Congratulations, Friends... There is lot of growth and discipline in Some Elakiri Members by now. Either they have been disciplined by others or they have disciplined themselves. Earlier there was a lot of Vulgar replies in my threads, Attempts to Terrorize me.. thread hijacking... quite intentional disturbances to make it hard for me to stay here. As they eventually experienced, it was futile, for I looked at those as a result of a sickness rather than adversity. Actually it was a cheap and a sick way to respond. I think they learnt their lesson and settled by now. Finally all disturbances seem to be gone... I really miss them... And overall Elakiri Talks Vulgar threads and vulgar replies are less... even in other threads. Yesterday in a thread by someone (Amali or somebody) from a fake ID caused lot of chaos and provoked many really vulgar replies.. (I suppose that thread has been removed) Though the replies had raw vulgar words they lacked the Dwesha which earlier was in filthy words some members used.. That is a real growth... because it is not the filthy word which creates the bad karma... but the intention and the intensity of the intention behind the chetana. I don't see the Dwesha behind those words now... And I experinced a very beautiful discussion with Madura 86 in the thread එක් සොඳුරු සොල්දාදුවෙක් 1 -Ek Sonduru Soldaaduwek
http://www.elakiri.com/forum/showthread.php?t=180573 Madura 86 started his discussion (one I enjoyed most here...) like this... අනේ යකෝ උඹ LTTE එකට විරුද්ධව අවිගත් එකත් පාපයක් කියල ද හිතෙන්නේ He end that discussion.. like this. අපිට මොන මාලිගාද? අපිට ඉතින් බඩ ගැන හිතුවට පස්සෙ තමා ඕවා ගැන හිතන්න වෙන්නෙ මං කොහොමත් පොතක තිබ්බ පලියටවත් කවුරුවත් කිව්ව නිසාවත් පිලිගන්නේ නෑ කිසි දෙයක් ඕශෝ මොකටෙ බුදුහාමුදුරුවෝ වදාළ දේ මෙච්චර හොදට ලියලා තියෙද්දී අනුන් කියන නිසා නොව තමන්ට වැටහෙන නිසාම යම්ක් කරන්න මං හිතන්නේ ඔබ ඒදේවල් හරියට අල්ල ගත්තාම ඔය දේශපාලුවන්ට කඩේයන එකත් නවත්වයි මං යනවා නිදාගන්න ටී. සී තෙරුවන් සරණයි I think I have made a difference here by showing how not to be provoked or disturbed by mud or anger thrown at you. It is not really necessary to be provoked or disturbed... We are civilized humans.. we should not be like dogs who bark at any slight provocation... Most of the times we lose the track when we do. Kosandthepol told me that I lose my credibility by being scolded... Yes and No... Yes, there are because some narrow minded people who look at things on its face value and get impressed. It is better to lose them. They can't actually think. But people who really look deep into others will understand... One looses credibility not by what others say about him but what he does and what he does in return for others. I have no grudge for anyone who despised me...or who attacked me... Thats their freedom to respond and their style of responding. Somehow they have learnt... and that is remarkable, comparing the state they were. I know that even if they try to do the same things they won't work.. because they are changed over the time. It would look like the interviews about war without the luster and sheen it had as there was a war... or a kind of war. Now when their is no war anymore, all the comments look hollow. Same thing will happen here too. Hope sincerely that they will continue to be civilized and be a decent lot, first for their own sake, and for the sake of Elakiri. Thank you for all the fun and joy and my growth in facing adversity with a smile. ___________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________ (None of the buttons around typing space work for me, and editing facility)
repeating same thing are useless.
exctly my fingers wreckd to typ filthy words again agian again
