Hi.. this is my first post in this thread and I have to say something important, which I noticed.
Ideally, women are tend to be soft by nature (they should be), soft spoken, and maintain very high decency levels. She should only be pleasing her husband and not talk to any other males ideally, except her immdiate family and closest relatives (who she cannot definitely marry).
Everyone loves to have a perfect obedient wife (to the husband and Lord), there are good women out there, everyone loves such good women.
But I see very disappointing behaviour from someone, who calls herself, sister NadeeshaF.
She seems to have no shame in discussing sex related things with guys openly, what a shame! It is very contrary to an ideal decent woman, especially, when Sri Lanka has a very good decent culture, and she is a shame for the country.
If she wanted to discuss these issues really, with a good purpose, she could ask her husband to do so. If she is unmarried, it is always good to keep shut until marriage, since what she does now, only provokes bad.
I never saw any other woman involved in discussing such things here, so Sri Lanka is still a good country.
Nothing wrong with discussing, but... I do see it is very shameful for a woman to get involved and discuss such things with guys, after all, it is an act of immodesty. (see her informal word usage at times.. Very shameful)
She doesn't seem to be kind and soft-spoken either. Many of her posts are abusive and aggressive, which isn't womanly. I do not think any guy with a proper mind is going to like her, if she doesn't change.
She also seems to have a psychological problem. She doesn't seem to clarify issues or help with them in the forum (objections are fine, but in a logical and useful manner), rather, she wants to break-in and disrupt with the issue. These are the people who are likely 'breakers', rather than 'makers'.
So instead of the topic being discussed, people answer her stupid questions, which diverts attention from a much needed topic.
Sure, she seems fragile and funny appearing to be a less-intelligent person, but if you do answer her question for fun, please also make sure you make a useful contribution to the thread. After all, she doesn't seem to have a goal, just seem to be someone psychologically disturbed.
But we have hope. Every person in the world could change. Everyone in the forum, please, make supplications to purify her.
I hope, soon, she will be purified from everything and become a very good, decent girl.
After all, she could be and she should be!! I am very sympathetic about her (and everyone should)!
Other than that.. This is a nice forum........