I admire the growth and improved discipline in Some Elakiri Members

[AtulaSiriwardane]

Congratulations, Friends...
There is lot of growth and discipline in Some Elakiri Members by now.
Either they have been disciplined by others
or they have disciplined themselves.
Earlier there was a lot of Vulgar replies in my threads, Attempts to Terrorize me.. thread hijacking...
quite intentional disturbances to make it hard for me to stay here.
As they eventually experienced, it was futile,
for I looked at those as a result of a sickness rather than adversity.
Actually it was a cheap and a sick way to respond.
I think they learnt their lesson and settled by now.
Finally all disturbances seem to be gone... I really miss them...
And overall Elakiri Talks Vulgar threads and vulgar replies are less... even in other threads.
Yesterday in a thread by someone (Amali or somebody) from a fake ID caused lot of chaos and provoked many really vulgar replies..
(I suppose that thread has been removed)
Though the replies had raw vulgar words they lacked the Dwesha
which earlier was in filthy words some members used..

That is a real growth... because it is not the filthy word which creates the bad karma...
but the intention and the intensity of the intention behind the chetana.
I don't see the Dwesha behind those words now...
And I experinced a very beautiful discussion with Madura 86 in the thread
එක් සොඳුරු සොල්දාදුවෙක් 1 -Ek Sonduru Soldaaduwek
http://www.elakiri.com/forum/showthread.php?t=180573
Madura 86 started his discussion (one I enjoyed most here...) like this...
අනේ යකෝ උඹ LTTE එකට විරුද්ධව අවිගත් එකත් පාපයක් කියල ද හිතෙන්නේ
He end that discussion.. like this.
අපිට මොන මාලිගාද? අපිට ඉතින් බඩ ගැන හිතුවට පස්සෙ තමා ඕවා ගැන හිතන්න වෙන්නෙ
මං කොහොමත් පොතක තිබ්බ පලියටවත් කවුරුවත් කිව්ව නිසාවත් පිලිගන්නේ නෑ
කිසි දෙයක් ඕශෝ මොකටෙ බුදුහාමුදුරුවෝ වදාළ දේ මෙච්චර හොදට ලියලා තියෙද්දී අනුන් කියන නිසා නොව තමන්ට වැටහෙන නිසාම යම්ක් කරන්න
මං හිතන්නේ ඔබ ඒදේවල් හරියට අල්ල ගත්තාම ඔය දේශපාලුවන්ට කඩේයන එකත් නවත්වයි
මං යනවා නිදාගන්න
ටී. සී
තෙරුවන් සරණයි
I think I have made a difference here
by showing how not to be provoked or disturbed by mud or anger thrown at you.
It is not really necessary to be provoked or disturbed...
We are civilized humans.. we should not be like dogs who bark at any slight provocation...
Most of the times we lose the track when we do.
Kosandthepol told me that I lose my credibility by being scolded...
Yes and No...
Yes, there are because some narrow minded people who look at things on its face value and get impressed.
It is better to lose them.
They can't actually think.
But people who really look deep into others will understand...
One looses credibility not by what others say about him but what he does and what he does in return for others.
I have no grudge for anyone who despised me...or who attacked me...
Thats their freedom to respond and their style of responding.
Somehow they have learnt... comparing the state they were that is remarkable,.
I know that even if they try to do the same things they won't work..
because they are changed over the time.
It would look like the interviews about war without the luster and sheen it had as there was a war... or a kind of war.
Now when their is no war anymore, all the comments look hollow.
Same thing will happen here too.
Hope sincerely that they will continue to be civilized and be a decent lot,
first for their own sake, and for the sake of Elakiri.
Thank you for all the fun and joy and my growth in facing adversity with a smile. ___________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________

 

[MAXPAYNE1]

lol

 

[Renesas]

 

[sachii]

ne uncle dan hamotama ati wella. repeating same thing are useless. i dont think. no need to thanks for that.

 

[Octa HeliX]

Ehema digatama unoth hondai!!!

 

[coolgayathra]

diga wadi

 

[kinkon]

Oya wage Chater porakata banala wadak nathi nisa wenda athi...

 

[KHz]

ne uncle dan hamotama ati wella. repeating same thing are useless. i dont think. no need to thanks for that.

Exactly

 

[Bugs Bunny]

ne uncle dan hamotama ati wella. repeating same thing are useless. i dont think. no need to thanks for that.

100% true sis

portrait of a psycho as a con man

‘Portrait of a psychopath’: Intimate life of Prabhakaran exposed ​

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[minudil2000]

aththama thamai....

 

[AtulaSiriwardane]

ne uncle dan hamotama ati wella. repeating same thing are useless. i dont think. no need to thanks for that.

