should your future wife be a virgin ??

[CoolCartoon]

, dude, My home address has "Horton Place" at the end

Well, there are very bad girls around this place. trust me when I say "VERY bad"

But then again, I hear ya bro.

It always depends on your back ground, or the people you move around with.

You know what makes me SHIT scared about these "women" in general ?

I wake up in an unknown bedroom with an Unknown woman. I sit up on the bed for a while, then like a mad dog run around the room looking here and there for a used condom.

I breath... and try to remember who the heck she is only after finding it.



Don't you fu_king HATE when that happens to you most of the Sunday's after the Saturday night clubbing. ?

Sheezz.. trust me.. Not a good feeling till you find "that"

when u said " Very bad " ....lol i really dont wanna see a woman like that.....cuz u r talking and telling VERY BAD.
but around ur place ??? even if they are bad most of them are really HOT gals....as i know....correct me if im wrong....

lol...is that thing real...seriously...damn man it is really scared.....like a night mare..worse than that....BDW did u find anything ???

 

[CoolCartoon]

Oh, simple.

Screw her and in the mean while, Enroll your self as a sperm donor to one of these 'baby" hospitals.

And DENY any knowledge of her if the baby DNA matter comes up

TBH i cant do that. im not trying to act like white character or something like that. but in that case im not that kind of guy. if something happen like taht i may suffer whole my life. pathetic ??? u may think like that. but i cant. having sex i dont give a shit. i really dont care. but in this case

 

[jayanthah]

, dude, My home address has "Horton Place" at the end

Well, there are very bad girls around this place. trust me when I say "VERY bad"

But then again, I hear ya bro.

It always depends on your back ground, or the people you move around with.

You know what makes me SHIT scared about these "women" in general ?

I wake up in an unknown bedroom with an Unknown woman. I sit up on the bed for a while, then like a mad dog run around the room looking here and there for a used condom.

I breath... and try to remember who the heck she is only after finding it.



Don't you fu_king HATE when that happens to you most of the Sunday's after the Saturday night clubbing. ?

Sheezz.. trust me.. Not a good feeling till you find "that"

Ohhh......N_N.....you make me laugh ma boy.............

Love to be in your shoes...................hadnt had that experience for a while .......much more civilized person now..............so I dont wake up in unknown places with unknown women any more (Would love to be in that situ though)

BTW: How do you rate a girl good or bad (Open to every one, not only N_N to answer), Bad because she sleeps with so many men????? Good 'cause no one wants to sleep with her????? My scale of good or bad does not have "sex", or # of men she slept with anywhere........................
And remember......as men we love to boast about haw many women we laid..............
PS:I knew you were from C7, when you talked about S series inanother thread

 

[sutherland.g.m]

mam hithanne oka wadagath deyak newei machooo meka gana wisthara karoth umbala mata pissu kiyai mokada meka lankawa hinda but i depending on our culture......

 

[CoolCartoon]

Ohhh......N_N.....you make me laugh ma boy.............



BTW: How do you rate a girl good or bad (Open to every one, not only N_N to answer), Bad because she sleeps with so many men????? Good 'cause no one wants to sleep with her????? My scale of good or bad does not have "sex", or # of men she slept with anywhere........................
And remember......as men we love to boast about haw many women we laid..............

if a gal sleep with so many guys....that mean she really wants sex in her life...but not with only a guy. so even after marriage she MAY continue it. ya... u cant choose a character only considering sex.
last part...hmmm..in that case... still i cant reply or understand.

 

[CoolCartoon]

mam hithanne oka wadagath deyak newei machooo meka gana wisthara karoth umbala mata pissu kiyai mokada meka lankawa hinda but i depending on our culture......

if u can describe it. see when i opened this thread there were so many stupid replies. but after one made a good comment then it is going seriously.

 

[jayanthah]

if a gal sleep with so many guys....that mean she really wants sex in her life...but not with only a guy. so even after marriage she MAY continue it. ya... u cant choose a character only considering sex.
last part...hmmm..in that case... still i cant reply or understand.

Last part kiwwe......minissu boast karana ekada????

