should your future wife be a virgin ??

should your future wife be a virgin ?

  • Yes... im..so she must be

    Votes: 221 49.4%
  • yes.... im not a virgin but she must be.....

    Votes: 37 8.3%
  • nah... im not so why she is ??

    Votes: 32 7.2%
  • nah.... im but i dunt care

    Votes: 34 7.6%
  • i dont care...

    Votes: 123 27.5%

  • Total voters
    447

pamithK

Active member
  • Jul 21, 2007
    5,974
    5
    38
    37
    Nawala
    nabil said:
    wtf? dude is sex a crime?

    it could turn out to be..i meant its a heavy risk..wht if u get pregnent? why should you go through all dat trouble? just keeping one's gentals to himself will help prevent..cos prevention is better than cure.
     

    pamithK

    Active member
  • Jul 21, 2007
    5,974
    5
    38
    37
    Nawala
    Nash_Node said:
    So does that mean a girl / woman CANNOT be good if she's not a virgin.

    Dude, why do you just base your self on the PREJUDICE that all girls who don't have the virginity are WHORE's and BITCHES.

    May be she's doing sports.. like gymnastics or cycling... or she was born without one, may be she was raped, may be she was cheated by a bastard.

    There could be billions and billions of reasons.

    Again, I tell you the same thing I told Asith K ... bro, fall in love with a woman and you will see ALL SUCH things are immaterial.

    Infact, you will never bother about any of those things.

    So, that's what Nabil said. If the girl is good, screw the virginity !:lol:


    guess i hav to agree with that:yes: :yes: :yes: :yes:
     

    CoolCartoon

    Member
    Oct 11, 2006
    10,160
    94
    0
    Melbourne.....
    Eclipse said:

    yes, i have nothing more to say after reading these comments and i agree for most of them n some of my friends r experiencing it!!coz most of them r true n proving..

    yeh i agree which cool cartoons comment n highlighted it cz u know ? there is a friend of mine hes having n affair with a girl like u have mentioned before!! u know wt she said 2 my friend?? she sed she cant marry him n she wanted him 2 stay with her like forever!! i was confused wt she was expecting from him!! but i know n i believe all the girls rnt like dat!! n for ur question.. it depends on peoples point of view.. well as for me i expect that my wife be a virgin. bcz its mentioned in lasanka's comment!

    this is a good work bro.. good thread!!


    thanx for the comment and understan the meaning of the thread. cuz some people just read the topic and commenting.

    ill add another story. it happens to another freind of mine. he had a relationship with a gal...and they did everything..but she protect her virginity. after she married... she again came to him and ask to have sex with her. wildest thing is ... and trust me guys..." she wanted a baby from this guy ":oo:
     

    Nash_Node

    Well-known member
  • Apr 2, 2008
    2,962
    150
    63
    Staring at my laptop
    pamithK said:
    well we all know we shouldnt exactly do it till our marriages..so if the girl decides to break the trend i think its wrong..

    but the thing is you cant find out whether the man is a virgin..:oo: :oo:

    Oh, RIGHT ! that's very PROFOUND thinking..... idiot.

    So, you never CUT school ? Never stole something from someone? Never watched a Porno before you turn 18 ?

    Those are things you "should'nt" do as well.

    So, do you brand your self as someone "WRONG" ?? :rofl:

    Vice-versa, if you are on this kind of a opinion, and had done ANY ONE of those things I mentioned, then...you don't deserve a virgin as well.
     

    CoolCartoon

    Member
    Oct 11, 2006
    10,160
    94
    0
    Melbourne.....
    Nash_Node said:
    So does that mean a girl / woman CANNOT be good if she's not a virgin.

    Dude, why do you just base your self on the PREJUDICE that all girls who don't have the virginity are WHORE's and BITCHES.

    May be she's doing sports.. like gymnastics or cycling... or she was born without one, may be she was raped, may be she was cheated by a bastard.

    There could be billions and billions of reasons.

    Again, I tell you the same thing I told Asith K ... bro, fall in love with a woman and you will see ALL SUCH things are immaterial.

    Infact, you will never bother about any of those things.

    So, that's what Nabil said. If the girl is good, screw the virginity !:lol:


    true...there could be several reasons.....as u mentioned..thats a another thing which we cant see. most of us think gal can lost her virginity only cuz of having sex. but there can be 100 reasons.
     

    Nash_Node

    Well-known member
  • Apr 2, 2008
    2,962
    150
    63
    Staring at my laptop
    pamithK said:
    it could turn out to be..i meant its a heavy risk..wht if u get pregnent? why should you go through all dat trouble? just keeping one's gentals to himself will help prevent..cos prevention is better than cure.

    Sex, Virginity and Pregnancy are different subjects of it's own.

    Never mix them !
     

    CoolCartoon

    Member
    Oct 11, 2006
    10,160
    94
    0
    Melbourne.....
    x-pert said:
    Don't care about what others say bro ;)

    If you're virgin, then so be it. If you're not, then don't give a shit.

    Life is not fair always.

