Marrying a thirteen year old girl

maleemsg

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I am sorry this thread is too long so I didnt read it at all...!
but as a girl all I have to say is it is unacceptable to marry a 13 years old girl under any circumstance.

any child / girl must have her life as a child to enjoy! and she must have her right to choice her life partner. How can a 13 years old child find her partner with out proper experiences and education and etc.???
 

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    EΜΙFΞXΛ said:
    :dull: machan meka tikak ketiyen danna barida?


    sure:D

    ‘Urwah said: "Khadeejah died three years before the Prophet (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) migrated to Madeenah. He stayed alone for two years or thereabouts, then he married ‘Aa’ishah when she was six years old, and consummated the marriage when she was nine years old." (Reported by al-Bukhaari, 3607)

    Al- Muhallab said: "[The scholars] agreed that it is permissible for a father to marry off his young virgin daughter, even though it is not usually the case to have intercourse with such a young woman."

    tawa easy eken kiwwa nam benefits

    better understanding:)

    paw (paapa) kiyawalin welaki siteema


    :):)




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    EΜΙFΞXΛ said:
    :dull: machan meka tikak ketiyen danna barida?
    Ketiyen demmuth witharak balanawada? ko source.. Ko mekata hethuwa.. kiyala.. nikang ananmanan ahanna patanganiy.. So Ape Siraj me okkoma full saakshith ekka daala thiyanne..:) :rofl:
     

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    machan meka kawuruth kiyawanne na bro..Meka long wadi..and i also lyk to knw y da hell muslims allow to marry a 13 YEAR OLD GAl.....Thts terrible!!
    Bt i cnt read it bcoz tz too long...
    and i dun think that ANY explanation in this whole world would justify marrying a 13 year Old gal...Thats a crime man!! thats way more than a crime....Terrible!!
    glad im a Buddhist!!
     

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    maleemsg said:
    I am sorry this thread is too long so I didnt read it at all...!
    but as a girl all I have to say is it is unacceptable to marry a 13 years old girl under any circumstance.

    any child / girl must have her life as a child to enjoy! and she must have her right to choice her life partner. How can a 13 years old child find her partner with out proper experiences and education and etc.???

    its ok no prob

    memai sister ape religion eke kiyala tiyanne puluwan taramak girl kenek wediwiyata pat una gaman eywa bandala denna kiyala:)


    http://elakiri.com/forum/showpost.php?p=4053244&postcount=24

    ya eyalage parents eyata hoda ekkenek oyala dei life patrner wa toraganna girl ta awasara tiyanawa i mean eyata kemathi ekkanawa

    metana badinna girl ge kemattah tiyanna oni:)
     

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    ram4mira said:
    machan meka kawuruth kiyawanne na bro..Meka long wadi..and i also lyk to knw y da hell muslims allow to marry a 13 YEAR OLD GAl.....Thts terrible!!
    Bt i cnt read it bcoz tz too long...
    and i dun think that ANY explanation in this whole world would justify marrying a 13 year Old gal...Thats a crime man!! thats way more than a crime....Terrible!!
    glad im a Buddhist!!

    glad i am 100 pure muslim

    ok bro edited its allowed:)
     

    maleemsg

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    sirajstc said:
    its ok no prob

    memai sister ape religion eke kiyala tiyanne puluwan taramak girl kenek wediwiyata pat una gaman eywa bandala denna kiyala:)


    http://elakiri.com/forum/showpost.php?p=4053244&postcount=24

    ya eyalage parents eyata hoda ekkenek oyala dei life patrner wa toraganna girl ta awasara tiyanawa i mean eyata kemathi ekkanawa

    metana badinna girl ge kemattah tiyanna oni:)

    ow ow mama dannawa eka... godak muslim girls school wala 7 - 8 class wala inna lamai wedi wiyata path unata passe skole ewanne nehe...! :(
    e lamaya kochchara daksha unath igana ganan eyata gedra nathara wenna wenawa.... :( mama danne nehe eka koi tharam sadarana thiiranayak da kiyala :no:

    e wagema thaman marry karana kenawa depaupiyo thiranaya karanne kohomada kiyana ekath mata hitha ganna behe! :no:

    e wagema girl ge kemeththa oni kiuwa nisai ahanne... gedarin gena yojanawata akamethi unoth e lamayata gedara nidahase inna denawada?
    mama danna tharamin akamethi wenawata wada hodai waha beela merena eka kiyalai eyala kiyanne...
     

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    ram4mira said:
    I read ur short version bro....Il read dat thng if i find time...
    But this is terrible.. :no: :no: :no: :no: :no:

    u 1st tell me yy u said like tat give me the reason

    eyi kiyanna hetuwa man pedili karannam oba hari nam man hari kiyannam:)

    weradi nam weradi kiyannam:no:

    give me the correct answer wats wrg with it???
     

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    maybe wait for 5 more years till she becomes 18? maybe that will be seen more acceptable in the society... don't know bro do whatever feels right for you, good luck!!!!!!!!!
     

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    maleemsg said:
    ow ow mama dannawa eka... godak muslim girls school wala 7 - 8 class wala inna lamai wedi wiyata path unata passe skole ewanne nehe...! :(
    e lamaya kochchara daksha unath igana ganan eyata gedra nathara wenna wenawa.... :( mama danne nehe eka koi tharam sadarana thiiranayak da kiyala :no:

    e wagema thaman marry karana kenawa depaupiyo thiranaya karanne kohomada kiyana ekath mata hitha ganna behe! :no:

    e wagema girl ge kemeththa oni kiuwa nisai ahanne... gedarin gena yojanawata akamethi unoth e lamayata gedara nidahase inna denawada?
    mama danna tharamin akamethi wenawata wada hodai waha beela merena eka kiyalai eyala kiyanne...

    ahahahahahahaa

    ya mama meeta kalin tibba sister article ekak hijabaya gena mama oyata eka ketiyen pedili karala dennam:)oyata oni nam

    eyi ape girlslawa school yawanne nette e scene tika


    girl ta kemathi nettam eka karanna be i mean wedding eka

    ya nidahase inna denawa:)onna sister oya waradda gatta tena okkoma itanne girls lata free dom ne kiyala never ema kavdawath islam ageme kiyala ne:no:

    mata oya kiyanna nettam ema free dom neti ekkenek man nam danna taramata ema ne
    :no:


    ema tibba nam ada muslims girls la ne:rofl:okkkoma waha beela merila eti

    so man den metana podi udaranayk pedili karannamko oyata


    ex-

    road eke yanawa kello 2nek

    eke ekkenek ape agamata anuwa full agama anuwa yanawa hijab ema daagena:)harida

    eke anith ekkena yanawa full western kemayata

    paare inna kollo kaawada otanin apahasayata lak karanne mata kiyannko balanna

    aniwareyn ara western gilwa:angry::angry:


     

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    මෙතන තියෙන විදියට ගැහැනියක් වැඩිවියට පත් වුනහම කසාද බදින්න පුලුවන් කියල නේ?

    සම්පූර්ණයෙන් වැරදියි මගේ මතයෙ හැටියට නම්. මොකද, ගැහැනියක් වැඩිවියට පත් වෙන්න පුලුවන් නියමිත හෝ නියත වයසක් නැහැ. ඒ කියන්නේ අවුරුදු 10දි වෙන්නත් පුලුවන්, 13දි වෙන්නත් පුලුවන් හෝ 8දි වෙන්නත් පුලුවන්.

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