That is the growth... See, you too have grown.... where is the negative sarcasm and the insult you use to had in your replies.......Someone should push one to the verge.......They are grown...Do you think they will try the same techniques, with someone else?... They won't have the same confidence......They know that it can be futile............ The filthy words won't have the power to disturb... I believe that will seep into their lives too.... Thats what happened to Angulimaala.... He had enough.... actually Buddha waited till he feel that he had had enough.... and Buddha met him when that single finger meant the whole world to him...That Single finger meant end of his bloody path... He must have had had enough.... He was like the passengers who come from Badulla by bus for 8-9 hours and rush to the door when the bus comes near fort.... That is natural... Buddha used that moment, and Angulimala was transformed.__________________Nahi verena verani Sammanthiedha kudaachanan... If I had hatred for them they will have food to go on.... They used what they had inside and without my support they couldn't continue..... I have practiced this and it always work, for it is Buddha's way of facing adversity......Vipassana created the back drop.

 

[Bugs Bunny]

අතුල මෙහෙම කියන් නේ මේකයි ලොල්

 

[AtulaSiriwardane]

Ehema digatama unoth hondai!!!

........................................................................................................ I think so... at least for me... Even if someone tries to prove that it won't so the attempt will be hollow...

 

[Bugs Bunny]

 

[AtulaSiriwardane]

අතුල මෙහෙම කියන් නේ මේකයි ලොල්

balannako oya hadila thiyana tharama

 

[Bugs Bunny]

 

[Bugs Bunny]

balannako oya hadila thiyana tharama

 

[Bugs Bunny]

portrait of a psycho as a con man

‘Portrait of a psychopath’: Intimate life of Prabhakaran exposed ​

​

P’Karan and Madivadini in an undisclosed location in India during mid 80’s. Meanwhile, hundreds of women were brainwashed and made to believe Prabhakaran when he called himself the "Sun God" and carried out mindless crimes as ordered by him.

P'Karan and Madivadini at thier wedding. Kumaran Pathmanathan at the extreme left.
These girls were robbed from their youth and exposed to unprecedented torture.

P’Karan the smuggler with his close associates, a rare photo taken during early 80’s. P’Karan, Anton Balasingham, Shankar and Kumaran Pathmanathan during Anton's visit to Wanni in early 80's

P'Karan's celebrates the 6th B'day of his youngest son Balachandran. A sea tiger child solider receiving a cyanide capsule following a basic LTTe weapons training in Mullaittivu.

The Tamil diaspora was deceived to spend for the luxuries of Praba's life, while LTTE dragged thousands of innocent children to fight for an unrealistic struggle.

'Papa said us to grow big and strong and they were told to fight and swallow cyanide if got caught. .​

P'Karan, Madivadini with their most favoured son in an undisclosed location in Wanni. The school girls never knew that the real aim of LTTE was the destruction of their very own future.

The well-fed terror leader never experienced the true horrors of war, while thousands of innocent young men and women lived on a scratch of rotti to fight another day for the 'Sun-god'.

These NGO activists' cum human rights saviours fed on the suffering of the innocent Tamils turning a blind eye on the cirmes pepetrated by the LTTE.

Swarnam curries favour with Praba’s family.​

LTTE's Eastern terror leader Nagulan making ‘Pittu’​

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ලේස්සන ඇල්බම් එකක්

 

[AtulaSiriwardane]

ලේස්සන ඇල්බම් එකක්

Ok, Man piligannawa oya nam thaama hedila ne... Kamak ne.. Ohoma yanko.. Lede echcharatama odu duwala nethnam oya oppu karanna thiyana uwamanaawa adu unaama hariyaavi.

 

[sachii]

That is the growth... See, you too have grown.... where is the negative sarcasm and the insult you use to had in your replies.......Someone should push one to the verge.......They are grown...Do you think they will try the same techniques, with someone else?... They won't have the same confidence......They know that it can be futile............ The filthy words won't have the power to disturb... I believe that will seep into their lives too.... Thats what happened to Angulimaala.... He had enough.... actually Buddha waited till he feel that he had had enough.... and Buddha met him when that single finger meant the whole world to him...That Single finger meant end of his bloody path... He must have had had enough.... He was like the passengers who come from Badulla by bus for 8-9 hours and rush to the door when the bus comes near fort.... That is natural... Buddha used that moment, and Angulimala was transformed.__________________Nahi verena verani Sammanthiedha kudaachanan... If I had hatred for them they will have food to go on.... They used what they had inside and without my support they couldn't continue..... I have practiced this and it always work, for it is Buddha's way of facing adversity......Vipassana created the back drop.

oya hithan buudh dharamayk methana ne. methana attama wela tiyenee ara katawak tiyenne hamdama dakina kukulage karamalaya sudupatay wage deyak. you know it is really normal to see your thread. there are no any special thing. people get excited to see something different but in your thread there are no any special story. you repeating same same story everyday but in different way. that is the hidden discipline you see now in ur theread. ok bytheway it is better to short you replies rather than this..