bravo86 said:I think living alone is the best... Why we follow sm troubles...???
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rustyc said:then why do some ppl stop affairs cuz the two of them just don't match???
- I dont think people stop afffiars cos they believ they dont match, they stop affiars cos they fall out of lov...
They might stop cos horescope dont match, and it is for two reasons first (less likely) the parental and social pressure (more likely) they are not sure of taking the big step and committing.... but if you can see differences and mutually break off that is great...
in a proposal mostly only da elders decide.
they only consider da wealth,intelligence,cast,well mannered...and stuff like that
well its our 2500 years of histrory that is screwing us up, our people still want tradition and would love to talk about a glorified past and forget the present... unfortunately... so this is clearly which era u or ur parents live in...
The question is who is making a life long commitment, us or them... i mean wealth, cast and so on are very materialistic, good to show off thats all... its the pride to say "my daughter got married to a doc"
but in love you get a chance to know whether the two can coop up with each other...
There is a very famous joke which says "Men get married hoping the woman would change, women get married hoping the man would change, both are disapointed... but in reality we change, once we marry we are not the same person we were... so we get to know a little by being in a love affair, but we are in love and love is blind we dont see all... or we dont want to see all...
you know dat some couples don't match at all.
so if it's "love" they can break up when they want
but wat wud happen if those two were proposed???
If you are meeting through a proporsal, you learn to adopt to each other, you enter the marrage with less expectations "the bar is lower" while after an affair you have high expectations and the bar is much higher, dissapointment is even worse...
Any way one of my favourite proverbs is "before marrage keep both eyes open, after marrage keep one closed"
Hope i managed to help a little
mama kiyanne na umbata. Hik hik magen sathya dana ganna . CrushDKD said:dane eth vote karemi man badine netha!
why do you say soo...???isurunadu said:it depends
- I dont think people stop afffiars cos they believ they dont match, they stop affiars cos they fall out of lov...
They might stop cos horescope dont match, and it is for two reasons first (less likely) the parental and social pressure (more likely) they are not sure of taking the big step and committing.... but if you can see differences and mutually break off that is great...pal there are loads of cupples who just break up cuz they don't match each other...
there could be other reasons too
but still there are cupples who break up cuz they don't match each other
well its our 2500 years of histrory that is screwing us up, our people still want tradition and would love to talk about a glorified past and forget the present... unfortunately... so this is clearly which era u or ur parents live in...
The question is who is making a life long commitment, us or them... i mean wealth, cast and so on are very materialistic, good to show off thats all... its the pride to say "my daughter got married to a doc"
exactly...
dats ma point...
cuz of da above reason proposals are less effective than love affairs when it comes to marrages
There is a very famous joke which says "Men get married hoping the woman would change, women get married hoping the man would change, both are disapointed... but in reality we change, once we marry we are not the same person we were... so we get to know a little by being in a love affair, but we are in love and love is blind we dont see all... or we dont want to see all...hey dats some crap which da elders say to keep their children away from love affairs when they go school...
after all love is not dat blind as they say...
at lest not to a major part of the youth...
its all about what your mental status is...
you can love with your brain wide awake...
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