Please help me ELAKIRI members

[crazyfool]

machang you cant do this secretly ...abortion is a big deal....as she is even under 17 a life is in front of her so you cant go for a illegal abortion places which ll put her life in danger , So think you cant get rid of the scolding and all blames come from her parents ...if you really love her you have to take the decision to inform the parents even though it may be not that smooth......you know things are not that smooth as you wann a pass through ...so make a good decision which ll never put lives in danger

Yes I agree with Sampath.

 

[sampath312]

ok

NO MORE comments

ok if you say so.....

 

[jithy]

there is no bithcontrol pills after having sex or pregnant. u have to take those pills before having sex.

Not completly true......
U can take a special birth controll pill after u found out u r pregnant but it has to be within 42 hours after u had sex otherwise it's too late sowwww this isn't an option anymore for this guy ..........

if u r under 21 come to Holland with ur gal u can marry here when u r 18 !!! no joke im serious

all that's left for me 2 say is gud luck!!! but don't do stupid things like abortion when she's sooo young!! a friend of mine did it and she regrets it soww much!! wich I can completly understand!! it is a life that u take away!!!

oww and i'm really surprised about all the support.....never thought sri lankan guys cud/wud handle things like this sow gud!!

 

[cj_shaf]

U should have used a condom men

 

[Musilaya]

shaggy thanks for da help but i dont have these messenges, i am coming online also from a webcafe near my house secretly. anyway i contact a friend at kandy and he say he will speak to her parents and tell. and he sed that wen u sex again wen ur pregnant sumtimes u wont hav baby. so i sexed her again and who knows now might be lucky. i am really angry with her for getting pregnant but now cant help it. so i may find job in north somewhere and leave otherwise i will go to hortons plains and jump. but i dont think i will commit suicide. becos i have also to live my life. so i will find job in outstations and leave from home. dang echcharai mata karanna puluwan...

 

[Lich]

shaggy thanks for da help but i dont have these messenges, i am coming online also from a webcafe near my house secretly. anyway i contact a friend at kandy and he say he will speak to her parents and tell. and he sed that wen u sex again wen ur pregnant sumtimes u wont hav baby. so i sexed her again and who knows now might be lucky. i am really angry with her for getting pregnant but now cant help it. so i may find job in north somewhere and leave otherwise i will go to hortons plains and jump. but i dont think i will commit suicide. becos i have also to live my life. so i will find job in outstations and leave from home. dang echcharai mata karanna puluwan...

if ur friends can talk to those parents. then its ok. anyway listen suiciding is not a solution....anyway what ever u do .. think and do

 

[nAPs2JAAN]

shaggy thanks for da help but i dont have these messenges, i am coming online also from a webcafe near my house secretly. anyway i contact a friend at kandy and he say he will speak to her parents and tell. and he sed that wen u sex again wen ur pregnant sumtimes u wont hav baby. so i sexed her again and who knows now might be lucky. i am really angry with her for getting pregnant but now cant help it. so i may find job in north somewhere and leave otherwise i will go to hortons plains and jump. but i dont think i will commit suicide. becos i have also to live my life. so i will find job in outstations and leave from home. dang echcharai mata karanna puluwan...

F*** u
i kindly advice u thinking that u r good.u ruind that grls life n u r gonna ecape frm her.
man u r a horrible person U NEVER LOVED UR GRL .i thought u r a good person bt i dnt want even advice u go to hell.

 

[shaggy]

shaggy thanks for da help but i dont have these messenges, i am coming online also from a webcafe near my house secretly. anyway i contact a friend at kandy and he say he will speak to her parents and tell. and he sed that wen u sex again wen ur pregnant sumtimes u wont hav baby. so i sexed her again and who knows now might be lucky. i am really angry with her for getting pregnant but now cant help it. so i may find job in north somewhere and leave otherwise i will go to hortons plains and jump. but i dont think i will commit suicide. becos i have also to live my life. so i will find job in outstations and leave from home. dang echcharai mata karanna puluwan...

a mobile # nathinam coming sat meet wenna thanak welawak pm karanna sure i'll b there for u..

even if u wnt 2 find out job i can help u... with in Colombo or even outstation ...

i can talk to your parents & tackle the mater smoothly as i said b4

okkotama kalin api denna katha karaganna onane macho..

pm ekak yawanna puluwan uparima sahayogaya dennam

 

[jithy]

i am really angry with her for getting pregnant but now cant help it.

WTF DUDE ?????? ANGRY WITH HER ????? SOW SHE GOT PREGNANT ALL BY HERSELF????????? WTF WTF WTF??????

