sri_lion said:If you do know that person you having sex with is a married person then ofcourse it is not right!
Lord Buddha mentions this as sexual mis-conduct in Dhammapada (Nirayavagga Chapter) he mentions the reason's why..
Four misfortunes befall a heedless man who commits adultery:
1. Acquisition of demerit,
2. Disturbed state of mind
3. Blame
4. State of woe
Also leads it to Lies (which is also a sin), Dishonesty and ultimately effecting the balanced structure of the whole family.. so having a relationship with already married person has dire consequences, thus considered a sin!
freon said:Lets see
1. Acquisition of demerit - NOT A SIN
2. Disturbed state of mind - NOT A SIN
3. Blame - NOT A SIN
4. State of woe - NOT A SIN
ALL THESE JUST GUILT INSIDE THE PEOPLE INVOLVED COS ITS AGAINST COMMON MORAL CONDUCTS, GUILT CANNOT BE SIN COS IF SO THE PERSON EATING CHICKEN CAN FEEL GUILTY AS WELL BUT IF HE DOESNT KILL IT YOU CLEARLY SAID ITS NOT A SIN
SO ITS ONLY LIEING HERE BECOMES A SIN, SIMPLY IF THEY BOTH KEEP QUIET THATS FINE, AND THEY BOTH ARE STILL INSIDE THE LINE IS IT?
i'm not sure if the man is actually headless, cos he, as long as he doesnt lie he has not sinned and got what he wants as well. just like buying a dead chicken.
also when in sexual misconduct the decision is based on the effect (ie:ffecting the balanced structure of the whole family, has dire consequences..etc) but in case of killing its not (ie:no consideration about demand will make a market thus will contribute to more killing)
why?
Once again going around circles. Either you have intention of killing or either not have it. No indirect way of intention of killing. Demand blah . . blah . . is not a part of intention. You can throw a brick out of your window in to you garden because usually there are no people in the garden. But if that brick hits a cockroach and it gets killed, no sin, because intention of killing is not there.RajNOX said:as i said before... the beef stall or the super market that u r buying beef (or some meat) is selling them as you are producing a demand for it. and wht evr said.. just think like this..
you go to a relations place. they giv you chicken for lunch. and if you eat that means your consumption made them decrease the qty of chicken they hav in their house.. so they gona buy new chicken sooner than if you havnt eat them. The demand is produced on the shop keeper for the chicken. so he kills a chicken.. doesnt this cycle includes you..
and sri-singhaya.. im expectng a comment on this...
life and death?sri_lion said:Because its a matter of life and death that we are comparing to sexual misconduct, which is totally not comparable!! Sexual misconduct always based on common moral conduct, it could go either way... if you are cheating on your partner then you might or might not getaway with it.. but same principals cannot be applied to a certain one way action like taking a living beings life, can you give back the life after death?

, its ok to eat meat after it animal dies naturally in buddism?
also when in sexual misconduct the decision is based on the effect (ie:ffecting the balanced structure of the whole family, has dire consequences..etc) but in case of killing its not (ie:no consideration about demand will make a market thus will contribute to more killing)
why?
freon said:life and death?
still you can eat, tell me one way of getting chicken in your table without killing one? unless the chicken comes forward and slits off its throat to sacrifies itself for our food, its ok to eat meat after it animal dies naturally in buddism?
you need to kill a animal to eat its meat - common sense

freon said:so if all accept its ok to have sex outside marriage, buddism will be ok with it? common moral conduct is based on majorit opinion right.i cant imagine how such and act that does so much of damage to community just boils down to "ONLY LIEING"
BTW you din answer this
Now! Who accepted having sex outside marriage is OK?Why cos it accepts naturally human beings are meat eaters?doesnt go against the nature?sri_lion said:this is why we are saying Islam is wrong

according to you, if they are not lieing its fine in buddismNow! Who accepted having sex outside marriage is OK?
here if you want to check again.yes it does, why? if i can tell you the exact reason i should be god,i'm not.BTW can I ask you 1 question? does Islam condone lieing and dishonesty? Why?
freon said:yes it does, why? if i can tell you the exact reason i should be god,i'm not.
but muslims follow it wihtout a problem cos they see all it does is good, helps makes the society a better one
freon said:Why cos it accepts naturally human beings are meat eaters?doesnt go against the nature?
not hiding behind the bush and saying ok you can eat but no..cant kill?![]()

