I want a Tamil cute wife

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    Tamil kellekwa hoyaganna kalin issellama life insuarance ekak dapan.:D :D ai ubata jeewihe epa karawannada tamil kellek hoyanne............ thotalaga hari maradane hari patte palayan. real super tamil kello innawa ehe.........:yes: :yes: :yes:
     

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    kosandpol said:
    Not very structured ?
    Try to get your boy ordained at Malwathu or Asgiri temples. You'll see just how structured it is. Or take a look at the marriage proposal columns : "bodu govi","bodu karawe", "bodu durawe", few more shit like that.

    True.. I'm not saying Sinhalese are totally out of it, the difference I see here is that Tamils are more centric and depend on caste system, Most Tamils are Hindus they grow up in that environment and Hinduism at the very root level divide people as Brahmin, Shasthiya, Vaishya... blah.. blah.. blah.. and then lastly the untouchables!:rolleyes:

    Compare that with Sinhalese its totally different, our problem is more towards status than a born caste problem, we are not born with it... we always invent it!!:lol:

    Also a note on the ordain issue... IT'S JUST PLAIN STUPID!! (I have specifically raised this question in EK sometime back because I do not understand the logic of it, but I did not get satisfactory answer from anyone either)

    I'm sure you've heard the story of Lord Buddha and Suneetha! (As I see it, this is a disgrace to that story)
     

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    අඩෝ මගෙ කීබෝර්ඩ් එකේ අවුලක්.... ගහන ඒව ඔක්කොම ලොකුවට වදින්නේ.. මොකක්ද අර මල්වතු අස්ගිරි කතාව? මම මගේ කුලය දන්නෙ නෑ.... එහෙම එකක් තියෙනවද?
    Yeah.... Ushi SMG is a good answer for the domestic violance.... hat's off for that......man........


    kosandpol said:
    well at least, she wont have to worry about domestic violence! :lol:

    BTW, must you type everything in huge letters ? we can see just fine.
     

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    sri_lion said:
    True.. I'm not saying Sinhalese are totally out of it, the difference I see here is that Tamils are more centric and depend on caste system, Most Tamils are Hindus they grow up in that environment and Hinduism at the very root level divide people as Brahmin, Shasthiya, Vaishya... blah.. blah.. blah.. and then lastly the untouchables!:rolleyes:

    Compare that with Sinhalese its totally different, our problem is more towards status than a born caste problem, we are not born with it... we always invent it!!:lol:
    Not quite. To the hill county sinhalese, anyone born south of Balangoda is a "paththaya"
    and he's pretty much born with it.
    Also when was the last time a low income earner , even of he's a Sinhala person, allowed through the front door ? Its the rear entrance for him. Suddenly you're "Mahaththaya" to the guy who's fixing your car engine and he's somehow inferior to you. The fact that his knowledge exceeds yours doesnt matter anymore.
    Cast system is still pretty much in place whether we like to admit it or not.

    sri_lion said:
    Also a note on the ordain issue... IT'S JUST PLAIN STUPID!! (I have specifically raised this question in EK sometime back because I do not understand the logic of it, but I did not get satisfactory answer from anyone either)

    I'm sure you've heard the story of Lord Buddha and Suneetha! (As I see it, this is a disgrace to that story)
    Its a disgrace to Buddhism, Not just to that story. Yet there it is. Another example is the "Diyawadana Nilame" position at the Temple of tooth. There was a huge fuss when Niranjan Wijeratne managed to get that job. The cast and creed matters a hell of a lot there.
    According to what you say, at least in Hinduism, the religion states you're in this cast and you follow it. There's no humbug about it. (that its completely wrong is a different issue here)
    But among the Sinhala "Baudda", they disgraces the very religion they are supposed to uphold by clinging on to these casts.
     

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    kosandpol said:
    Not quite. To the hill county sinhalese, anyone born south of Balangoda is a "paththaya"
    and he's pretty much born with it.
    Also when was the last time a low income earner , even of he's a Sinhala person, allowed through the front door ? Its the rear entrance for him. Suddenly you're "Mahaththaya" to the guy who's fixing your car engine and he's somehow inferior to you. The fact that his knowledge exceeds yours doesnt matter anymore.
    Cast system is still pretty much in place whether we like to admit it or not.

    Yes this is what I said, we invent them, for example it was worse in the ancient times, upto until English colonial times... Kandy was highly regarded because Kandy was a stronghold of Sinhalese for centuries and it was the Final Kingdom to fall.. so there you go... there's one reason invented to discriminate :lol: and then there were *Sudda* given names and status in the early days... so there you go if Kandy was not enough reason then there was another one, and then came "Walau Palanthiya" and what not :lol:

    So in Sri Lanka it always changed with time, but also we must observe that some of these are almost extinct already, like how many still call them "Valau" caste, so it comes and goes.... and I see improvement in Sinhalese community than in Tamils, when I was in SL I thought probably Sri Lankan and Indian Tamils only must be making a huge fuzz about it... But even here in Malaysia, Singapore the situation is the same, infact Sri Lankan Tamils call themselves "Ceylonese" (LMAO WTF is that? :lol::lol:) as if they cannot live without a caste!

