im depressed

chandima3010

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    according to me you don't need to give up as you were just failed! this is very common thing among job seekers!
    so try again and again!!!!!!!!! i am sure you will reach 2 your goal very soon!

    GOOD LUCK!

    some ayya kiwwoth kiwwa.atha arinna epa ban! umba elata wade karane! dont worry!
     

    GihanFX

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    look man all i said first was that this thing is not something to get all bitchy and depressive about but all the op did was get all butthurt about it.
    and then this other dude who might probably have had some grudge with me used him to get back at me which you can clearly see in the 4th page. he simply used the op and left.

    if op had any sense he shouldnt be offended by what i first said but now i think he's just an attention seeker and he's gna get what he deserves where it hurt if he keep this way
    True that :) there are few people who " kade yana" and those people need to stop watching too may hindi films cus always "weera cant save the girl and beat the dushtaya" :lol::lol::lol::lol: so for those its better not try to be "kardboard weerayo" :lol:
     

    cuteoz

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    there are many people in this life, sometimes who just doesnt care about anything unless they can get something out of you, But dont give up! Keep hope and your the best!
     

    coolioWiZ

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    just to add my two cents. . .


    the original topic is about an failed attempt in job seeking, and the OP was looking for sympathy. even i'm not a fan of bitching about failures and crying out loud online, it's still would be ok since the OP can get some words of encouragement from the ek community. but the direction it went was far from what deserves sympathy. the OP just proved that he doesn't deserve the job. there is something called being civil in the face of challenges, and he clearly should expect some flaming. if he can't face a simple flame and go red in the face, how he is gonna face the real challenges ppl meet at their workplaces.
    what got me in was the personal nature of the abuse, actually flaming can be done in a constructive way with points from both sides (more like a debate) but this was just a foul mouthed contest and OP became a scapegoat just like GihanFX mentioned before. OP was a puppet who was used by others to reach their own ends. that is another thing the OP would have to work on. u can't go up on the ladder in a workplace unless u know how to work for u'rself, not to do others work.
    sadly i agree with twisted that OP finally is another emo case seeking attention. he was just trying to pick a fight with some ppl to vent out his anger.

    and to OP: when u feel depressed the best thing is to take some time out and quit thinking the stuff which made u depressed. have a nice walk in the neighborhood, have a chat with friends and later when u'r calm enough think about what made u depressed and what went wrong. u will surely get it right next time. :)
     
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    Flyboy

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    ange88. You have a serious attitude problem...

    Look at the way you talk (and think) & still u think ur the best...
     

    GihanFX

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    just to add my two cents. . .


    the original topic is about an failed attempt in job seeking, and the OP was looking for sympathy. even i'm not a fan of bitching about failures and crying out loud online, it's still would be ok since the OP can get some words of encouragement from the ek community. but the direction it went was far from what deserves sympathy. the OP just proved that he doesn't deserve the job. there is something called being civil in the face of challenges, and he clearly should expect some flaming. if he can't face a simple flame and go red in the face, how he is gonna face the real challenges ppl meet at their workplaces.
    what got me in was the personal nature of the abuse, actually flaming can be done in a constructive way with points from both sides (more like a debate) but this was just a foul mouthed contest and OP became a scapegoat just like GihanFX mentioned before. OP was a puppet who was used by others to reach their own ends. that is another thing the OP would have to work on. u can't go up on the ladder in a workplace unless u know how to work for u'rself, not to do others work.
    sadly i agree with twisted that OP finally is another emo case seeking attention. he was just trying to pick a fight with some ppl to vent out his anger.

    and to OP: when u feel depressed the best thing is to take some time out and quit thinking the stuff which made u depressed. have a nice walk in the neighborhood, have a chat with friends and later when u'r calm enough think about what made u depressed and what went wrong. u will surely get it right next time. :)
    well said mate, need to add one more point, i saw this guy shouting in filth to "twisted" in another few threads, with this kind of attitude even he get the job his boss will kick ass him from the job in few days