freon said:according to you, if they are not lieing its fine in buddism
remember wat you post will be in EK servershere if you want to check again.
So that is what I was talking about.. I dont know what you talking about!freon said:yes it does, why? if i can tell you the exact reason i should be god,i'm not.
freon said:but muslims follow it wihtout a problem cos they see all it does is good, helps makes the society a better one
nadeeshaF said:What about Taqqiya (sp?)?




nadeeshaF said:What about Taqqiya (sp?)?
gazaly said:inju inju.. menna meya aayeth awilla... Taqqiya gana dana gannama o'neda![]()
nadeeshaF said:Har har. Getting a little stale aren't we?
No, I don't want to know about Taqiya from YOU. Especially when that means copy pasting a wall of text from some Islamic site, which nobody in their right mind would want to read.
Taqiya allows muslims to lie, cover the truth. That's all that matters, and it contradicts what he said, so. Eat that.







o'ne nam balanna gihilla mage parana replys...
inju inju..
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)please read what i asked hereSuppose you meet someone, you are not married.. and the other person says he/she not married either.. and you have no way of knowing if that is really true or not... so how exactly having sex with such person can be wrong?
Unless ofcourse you have sex without that person's consent!!So that is what I was talking about.. I dont know what you talking about!
you saidwhat if you knew? i mean the guy has sinned according to buddism?
you din say its a sin according to buddism unless they lie aboout it, and you knew wat i was talking about.If you do know that person you having sex with is a married person then ofcourse it is not right!

its part of the belief, judgment day just like "nivana" is part of buddists beliefI'll tell you why! because you are scared of GOD, you are scared that on judgment day he will punish you.. this is why you refrain from all SINS!! Isn't it?
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Originally Posted by freon
but muslims follow it wihtout a problem cos they see all it does is good, helps makes the society a better one
So how can that differ from Buddhists / Buddhism ?
gazaly said:indaa... inju inju....
kawda copy paste karanney mama da oyada?
Ehema mama karana hama thanama mama A'ka mention karanawa mama mey deygaththey Islamic site ekakin kiyalaa...o'ne nam balanna gihilla mage parana replys...
gazaly said:kohomath mama oyata taqiya gana kiyanney naha mata oyata kiyanna o'ne kiyala hithuneth naha.. oyatath mona thakiyyekda..inju inju..
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gazaly said:anika mage aagamata dahamata oya indan katha katha kiyaddi mama uda balagena inna tharam Niwatawenney naha.. oyata hari oyage prathipathhi walata anuwa thamange aagama dahama unath pawala dena wada..9meyka mama kiyanney kalin oya oyage aagama gana kiyapu deyak sambandawai-link eka hoyala A'ka pennam inna ) api muslims..api bandila inney apey aagama jaathiya winasha karanna ena mona balaweygetath muhuna dennai.. (namuth oya ehenma kara kiyala mamakiyanney naha-inju inju.. oya echchara loku kenekuth newei apey aagama winasa karannata)
Oyage jaathiya mokakda?gazaly said:api bandila inney apey aagama jaathiya winasha karanna ena mona balaweygetath muhuna dennai..
freon said:IE: a guy wants to have sex, a married lady wants it from someone else than her husband. if this guy sleeps with her it want be a problem to him but she will be sinning?
freon said:you are all over the place buddy..
now you have denied grede 8 science - remember food chain?
again you itself say buddism says can eat meat (accepts science?)
you talk about "smart human being", but cannot figure how the one chicken in the market shelve will be replaced by a live chicken in the farm
and the best part is you had to invent a new kind of animal - meat eating look-a-like animals to support your points (can i have some examples of these pls?)
freon said:please read what i asked here
you said
you din say its a sin according to buddism unless they lie aboout it, and you knew wat i was talking about.![]()
freon said:its part of the belief, judgment day just like "nivana" is part of buddists belief