    So yes! we are not completely out of it yet, but we are not the worst.. at least what we think is a caste does not effect us in day to day life, like in India do you remember once there was a BIG ISSUE while trying to grant university admission to low caste people? :rolleyes:, but apart from all this there's the universal rich and poor issue :rolleyes: this is a caste system on its own and the example you gave me about the repairman and the car owner could be an ideal situation for this, simply because the guy owns the car or drive it, everything else become irrelevant! :lol:, I dont knoe whther to call it a unique caste system because its everywhere :lol:

    kosandpol said:
    Its a disgrace to Buddhism, Not just to that story. Yet there it is. Another example is the "Diyawadana Nilame" position at the Temple of tooth. There was a huge fuss when Niranjan Wijeratne managed to get that job. The cast and creed matters a hell of a lot there.
    According to what you say, at least in Hinduism, the religion states you're in this cast and you follow it. There's no humbug about it. (that its completely wrong is a different issue here)
    But among the Sinhala "Baudda", they disgraces the very religion they are supposed to uphold by clinging on to these casts.

    Agreed 100%, its just pure BULLSHIT!!
     

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    sri_lion said:
    Yes this is what I said, we invent them, for example it was worse in the ancient times, upto until English colonial times... Kandy was highly regarded because Kandy was a stronghold of Sinhalese for centuries and it was the Final Kingdom to fall.. so there you go... there's one reason invented to discriminate :lol: and then there were *Sudda* given names and status in the early days... so there you go if Kandy was not enough reason then there was another one, and then came "Walau Palanthiya" and what not :lol:
    The fact that the last few kings were Tamil seems to have been conveniently overlooked by everyone. :lol:
    call themselves "Ceylonese" (LMAO WTF is that? :lol::lol:) as if they cannot live without a caste!
    Is that something like mayonnaise ? :lol: :lol:

    So yes! we are not completely out of it yet, but we are not the worst.. at least what we think is a caste does not effect us in day to day life, like in India do you remember once there was a BIG ISSUE while trying to grant university admission to low caste people? :rolleyes:,
    Yeah! SL is not that bad. India is the capital of the cast woes.
    but apart from all this there's the universal rich and poor issue :rolleyes: this is a caste system on its own and the example you gave me about the repairman and the car owner could be an ideal situation for this, simply because the guy owns the car or drive it, everything else become irrelevant! :lol:, I dont knoe whther to call it a unique caste system because its everywhere :lol:
    I havent seen that in European countries and I hear its not there in USA/Canada as well.
    Even in SG, The Chinese cab drivers treats you with respect and in return expect them to be treated the same. Havent been with non chinese cabbies so dunno if its only them.

    Agreed 100%, its just pure BULLSHIT!!
    That it is! a big steaming pile of it!
     

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    hmmm, interesting...

    this is wut i think....

    yes they got da cast system.. and even v sinhalese do hv it... but v hv been gradually changed our mentality and these days v think more openly... i wud say even the educated and well exposed tamilians dont care abut the cast..

    but every aisan (specially south asia)parent want their child to marry a women or a man vth a good job, good character, good family back ground... dats common for poor to da richest ppl.. and there is no racial thing for dat.. sinhala parents,tamil parents,catholic parents,muslim parents all want that....

    still da cast system is happening in some parts of ur country amoung da sinhalese.. and even among tamilians this is happening in certain times.. specially in south india.

    and if v think v sinhala culture is sooo damm unique.. v are lying to our selves...

    our culture is coming from a south indian background.. our 1st king came vth his frnds from indian... and v had lot of influence from south india... and then v got da Buddhism which also been influenced by Hinduism for some extent...

    so our culture is soo rich because of this blend... our culture is blend vth da best philosophy in da world and vth da best cultured civilization in ancient world...

    so v are lucky... v shud protect it..
     

