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shaggy

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x-pert said:
hmmm...

Case eka serious wage ne???

Machang... karanna thiyanne wada 2yi.

1) Abortion
2) Talk to the parents

No 1) above is out of the topic... no questions about that..

So machang.. Talk with the parents. I know u can not do it.... I would definitely talk wit the parents if you like..... (x.xpert@hm)
But bro, um in Australia so the only way to communicate, for me is over the phone and this matter is bit too serious to talk over the phone ne...

I know Shaggy well. You can ask him to help you...
He will do it um dead sure about it.....

Do not... I repeat.. Do not take bad desicions....

All the best for your future with your loving girl brother....

If this is for real, then we are with you always machang... :yes:

tkz 4 the confidence .. aniwaaa i will help u with ma best...
 

shaggy

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x-pert said:
Apita mukuth karanna baha kolla... Parents la karana deyak karai machang.. Thats the best option...

Podi lamane thawama ee golla.... ithin moda theerana ganna puluwan... So let the parents handle it and Shaggy will handle the parents..

Shaggyo.. help ekak oone nam kiyahan... dennam over the phone or VoIP help ekak.. :) :yes: :yes:

aniwaaa macho
 

Lich

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Musilaya said:
2 all hu understood, i say very much thank u, specially x-pert. i hav nothin to say to others who have put me down like lich becoz yoll cant understand the situition. anyway i cant tell the girls age but we r both under 21 and she is under 17. machang mata ada suicide karanna giya. but i donno wat to doing. mata hari ma amarui. yes we r sure, she has done the checkups. and lich i did not sex for fun, we used prithi also but i think it broke. anyway i cant tell her parents becos they will kill me and her. and my parents also. so i dont kno wat to do. abortion is best. please help me.

I scolded you because you did a huge mistake. virginity is the biggest thing in a girl life. so its not good to have sex before the marriage. other thing is if u really love her u have to have a respect on her.

anyway what im saying is this is not a good thing that u did

but now u need a solution ... so there is a place in Wattala. who do those kind of abortions. and its not a legal place. and other thing is because of this abortion the girl wont have babies again. anyway this is ur first baby. its a shame to kill him like this.
 

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Sriwi said:
Appaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaa! Machan I'm not sure about this. But wouldtn it be suitable for these guys to use some kind of BIRTH CONTROLLE Pills?

I have heard of it but dont no whether it works or not!
But Y dont u ask from a person Who Knows about this?

Cos Abortion is a dangerous process and if This works then there wont be a big risk neeeeeeeeeeeeeee?

If there is somebody who knows about the birthcontrolle thing then pls tell these guy neeeeeeeeeeeeee!


there is no bithcontrol pills after having sex or pregnant. u have to take those pills before having sex.
 
Lich said:
I scolded you because you did a huge mistake. virginity is the biggest thing in a girl life. so its not good to have sex before the marriage. other thing is if u really love her u have to have a respect on her.

anyway what im saying is this is not a good thing that u did

but now u need a solution ... so there is a place in Wattala. who do those kind of abortions. and its not a legal place. and other thing is because of this abortion the girl wont have babies again. anyway this is ur first baby. its a shame to kill him like this.
Ya nw all in his hand

u must think and build up ur future
u can either select a path nw
 

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other thing is if u have a abortion.. i dont think you will stay with her again. coz u broke the trust.. anyway.. just be calm and try to calm ur girl and i prefer u go and meet a doctor.
 

shaggy

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Lich said:
I scolded you because you did a huge mistake. virginity is the biggest thing in a girl life. so its not good to have sex before the marriage. other thing is if u really love her u have to have a respect on her.

anyway what im saying is this is not a good thing that u did

but now u need a solution ... so there is a place in Wattala. who do those kind of abortions. and its not a legal place. and other thing is because of this abortion the girl wont have babies again. anyway this is ur first baby. its a shame to kill him like this.

mu poyya gahanne banzz

nathinam melahata contact karala

nathinam muta ona abortion eka karala kellawa atha arinna

macho danna than thibbath address denna epa ... issella dennawa hambawela katha kara;a thiranayak gannakan..

moko api karana dein hodak misak narakak wenna hoda na...

apitath paw anthimata
 

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shaggy said:
mu poyya gahanne banzz

nathinam melahata contact karala

nathinam muta ona abortion eka karala kellawa atha arinna

macho danna than thibbath address denna epa ... issella dennawa hambawela katha kara;a thiranayak gannakan..

moko api karana dein hodak misak narakak wenna hoda na...

apitath paw anthimata
attatama mama danna thanak nam nae. eunata wattala ahala thiyena thanak thiyenawa. anyway.. lets see how it goes
 

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Musilaya said:
2 all hu understood, i say very much thank u, specially x-pert. i hav nothin to say to others who have put me down like lich becoz yoll cant understand the situition. anyway i cant tell the girls age but we r both under 21 and she is under 17. machang mata ada suicide karanna giya. but i donno wat to doing. mata hari ma amarui. yes we r sure, she has done the checkups. and lich i did not sex for fun, we used prithi also but i think it broke. anyway i cant tell her parents becos they will kill me and her. and my parents also. so i dont kno wat to do. abortion is best. please help me.

Macho this is serious. First of all don't do anything stupid like killing yourself.

Next, if she's under 17, she's still schooling. I think continuing her education is important and you should maybe talk to her about this.

And as to what to do with the baby, well that's up to you guys. If you go for an abortion you have to be very careful because most places that do it under the radar are thrada joints where her safety isn't guaranteed.

Also if the rubber was torn, didn't you consider the morning after pill?

There used to be something called Family Planning Association of Sri Lanka (FPASL) where you could go to anonymously and get advice about this kind of thing but I don't think they exist anymore, thanks to (let's not go there).

I feel your situation but to tell you the truth you guys should have been more careful!

Also I hear that if you eat pineapple and make her jump on stairs can sometimes **** the baby, but that would be really barbaric.

Sad situation macho. Hope everything turns out ok for you guys.
 

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Is he kidding,if not why doesnt he appear ha.....seems to be like he is getting some fun out of this......if he is true just have to say try to be much responsible for what u do .....:yes:

but as a guy what you need to do is discuss with some one whom you feel you can really help....I think parents @ the top of the list....because this is a matter of life:(
 

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sampath312 said:
Is he kidding,if not why doesnt he appear ha.....seems to be like he is getting some fun out of this......if he is true just have to say try to be much responsible for what u do .....:yes:

but as a guy what you need to do is discuss with some one whom you feel you can really help....I think parents @ the top of the list....because this is a matter of life:(

i said even he joke or not what im saying as a fact.
 

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sampath312 said:
Is he kidding,if not why doesnt he appear ha.....seems to be like he is getting some fun out of this......if he is true just have to say try to be much responsible for what u do .....:yes:

but as a guy what you need to do is discuss with some one whom you feel you can really help....I think parents @ the top of the list....because this is a matter of life:(

If he's kidding mara arthel nae mu ta thiyenna. :rolleyes:
 

sampath312

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machang you cant do this secretly ...abortion is a big deal....as she is even under 17 a life is in front of her so you cant go for a illegal abortion places which ll put her life in danger , So think you cant get rid of the scolding and all blames come from her parents ...if you really love her you have to take the decision to inform the parents even though it may be not that smooth......you know things are not that smooth as you wann a pass through ...so make a good decision which ll never put lives in danger:(