LOVE GURUBunny_B said:loku scenedaanawa nevi.
godaak aya danne nehe adaraya kalata.. mokakda me scene eka kiyala.
itin ehema ayata liyapu punchima punchi thread ekak me
hithanawa samaharak ayata meka wedak wei kiyala
mata me topic eka negala yanna oni ne... oyala monawahari igenagaththoth a ethi
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"Adare" kiyanne godaakma sarala (simple) deyakuth nevi, sankeernama
(involuted) deyakuth nevi. "Adare" kohomada? "adare" kochchrada? kiyanna minum ne.
ekama vidihata "Adare" karanna katawatma be. a wagema kenek karana adarayak awathakseku (underrate) karanna kisima kenekuta aithiyak ne.
Adaraye svabhawaya (nature of love) mano-vidyawata anuwa (according to the psychology) kotas kihipayakaya bedenawa.
aa.. Eros, Ludus, Storge, Pragma, Mania annnd Agape kiyala.
monawada me?
Eros :
me kiyanne, eththatama "adare" kiyana deta wada "akarshanaya" (attraction)
kiyanade. eka saragee kaika adarayak.
(a passionate love, with sensual desire and longing) kenekge lassana, hedaya, roopaya (figure) mul karagenai me adaraya ethiwenne.
api pare yanakota lassana cham kellek dekkoth, ehema nethnam kotata endagena yana
mature kellek dekkoth, apita ethiwenne me de thmai. kellontath handsome kollek
dekkama me de wenawa. "Shihan Mihiranga" ta thiyana asawa wage.
hari.. me adaraya karana aya "viwahaya" dakinne deerga-kaleena
madhusamayak (an extended honeymoon) vidihata saha (and) "SEX" kiyana de dakinne
me geevithe lebiya yuthu "parama suwaya" vidihatai.
Ludus :
hmm.. me adare sellakkara (playful) adarayak. mekedi adare gunathwayata (quality) wada belenne
pawathwagena yana sambhandakam sankyawai (quantity). Ludic love ethiwenne
godaakma "SEX" mulkaragena. meyala sambhandakam godaak kalayakata pawathwagena
yanna kemathi ne. eyala "viwahaya" (marriage) dakinne mahaa ugulak (trap) vidihata.
me adaraya vedagathkamak, ehema nethnam anagathayak gena eyala hithanne ne.
"Players"la kiyane meyalata (man wage.. lol)
weda dala kello set karagannawa. Ludic loverslata oni fun(+sex) fun(+sex) & fun(+sex) vitharamai.
godaakma ethiwenne pirimi parshavaya mul karagena. pirimiyekge "purushathwaya" (masculinity)
ethikaraganna hondama deyak vidihata meka api dakinawa. nedda machaaan?
Storge :
hmm.. Storge kiyanne ekaparata ethiwena adarayak nevi. meka ethiwenne ekama vidihata hithana,
ekama vidihata hesirena, ekama vidihe theerana ganna aya atharei. kotinma kiyanawanam
"Best Friends"la athare. yalukama (friendship) kalayath ekka me wage dekata peralenna puluwan.
samaharavita a yalukama adarak une kothanadida kiyana ekawath eyala danne ne.
me vidihata ethiwena adare kalpawathinne, "vishwasaya" and "porondu" kiyana dewal uda.
mekedi "SEX" gena wedi selakillak dakwanne ne. lokuma de thamai me vidihara ekathuwena
aya athare prashna, arawul, matha geteem godak adui. hmm.. kal pawathina adarayak!
huh! poddak inna coffee ekak hadan ennam. brb!
ela kris! eelangata api kathakaranna yannee..
Pragma :
Pragma kiyanne "Prayogika adarayak". godakma vedagath kiyala sammatha karagaththa
aya athare me adare ethiwenawaa. Pragmatic lover kenek eyage sahakarayagen "yatharthaya"
saha "buddhimathkama" kiyana dewal balaporoththu wenawa. mekedi pragmatic lover hemathissema
eyage partnerge watinakamak hoyanna uthsaha karanawa. eyala weradi weda nokara innawa,
ewain weradi prathi-vipaka lebenawa kiyala danna nisa. eyala godaak hoyala balanawa monawada eyage relationship eken eyala lebune monawada, nolebune monawada kiyala.
