I lost my girlfriend

BRAINY

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  • I've been there, its hard, its painful, it hurts & everyone will tell you more or less the same, you won't believe it, you'll think you can;t do it, you'll think it'll never heal then you'll find out later in time that it actually does.

    This doesn't mean you stop loving them, it just means you can keep these emotions lower down inside you & in fact you learn to deal with it more, thats what happens, you learn the hard way simply because you have no other choice.

    Concentrate on healing, concentrate on your career or other things you want to do in life, realise too that you are ok being single, and just totally be yourself, theirs no rush to get things back to normal & heal, this will happen all in good time.

    Whenever you go through a hard time too, just take a deep breath and think about why it ended, and the reason it ended, because thats the point your at now, ya know, in the future you may get back together, you may not, who knows?, but one thisng is DON'T concentrate on that & hold on to that, move forward, don't initiate contact either at all, she knows where you are & she probably needs time to miss you too, your always there, you will never get out of this situation you are in now & that is 110% definite !

    But for now, take thigns steady, do things when your ready to, yes, go out more, do more things to take your mind off things, you'll see in time that things are actually getting better & you will get through this.

    Just think to yourself "Ya know what I'm gonna be ok" ... because you will be.

    Good luck.
     

    neroshan

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    BRAINY said:
    I've been there, its hard, its painful, it hurts & everyone will tell you more or less the same, you won't believe it, you'll think you can;t do it, you'll think it'll never heal then you'll find out later in time that it actually does.

    This doesn't mean you stop loving them, it just means you can keep these emotions lower down inside you & in fact you learn to deal with it more, thats what happens, you learn the hard way simply because you have no other choice.

    Concentrate on healing, concentrate on your career or other things you want to do in life, realise too that you are ok being single, and just totally be yourself, theirs no rush to get things back to normal & heal, this will happen all in good time.

    Whenever you go through a hard time too, just take a deep breath and think about why it ended, and the reason it ended, because thats the point your at now, ya know, in the future you may get back together, you may not, who knows?, but one thisng is DON'T concentrate on that & hold on to that, move forward, don't initiate contact either at all, she knows where you are & she probably needs time to miss you too, your always there, you will never get out of this situation you are in now & that is 110% definite !

    But for now, take thigns steady, do things when your ready to, yes, go out more, do more things to take your mind off things, you'll see in time that things are actually getting better & you will get through this.

    Just think to yourself "Ya know what I'm gonna be ok" ... because you will be.

    Good luck.

    THANKS 4 U R ADVISE
     

    funky_guy

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    neroshan said:
    I lost my girlfriend


    I lost my girlfriend........I lost a friend.........so much depression...........

    i wasn't taking my depression and anger on u harren....i was looking for help........but now....i've lost all help...........i've lost everything!!!!

    i can't believe she's finally gone.........i believe i lost everything..........now my misery sickness is back..................................................and a mental wound is torn..............its all gone........i lost it............i blew it.........i lost everything.....and its not a dream......its real..............

    Dun Think Too much.. U'll get over it.. Next time make sure u find a better1 ;)..
     

    funky_guy

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    shiwankaswe said:
    Giye KOheda Kiyapan Genath Denna

    Hebei machan Mude Aka Maluwek Witharak Newei Inne

    Ow macha.. Habai prashne tiyenne ona welawata muhude unath maalu naa.. Anika Thora maalu kaala aapahu Salayanta bahinnath ekasare baane ;)
     

    Freaksy

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    don't worry machan. i feel what you feel. coz i faced the same.
    i can't ask you not to cry,
    can't ask you not to think too much,
    can't ask you try to forget it,
    and i can't ask you to ignore it and be happy, coz i know how much it hurts.:no: :no:

    all i can ask you is, just let the time solve it...
    with time you'll find the solution...:yes: :yes:

    GOOD LUCK!!
     

    sunethma

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    Bro...!

    Useless cry for moon.......
    There are sooo many stars....!!


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    :yes: :yes: :yes: :yes: :yes: :yes: :yes: :yes: :yes: :yes:
     

    chamithal

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    Cheer up man! Life's like tht... Sometimes we meet ppl that we feel, so much special... n we then would love to b with 'em 4 ever... But not everything in life happens the way we want... But believe me... You'll meet someone nice... Yet u'll not 4gt this special girl... once in a while u'll remember her... but u'll just smile... trust me...

    Cheers man!!!