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    damannaked said:
    hmmm, interesting...

    this is wut i think....

    yes they got da cast system.. and even v sinhalese do hv it... but v hv been gradually changed our mentality and these days v think more openly... i wud say even the educated and well exposed tamilians dont care abut the cast..

    but every aisan (specially south asia)parent want their child to marry a women or a man vth a good job, good character, good family back ground... dats common for poor to da richest ppl.. and there is no racial thing for dat.. sinhala parents,tamil parents,catholic parents,muslim parents all want that....

    still da cast system is happening in some parts of ur country amoung da sinhalese.. and even among tamilians this is happening in certain times.. specially in south india.

    and if v think v sinhala culture is sooo damm unique.. v are lying to our selves...

    our culture is coming from a south indian background.. our 1st king came vth his frnds from indian... and v had lot of influence from south india... and then v got da Buddhism which also been influenced by Hinduism for some extent...

    so our culture is soo rich because of this blend... our culture is blend vth da best philosophy in da world and vth da best cultured civilization in ancient world...

    so v are lucky... v shud protect it..
    so at the end of the day you're saying we need ot stick with casts ?? :oo:
     

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    kosandpol said:
    so at the end of the day you're saying we need ot stick with casts ?? :oo:


    nah brother...sorry if i missed it.. im saying dat its applicable to the current society... coz now a days most of the educated ppl who are earing good buks are from low cast.. but wont they get to marry rick ppl... no matter wuts ur race....


    i was just replying to some replies in da tread too bro.. sorry for missing out the point...

    thanx
     

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    kosandpol said:
    The fact that the last few kings were Tamil seems to have been conveniently overlooked by everyone. :lol:

    Well they were Tamils but license to rule Sri Lanka was something that Sinhalese valued most - The Tooth Relic!

    kosandpol said:
    I havent seen that in European countries and I hear its not there in USA/Canada as well.
    Even in SG, The Chinese cab drivers treats you with respect and in return expect them to be treated the same. Havent been with non chinese cabbies so dunno if its only them.

    It's different story in Malaysia with cabbies! :rolleyes:

    Singapore is a different place its one of the least corrupted countries in terms of politics and all... going out of topic here a bit... my personal experience in Singapore, I was traveling from Malaysia and arrived at the Bus Station in SG and just bought a SIM card and stopped there to put the SIM into my phone, a young man approached me saying he wants to collect money for charity asked me to buy a small package includes 2 Cinema Tickets and a book for 20$ (as I remember) and I was busy doing something else for me at that time he was a nuisance so to chase him away I told him... how about you keep your stuff I'll give you $10 :lol: seems a good deal to me :lol:

    And then the boy said, no I can't, if you dont want to buy its OK! I felt embarrassed to the last cell in my body and the same time I felt so good about this kid and I bought the stuff from him! Then I realized no wonder this country is one of the least corrupted!:rofl:
     

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    damannaked said:
    our culture is coming from a south indian background.. our 1st king came vth his frnds from indian...

    Small correction bro.. King Vijaya (An Aryan) is an Eastern Indian (Present day Orissa) not from South India!
     

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    damannaked said:
    coz now a days most of the educated ppl who are earing good buks are from low cast.. but wont they get to marry rick ppl... no matter wuts ur race....

    :lol: Yeah this is so true, just as the universal discrimination between the rich and poor the other facet of it is this... who ever you are the moment get down from a BEEMER caste goes out of the window! :lol::lol::lol:
     

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    sri_lion said:
    Well they were Tamils but license to rule Sri Lanka was something that Sinhalese valued most - The Tooth Relic!
    Gotta say that its some crafty monk who got inserted that rule to the then constitution. It maybe from that blood line JR hails from. :P

    It's different story in Malaysia with cabbies! :rolleyes:

    Singapore is a different place its one of the least corrupted countries in terms of politics and all... going out of topic here a bit... my personal experience in Singapore, I was traveling from Malaysia and arrived at the Bus Station in SG and just bought a SIM card and stopped there to put the SIM into my phone, a young man approached me saying he wants to collect money for charity asked me to buy a small package includes 2 Cinema Tickets and a book for 20$ (as I remember) and I was busy doing something else for me at that time he was a nuisance so to chase him away I told him... how about you keep your stuff I'll give you $10 :lol: seems a good deal to me :lol:

    And then the boy said, no I can't, if you dont want to buy its OK! I felt embarrassed to the last cell in my body and the same time I felt so good about this kid and I bought the stuff from him! Then I realized no wonder this country is one of the least corrupted!:rofl:
    To add to your story, SG cabbies wont accept tips. If there's even 10c change, they hand it back to you and refuse to take it as a tip.

    Lee Quan Yu, Take a bow. That man is a genius. Sure wish someone like him takes the leadership here. At least, someone with enough balls to to what he did ,will do.
     

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    sri_lion said:
    :lol: Yeah this is so true, just as the universal discrimination between the rich and poor the other facet of it is this... who ever you are the moment get down from a BEEMER caste goes out of the window! :lol::lol::lol:
    thats as long as as he's among less rich people. As soon as he's among his peers, the old cast, creed and race raises their ugly heads.
     

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    hmm...........yes, they do have caste system & its the most worst system! :angry:
    And the main reason for it is their religion, Hinduism!

    Don't get angry with me, but I have to say this.......

    Hinduism is the most stupid religion is the world!!!