Eyala godaakma uthsaha karanne a dennagema thiyana podu eka aramunakata langawenna eka. meyala "viwahaya" dakinne prajananaya (procreation) kalaheki margayak vidihata.
a relationship eka saha daruwan gena hithanne diyunu karala issarahata geniyanna puluwan wathkam saha wagakeem vidihata. meke thiyana honda de thamai yatharthaya therumgena hari vidihata weda karana
eka (realism & practicality)
Meke thiyana aula thama kenekta anikkenage hengeem prakasha karanna beriweema (undemonstrativeness)
saha a nisa a geevithaye rasaya (u kno) aduveema. ape rate godaak kalin paramparawa geniyanne mewage adarayak. hapaa... matanam epaawela thiyenne
prostitution ethiwenna Pragma godaak balapanawa. kiyanna deyake, ne?
den api enne hondama dekata. a "Mania" and "Agape"
Mania :
hmm.. godak ahamben siduwechcha dekin wage thama meyala hambawenne. Manic loversla langa godaak welawata "ahankaraya" kiyana de thiyanawa.
eyala gogaaaariyak eyalage relationship eka gena hithanawa..
a gena wadawenawa.. eyala eyalage partners gena godaak lokuwata hithanawa.
Manic aya pennanawa eyalata eyalage partnersla nethuwa jeevath wenna amarui kiyala.
Eyala godak weradi karanna bayawenawa, thamange adare thamanta ahimi wei kiyala.
"viwahaya" salakanne thamanta nathu karageneemak, ehema nethnam thamangema karagenimak vidihata.
relationship eka thawa thawath godananwaganna "SEX" yodagannawa.
Manic loversla godaak anika gena selakilimathwena (anxious) saha avishvasaya (insecure) thiyana aya.
and they can be extremely jealous(samahara aya meka piliganne ne, eth hondata hithala balanna)
Manic love ekaka thiyana de thma lokuuuu adarayak thiyana eka.
eth.. eka nisama irisayawath (jealousy), hithe ethiwena bayath (obsessiveness), kawadawath sathutu nowene trupthimath nowena (insatiability) kenek wenawa.
meka godaakma wedi unama "ebbehiveema" (addiction), "paligeneema", danduwam deema wage dewal wenawa. onna okai thathwe
Agape :
Agapic love saralawama kiyanawanam aathma parithyagaya (self-sacrificing).
meyala godak welawata sraddha sampanna gunadrmawalin pirichcha (spiritual or religious)aya.
eyala eyalage partnersla dakinne eyalata lebichcha honda deyak (blessings) vidihata.
a nisa eyala thamange partnerwa adren rekabaladannawa. eyala ekinekawa godak vishvasa karanawa, ekinekage hith noridena vidihata weda karanawa.
Agapic lover kenek godaak iwasiliwanthawa katayuthu karanawa hema welawakadeema, sambandaya newathunu mohothakadee pawa.
"viwahaya" salakanne pavithra vishvasayak vidihata. "SEX" dakinne eyata lebunu dayadayak vidihata.
me adraye "porondu", "kondesi" kiyana ewa ne. thaman gena hithanawata wada thamange partnerne sathuta, subha siddhiya gena hithanawa.
eyala kawadahari adaraya dinanawa... adarayee phala nela gannawa...a happy ending onna okai kathawa..
api hemotama adare oni. a wagema api kauruth paripoorna (perfect) ne. api adaraya karaddi godaak adupadukam wenna puluwa.
oyala den adaraya gena dannawane.. oya vidihata balanna api anith ayata adaraya karala thiyenne mona vidihatada? monawada ape athin wechcha adupadukam? so and soehenam thawa kiyanna dewal nene?
prashnayak thibboth ahnna nethnam PM karanna.
