who complained that they cannot get enough of their gf/ wife and looked elsewhere. But of course they are guys who are completely comfortable with a not so sex minded woman. But when the mismatch happen, the result is a costly divorce!

    So do not keep blaming and hating your own self, for having genuine feelings. I hope you would soon meet a girl, who is as sexually active as you and would also be a good wife to you.

    Life is too short to live unhappy, so accept the fact that a gf/ wife is not worth, if she cannot make you happy.
     

    Thilinacba

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    dude I don't think your relationship with her will last long.And seriously she rejects you in sexual way means she doesn't want to have a serious relationship with you imho.What you gonna do when u get married and things still are like same?will your marriage work?,can you hold up all your sexual urges until u turn 80-90 and die?(lol).I don't think so man.End result will be either divorce or murder case.If it is who you are that need sex lot then that is who you are(I'm not suggesting to bang everything u see like idiotic pervs we see today,bt as I heard there are men and women who with more sexual drive than typical man/women,and it is normal as long as you won't cross your boundaries mate.And having sex with ur girl is not crossing the boundaries) and hiding what you are inside and pretending someone else will cause you lot of trouble man.Instead imho best thing to do is finding someone who is suitable to you.Also hiding your true self and pretending to be someone else is sorta cheating to her too man.Just think about it.
     

    gudaya

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    It's not that you are a sex addict bro, it's just what you are. You cannot keep a rubber ball under the water, and so are your feelings. So you will accept the fact, by simply reading my post, or after few years to come.

    If you want to have sex with her every time you meet her but she hates the same, then obviously you guys would part away, today or tomorrow.

    At the same time, you cannot lie to yourself, that you do not want sex with her and pretend to be the all good guy type of a thing, as the day you get married, you will definitely look for other women to fulfill the same feeling. Think about it? There's your healthy wife, in the house 24/7 but she doesn't want to fulfill your needs, as much as you want, so what's next?

    That's just your destiny. You are not the only guy who complained that they cannot get enough of their gf/ wife and looked elsewhere. But of course they are guys who are completely comfortable with a not so sex minded woman. But when the mismatch happen, the result is a costly divorce!

    So do not keep blaming and hating your own self, for having genuine feelings. I hope you would soon meet a girl, who is as sexually active as you and would also be a good wife to you.

    Life is too short to live unhappy, so accept the fact that a gf/ wife is not worth, if she cannot make you happy.
    that is true ,find some one suitable to you