Ubala kohomada job ekedi blame manage karaganne? Ekata kana bona eun. Eth mistake ekak unoth palu arinawa. Mage mistake ekak,repeat una thun hathara parak. Kiyana kari katha thamai dirawannaththe, damala gahalamai enna hithune, podi eun nisa iwasuwa. Matath amathaka wenawa bn godak dewal. Mama clothing brand ekaka buying office inne. Ada ude idala aul bn, wate eunuth innawane bn
It took me to get into my 4th decade of life, to realize that attachment (බැඳීම) causes suffering.
Hope for the best from the people around you, while expecting the worse - the word hope and expectation have 2 distinct meanings
I beleive you too are someone who beleives colleagues are your friends, when it's not
However they could be from how they behave during testing times - friendship is momentary
doing business with friends vs making friends with good business partners
In my last job in SL, like a 100 years ago, I would have my most important lunch, outside and take a walk, seeing places, in the remaining time - I never beleive in staying bored, while my 5 senses are working.. - my go get attitude eventually resulted in me going to the Gym, during lunch time, then have a quick shower and come to work, to find the rest of my day pass like a breeze..
You do not want to shrink to fit into someone's life
Be yourself and ChatGPT for "healthy boundaries" - a simple chat with a trusted Superior/ Colleague with influence or a complaint to the Labor Dept or a short consultancy with an Employment Lawyer, would explain you have the Right to get things sorted out, without unnecessarily getting further burnt as your job is your livelihood and you pay Tax to the society from that..
You may have noted that I mentioned somewhere that even the simple notification of a Restraint Order application, stops a## h###s on the track..
Good luck, with finding the meaning and balance of work and life..