Umba bala thiyenawada "A Beautiful Mind" film eka??? Eke, Russel Crowe pub eke gihin kellekta kiyanawa (Mata exact words mataka ne) "we are here pretending to be having fun, but actually we want to get laid tonight, would you like to sleep with me???" something like that................

Machan kollo pora talk denne nedda....."Mama B**** mechacharak Gaha*** thiyenawa" kiyala..................den kollo decent eathi......apey kale ewunnam ehemai..............................

 

[sutherland.g.m]

if u can describe it. see when i opened this thread there were so many stupid replies. but after one made a good comment then it is going seriously.

mekane machan seen eka umba inne aus-man inne qatar eka hinda api me pissu kiyaawanawa kiyala kiyai eth man kiyannam mekai seen eka machoo oya virgin seen eka thiyenne kellonta witharak newei kiyala api okkoma dannwane eth yalu umbawath mamawath wena kawuruwath thred ekak danne nahaneda

should your future husband will be virgin

kiyala so apita thiyena aithiya mokadda meka gana kellonge withrak balanna.anika yaluwa man hithanne naha lankawewath me loke kothanakawath kellek thamange athmaya gana hithanne nathuwa meka apawithra hangimakin karana deyak kiyala,

so kollo gana meka balanne nathnam aei api kello gana witharaka meka balanne,meka gana wadi durata elakiri eke katha karanna baha machoo mokada aththata walkama-wanachara kama kiyana samajayak thamath lankawe ithuru wela inna hinda umba kiyanne mokaddda meka asadaranai neda?
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[CoolCartoon]

Last part kiwwe......minissu boast karana ekada????

Umba bala thiyenawada "A Beautiful Mind" film eka??? Eke, Russel Crowe pub eke gihin kellekta kiyanawa (Mata exact words mataka ne) "we are here pretending to be having fun, but actually we want to get laid tonight, would you like to sleep with me???" something like that................

Machan kollo pora talk denne nedda....."Mama B**** mechacharak Gaha*** thiyenawa" kiyala..................den kollo decent eathi......apey kale ewunnam ehemai..............................

thats true...and they really do. but same people expecting virgins

last part kiyala man kiwe boast karana eka neme..... kollo one tharam sex karala....when it comes to marriage if they expecting a virgin....

????


ppl sating in this trhad it is not fare, but when it comes to there life..??? do u think they still in that theory ....???

 

[Nash_Node]

BTW: How do you rate a girl good or bad (Open to every one, not only N_N to answer), Bad because she sleeps with so many men????? Good 'cause no one wants to sleep with her????? My scale of good or bad does not have "sex", or # of men she slept with anywhere........................

Comments from ME (the PERSONAL ME)

My scale of judging a good or a bad woman doesn't have sex anywhere.

My idea of a good woman is a good partner.

Someone who understands you, someone who's there for you. Someone who holds her ground for you...someone who knows about your feeling before you "tell" her.......more than all

Someone you can go after work....lay your head on her lap....and feel that all the worries of the world is a blur............AND.....you can face everything with "HER" by your side.

Bro - personal info.

I have a live-in-GF.

She's married . Not to me. ... To someone ELSE, in another COUNTRY !

But still.... I classify "her" as a good woman.

That's my stance about woman.

Comments from ME (the ANIMAL ME)

HECK !, if she has perfected the Kama Sutra book....... She's a GOOD WOMAN !

 

[CoolCartoon]

mekane machan seen eka umba inne aus-man inne qatar eka hinda api me pissu kiyaawanawa kiyala kiyai eth man kiyannam mekai seen eka machoo oya virgin seen eka thiyenne kellonta witharak newei kiyala api okkoma dannwane eth yalu umbawath mamawath wena kawuruwath thred ekak danne nahaneda

should your future husband will be virgin

kiyala so apita thiyena aithiya mokadda meka gana kellonge withrak balanna.anika yaluwa man hithanne naha lankawewath me loke kothanakawath kellek thamange athmaya gana hithanne nathuwa meka apawithra hangimakin karana deyak kiyala,

so kollo gana meka balanne nathnam aei api kello gana witharaka meka balanne,meka gana wadi durata elakiri eke katha karanna baha machoo mokada aththata walkama-wanachara kama kiyana samajayak thamath lankawe ithuru wela inna hinda umba kiyanne mokaddda meka asadaranai neda?
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ow machan....man mulma post eke kiwweth...i really dont have an idea. i really dont know.
it is un reasonable cuz a gal can lose her virginity cuz of several reasones other that having sex As Nash said. so in that case it is un fare.
But comes to last.....i dont know what to say after that. i seriously thinking if something happen to me what should i do ????

