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layoff kaloth backup plan eka
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thama campus walata kade yana ekak. yako mama danna colombo moratuwa giya ona tharam innawa ain karapu, team eke slit arawa mewa private ewata giya un athule indaddi..
Layoff karaddi campus balan na bn
uba thaama undergraduate neda?
maths IT class karapalla 
salli hoyanta puluwan , labuna padiyatath wada...
+ adu kule ekek unath uba hama ekama sir sir kiyanawa
salli hoyanta puluwan , labuna padiyatath wada... + adu kule ekek unath uba hama ekama sir sir kiyanawa
mokadda mchn wife hitapu company ekaThis already happened to my wife (wife contract hitiye, no compensation, they just stopped contract renewal)
now 2 months
wife uth IT kare, hithapan gedarata IT salary ekak nathi unama , kelin ma income eka half cut una
first month eke fuck ma una , ( 1 bday of a kid, then both kids got dengue) credit card walin diwwe anthima sathiya. all credit cards reached limit.
second month eke sahenta cost cutting kara, credit card wala minimum payment witharak damma , buget kara eka eka area ekata cost, limit da gaththa,(envelope system budgeting)
me mase almost break even wage.
habai mokak hari exception ekak unoth rewenawa
wife eka eka business try karanawa, thama mokak wath hari giye na
IT job hoyannath na
mage job ekath nikan 50-50 thiyenne
monthly gewana loans thama lokuma concern eka ban almost 1.5 laks on loans and me hira una CC tika
hitha ganna baruwa inne mona karannada kiyala
sri lankan company ekakin wena rataka company ekakata outsource karala thiyena unta mokada wenne bn issarahata :/
------ Post added on Jul 20, 2026 at 12:17 AM
- Unge negative vibe eka ubata enawaMata nan penne next best job is psychologist,job netuwa depression hadena unta advice denna
- Unta owata gewanna salli na
- Ubatath depression hadila thamai nathara wenne
Very competitive, umbata paying lamai 5 hoya ganna budu gemak denna wenawa..maths IT class karapalla
+ adu kule ekek unath uba hama ekama sir sir kiyanawa
Established well known un langata thama lamai yanne..
It`s a messy situation, i hope you`ll get out of it soon..
Something i think about all the time, would you recommend someone to have two (or even one) kids these days? Do you think its's worth spending the best years of someone's life (i.e. 25 to 45 years?) fighting everyday for survival and not having/doing things one would like to have/do for themselves (and perhaps society too)?
I know plenty of people will come back with "පවුලේ වගකීම් ගන්න බැරි නම් පිරිමියෙක් නෙවේ.." and all that stupid nonsense. But are there people who are actually logical/rational in life without just following everyone else like sheep these days?
ubata danata thiyena loan and family strength ekath ekka thamayi depend wenne..
uba badalanam.. wife job karanawanam and loan naththam thawa income ekak hoya gannakam less stress ekke inna puluwan
This already happened to my wife (wife contract hitiye, no compensation, they just stopped contract renewal)
now 2 months
wife uth IT kare, hithapan gedarata IT salary ekak nathi unama , kelin ma income eka half cut una
first month eke fuck ma una , ( 1 bday of a kid, then both kids got dengue) credit card walin diwwe anthima sathiya. all credit cards reached limit.
second month eke sahenta cost cutting kara, credit card wala minimum payment witharak damma , buget kara eka eka area ekata cost, limit da gaththa,(envelope system budgeting)
me mase almost break even wage.
habai mokak hari exception ekak unoth rewenawa
wife eka eka business try karanawa, thama mokak wath hari giye na
IT job hoyannath na
mage job ekath nikan 50-50 thiyenne
monthly gewana loans thama lokuma concern eka ban almost 1.5 laks on loans and me hira una CC tika
hitha ganna baruwa inne mona karannada kiyala
ගෑණි මිනිහ දෙන්නම එකම ෆීල්ඩ් එකේ රස්සා කරන එක භයානකයි.
කොයි රස්සාව උනත්.
It`s a messy situation, i hope you`ll get out of it soon..
Something i think about all the time, would you recommend someone to have two (or even one) kids these days? Do you think its's worth spending the best years of someone's life (i.e. 25 to 45 years?) fighting everyday for survival and not having/doing things one would like to have/do for themselves (and perhaps society too)?
I know plenty of people will come back with "පවුලේ වගකීම් ගන්න බැරි නම් පිරිමියෙක් නෙවේ.." and all that stupid nonsense. But are there people who are actually logical/rational in life without just following everyone else like sheep these days?
Of course Yes.
having kids is the biological fullfillment of an individual. the thrill you get from that, you cant get by doing anything.
you can have hobbies, but all that fade with time , you can travel but travelling is getting tireing at a certain point. you can have daily night parties, sex or drinks, those become addiction or specially in sex it becomes pointless at a certain point.
Im telling these with by my many observations , not really with personal experience.
but kids is a every day changing experience, seeing you r own continuation. some one may think it is a burdan, but for the person in it it is part of something he does for himself. it is the worlds strongest bond you make with another human.
basically it is un-explainable that joy until you get it.
Im talking about the default path.
there are always exceptions,
if you get a defective - or metally ill child , it may become the greatest suffering , you may think it is better not having this child.
but if you have some balanced life , and need to sacrifice some things you would like to do for your own kids ; it is totally worth it.
I think if someone die without haveing own kids; it is a sad thing that can happen to the person, because he lived but died without having the greated joy he can experience.