    (Anyway Gay people are not virgins :P)


    ya machan..thats true. but most of guys expecting virgins even if they are not.

    bdw how do u know that much about gay ppl ?? :P
     

    pamithK

    Active member
  • Jul 21, 2007
    5,974
    5
    38
    37
    Nawala
    Nash_Node said:
    Oh, RIGHT ! that's very PROFOUND thinking..... idiot.

    So, you never CUT school ? Never stole something from someone? Never watched a Porno before you turn 18 ?

    Those are things you "should'nt" do as well.

    So, do you brand your self as someone "WRONG" ?? :rofl:

    Vice-versa, if you are on this kind of a opinion, and had done ANY ONE of those things I mentioned, then...you don't deserve a virgin as well.

    ok ok i back off..man you guys..whoa:shocked: :shocked:

    but i think its a trust thing..if i keep myself a virgin..hoping to give respect to my future partner..but in turn i dont get that..thats bad..
     

    Nash_Node

    Well-known member
  • Apr 2, 2008
    2,962
    150
    63
    Staring at my laptop
    CoolCartoon said:


    thanx for the comment and understan the meaning of the thread. cuz some people just read the topic and commenting.

    ill add another story. it happens to another freind of mine. he had a relationship with a gal...and they did everything..but she protect her virginity. after she married... she again came to him and ask to have sex with her. wildest thing is ... and trust me guys..." she wanted a baby from this guy ":oo:

    Ok, dude.

    That's wrong judgment !

    If she just wanted to have sex with him.. well, then brand as a hoe.

    She wanted a baby from him ?

    May be certain circumstances had forced her to marry someone else. BUT, she was ready to give the ultimate gift she can give to this guy for his love and care for all those years.
     

    nabil

    Member
    Mar 4, 2007
    7,320
    1
    0
    35
    North Carolina / Kandy
    pamithK said:
    it could turn out to be..i meant its a heavy risk..wht if u get pregnent? why should you go through all dat trouble? just keeping one's gentals to himself will help prevent..cos prevention is better than cure.
    ahk so just because she took that risk, she is a criminal, is it?
     

    x-pert

    Member
    Jun 13, 2006
    20,952
    77
    0
    CoolCartoon said:

    ya machan..thats true. but most of guys expecting virgins even if they are not.

    bdw how do u know that much about gay ppl ?? :P

    OK OK :rofl:

    Waradi kathaawak kiyaune kalabaleta... Illan Marmite :rofl::lol::lol:

    Mama yanawa bung. waadi wela innama baha eka thanaka. Budu rasnei :baffled::baffled:
     

    Eclipse

    Well-known member
  • Mar 1, 2008
    6,501
    130
    63
    40
    -*Maharagama*-
    CoolCartoon said:


    thanx for the comment and understan the meaning of the thread. cuz some people just read the topic and commenting.

    ill add another story. it happens to another freind of mine. he had a relationship with a gal...and they did everything..but she protect her virginity. after she married... she again came to him and ask to have sex with her. wildest thing is ... and trust me guys..." she wanted a baby from this guy ":oo:

    damn man thats another freaky story ive ever heard!!!she likes him that much?? does that kind of relationship has a name?dunno man im confused!!well i read some last posts of diz thread.. again which i have 2 agree with most of dem such as nabil, nash n pamith.. cz they had sm good points of their posts!!
     

    Nash_Node

    Well-known member
  • Apr 2, 2008
    2,962
    150
    63
    Staring at my laptop
    pamithK said:
    ok ok i back off..man you guys..whoa:shocked: :shocked:

    but i think its a trust thing..if i keep myself a virgin..hoping to give respect to my future partner..but in turn i dont get that..thats bad..

    Life is not fair.

    Remember that !

    But I still believe you should "question your own beliefs" man. :nerd:
     

    jayanthah

    Member
    Oct 19, 2007
    5,392
    18
    0
    Melbourne
    Nash_Node said:
    Ok, dude.

    That's wrong judgment !

    If she just wanted to have sex with him.. well, then brand as a hoe.

    She wanted a baby from him ?

    May be certain circumstances had forced her to marry someone else. BUT, she was ready to give the ultimate gift she can give to this guy for his love and care for all those years.

    Hmmmmmmm.......interesting topic & intersting people......

    Never knew Nash_Node was this compassionate towards opposite sex & understanding......................
    Especially after that Anarkali thread.......................

    Carry on dude.................
     

    pamithK

    Active member
  • Jul 21, 2007
    5,974
    5
    38
    37
    Nawala
    Nash_Node said:
    Life is not fair.

    Remember that !

    But I still believe you should "question your own beliefs" man. :nerd:

    well thankfully most girls in SL arent like that..except the colombo 7 posh ones..api try karana kello eeta wada honda aya..i am certain..thats why the game gode kella is the best..you can trust them:)
     

    nabil

    Member
    Mar 4, 2007
    7,320
    1
    0
    35
    North Carolina / Kandy
    pamithK said:
    ok ok i back off..man you guys..whoa:shocked: :shocked:

    but i think its a trust thing..if i keep myself a virgin..hoping to give respect to my future partner..but in turn i dont get that..thats bad..
    i appreciate ur attempts to stay a virgin. its better to hold onto ur virginity. ;)
    im outta here
    peace out!