so thats why i opened a thread like this. i know what u r talking and it really looks so rude and weird and pathetic.

as i said again BUT comes to last....

anika yaluwa man hithanne naha lankawewath me loke kothanakawath kellek thamange athmaya gana hithanne nathuwa meka apawithra hangimakin karana deyak kiyala,

in this case u r wrong machan...did u read my posts. i gave some examples. some gals really want relationships only for sex. did u read that story about a gal wanted a baby from ex BF....so ???

there are stories i couldnt post here.....

balanne,meka gana wadi durata elakiri eke katha karanna baha machoo mokada aththata walkama-wanachara kama kiyana samajayak thamath lankawe ithuru wela inna hinda umba kiyanne mokaddda meka asadaranai neda?
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ow eka aththa machan...aththa katha karoth ekko kunuharupa kiyay...ekko pissu kiyay....sri lankan ego.

 

[jayanthah]

thats true...and they really do. but same people expecting virgins

last part kiyala man kiwe boast karana eka neme..... kollo one tharam sex karala....when it comes to marriage if they expecting a virgin....

????


ppl sating in this trhad it is not fare, but when it comes to there life..??? do u think they still in that theory ....???

you have a point there bro................I cant think for another guy...............
But in my own experience....................I never worried about Virginity, either mine or of my partner (I'm married with children now), It never occured to me even........I enjoyed my life as a young man living in Colombo, I dont think my wife had the same opportunity as a buddhist girl brought up buy a conservative middle class parents.....................when I met her, after the first cpl of years I thought we were soul mates & I proposed............she said yes..............to be frank bro........at any given time, Virginity didnt come to my mind............my parents, knowing the person who I was, never bothered too.......................so is the happy ending of that epic love story

 

[Nash_Node]

Last part kiwwe......minissu boast karana ekada????

Umba bala thiyenawada "A Beautiful Mind" film eka??? Eke, Russel Crowe pub eke gihin kellekta kiyanawa (Mata exact words mataka ne) "we are here pretending to be having fun, but actually we want to get laid tonight, would you like to sleep with me???" something like that................

Machan kollo pora talk denne nedda....."Mama B**** mechacharak Gaha*** thiyenawa" kiyala..................den kollo decent eathi......apey kale ewunnam ehemai..............................

Yep, Guys are really decent now.

Not like those CAVE MAN days when you were a youth.

I mean, take me for an example...

I am still a virgin

 

[CoolCartoon]

Comments from ME (the PERSONAL ME)

My scale of judging a good or a bad woman doesn't have sex anywhere.

My idea of a good woman is a good partner.

Someone who understands you, someone who's there for you. Someone who holds her ground for you...someone who knows about your feeling before you "tell" her.......more than all

Someone you can go after work....lay your head on her lap....and feel that all the worries of the world is a blur............AND.....you can face everything with "HER" by your side.

Bro - personal info.

I have a live-in-GF.

She's married . Not to me. ... To someone ELSE, in another COUNTRY !

But still.... I classify "her" as a good woman.

That's my stance about woman.

Comments from ME (the ANIMAL ME)

HECK !, if she has perfected the Kama Sutra book....... She's a GOOD WOMAN !

i luv ur style man.....Hats off.....

what u described in personal u is what i expect from my future partner...but is it possible to find a gal like that....oh ya...as u said u have found one. but can i ask something??? what about her legal husbond...?? she is not loving him...so sje is not a good woman to him. what happend if it happens to you ???

Animal you :::: same here...

if i find a gal who have both this sides....

 

[Nash_Node]

so is the happy ending of that epic love story

POH !

EPIC love story ?

That's too much of a word for a old fart like you

But, if you EVER want to have an EPIC drinking session with me, hollar me when ever you come down to SL

 

[jayanthah]

Comments from ME (the PERSONAL ME)

My scale of judging a good or a bad woman doesn't have sex anywhere.

My idea of a good woman is a good partner.