 

[shaggy]

if ur friends can talk to those parents. then its ok. anyway listen suiciding is not a solution....anyway what ever u do .. think and do

true ..

if girls parents are ok u can stick with them @ least

 

[shanX]

Naha machang... mama kiyanne porata options dekai theenne...

If underAge {
Talk_to_the_parents (both);
Do_what_they_tell_you_to_do ();
}
else {
Marry_her ();
}

onna ookai case eka.. hehe

 

[sampath312]

mans mara porak ne ..,.he is doing as if he hasn't doneany thing wrong....common man u got to take some responsibility....any way best of luck to manage it

 

[nEoN_wHitE]

ohh shoooooooot.. :S
have no words:S

 

[DIRTY X]

ammata siri...
maara seen eka ne...

 

[crazy_m]

OMG!! all i have 2 say is there r be8er things 2 do than kiling u're self....so think wisely.... Good Luck if this is genuinely true!!

 

[Lich]

F*** u
i kindly advice u thinking that u r good.u ruind that grls life n u r gonna ecape frm her.
man u r a horrible person U NEVER LOVED UR GRL .i thought u r a good person bt i dnt want even advice u go to hell.

see naps i told you rite.. this is like when u have sex. they dont care about the girl.

 

[funnyguy]

My mom would say 'How cute' if I did that. And then again I'm not that stupid to do something like that... And there is a reason why parents say "don't go out with girls while you are studying, you will have time for that". Its true, after your done with the education you get a job and you earn money. Even if you have a kid by mistake you can support to have a family. I have a good four years to wait to find a girl and I'm not in a rush.

 

[thirucumaran]

PPL, FRANKLY, I HAVE A GUT FEELING THAT THIS GUY IS BEATING THE MICKEY OUT OF US BY TELLING THAT HIS GF IS PREGNANT AND ALL SORTS OF BULL****.

ANYHOWZ, IF THIS GUY IS SERIOUS, I APPLAUD THE EFFORTS OF SHAGGY AND X-PERT TO TAKE AN HONEST EFFORT TO HELP HIM BUT FRANKLY, IF THIS GUY HAS SUCH AN ATTITUDE AND HAD SEX WITH THE GIRL EVEN AFTER SHE GOT PREGNANT, DOES'NT IT LOOK MORE LIKE THAT THIS GUY IS MORE INTERESTED IN THE 'SEX' PART RATHER THAN THE GIRL? HE HAS GOT 'ANGRY' THAT SHE BECAME PREGNANT. IS HE TRYING TO TELL US THAT THE GIRL BECAME PREGNANT BECAUSE SHE WANTED TO? SHE GOT PREGNANT COS THIS GUY HAD SEX WITHOUT CONDOMS!

SEX IS NOT THE MOST INTEGRAL PART OF A TRUE RELATIONSHIP! A RELATIONSHIP BETWEEN A GUY AND A GIRL SHOULD MAINLY BE ABOUT BEING THERE WHEN THE PARTNER NEEDS YOU, ADVISING THE OTHER PARTNER AND ALL OTHER STUFF! SEX SHOULD BE ACTIVELY PURSUED ONLY IF THE COUPLE IS INTERESTED IN HAVING KIDS!

FRANKLY, THIS GUY IS AN UNGRATEFUL ****ER AND, WHILE APPLAUDING THE EFFORTS OF EVERYONE WHO TRIED TO HELP THIS GUY OUT IN AN HONEST WAY, I SUGGEST WE JUST IGNORE THIS THREAD FROM NOW ON AND LET THE GUY DO WHAT HE LIKES!

I FEEL SO SORRY FOR THE GIRL, SHE MUST HAVE THOUGHT THAT THIS FELLOW WAS COMMITTED IN THE RELATIONSHIP ONLY TO FIND OUT HIS STANCE NOW!

 

[ICE]

mala keliyai.. July hathai....

 

[thirucumaran]

GUYS I HOPE NO - ONE MISUNDERSTANDS ME AS BEING MEAN OR ANYTHING, BUT I AM GIVING MY FRANK OPINION ON THIS GUY.

SOME MIGHT THINK THAT I AM AN INSENSITIVE GUY BUT NONE OF YOU HAVE EVER SEEN ME, I AM A CARING GUY WHO WILL LISTEN TO PROBLEMS, BUT ONLY IF THE PERSON HAS DONE THE RIGHT THING. I AM NOT THE TYPE OF PERSON WHO GOES AROUND SUPPORTING SOMETHING WRONG JUST BECAUSE HE IS AN EK MEMBER!