Someone who understands you, someone who's there for you. Someone who holds her ground for you...someone who knows about your feeling before you "tell" her.......more than all

Someone you can go after work....lay your head on her lap....and feel that all the worries of the world is a blur............AND.....you can face everything with "HER" by your side.

Bro - personal info.

I have a live-in-GF.

She's married . Not to me. ... To someone ELSE, in another COUNTRY !

But still.... I classify "her" as a good woman.

That's my stance about woman.

Comments from ME (the ANIMAL ME)

HECK !, if she has perfected the Kama Sutra book....... She's a GOOD WOMAN !

Hear............Hear...............

Now Bro...........waht about you???? What's you gonna be to the good girl........good partner, that always there for you???? Dont forget..........it's give & take......................

& you rascal Lucky I have my wife over here with me

Married or not..............a girl need someone to lean on, to love to & be loved...your GF is not a bad woman in my eye..............
Remeber the joke about "Illegal" yet "Logical" ????

 

[CoolCartoon]

Yep, Guys are really decent now.

Not like those CAVE MAN days when you were a youth.

I mean, take me for an example...

I am still a virgin

lol.....

u mean they act dumb ???

 

[CoolCartoon]

you have a point there bro................I cant think for another guy...............
But in my own experience....................I never worried about Virginity, either mine or of my partner (I'm married with children now), It never occured to me even........I enjoyed my life as a young man living in Colombo, I dont think my wife had the same opportunity as a buddhist girl brought up buy a conservative middle class parents.....................when I met her, after the first cpl of years I thought we were soul mates & I proposed............she said yes..............to be frank bro........at any given time, Virginity didnt come to my mind............my parents, knowing the person who I was, never bothered too.......................so is the happy ending of that epic love story

no hard feelings bro...but just if ur wife was the same like u....and if u find out in the wedding day....what u do ???
just think about a situation like that..?? just to know....

 

[jayanthah]

Yep, Guys are really decent now.

Not like those CAVE MAN days when you were a youth.

I mean, take me for an example...

I am still a virgin

I would have believed that "one part" of you a virgin, if you were not a Royalist

 

[Nash_Node]

what about her legal husbond...?? she is not loving him...so sje is not a good woman to him. what happend if it happens to you ???

She's here for a project of 5 years.

And will be returning to her country by 2010.

Love, cheating or being UN-faithful?

What is being unfaithful? Having more than one relationship simultaneously?

We often hear of people being painted black for breaking social rules in pursuit of happiness. In other words people who leave their so-called loved ones in favor of new found love.

I agree this is a very bogy topic to touch and get swallowed, however, I like to question, is it always correct to point the finger at the person who makes the move and call that person being “unfaithful – the cheater”, or rather digest the other side of the picture and see a person who had flown away to another destiny?

Can a person be in love with more than one person at the same time?

If the answer to this question is no, then how can you define it as being unfaithful?

You were first in love with a person and then you fall out of love and fall in love again with another person. As far as the first person is concerned there’s no relationship to be unfaithful. A mere social bond does not qualify a person to become the victim of an unfaithful partner. Love matters… a social bond commits two people together but in any case it’s not a hard and fast rule as every individual have a right for his/her own feelings.

But maybe… maybe, it’s quite possible for a person to love more than one.

I mean love is not a formula with defined parameters that can be applied in just one sense. Just the way you love your mother, father, siblings and friends, you can love other humans in a totally different sense. Does this qualify as being unfaithful? I always believed that faith is in the thought not the deed…

We don’t own anything in this world. What more we don’t even own ourselves, since our final destination is death where we leave this body that we take so much care in providing with earthly pleasures.

So how can we point a finger at another person and say you were unfaithful and you left me for another person, since one day, you will leave yourself; your whole identity and this world will lose that “You” forever.

I think some wise person had said “if you love someone you have to let that someone go…” How well said! But the fact remains that it does not give anyone the right to play with another person’s feelings and to forget the duties and the responsibilities that is vested on every relationship.

I do not encourage people to be unfaithful, but, if need arises you have to always let it go. If need arises you have to always say “I’m moving on” or “please do move on”. At least for the sake of the happiness of all. That’s not being unfaithful.

Feelings are to be shared, not kept or given.