should your future wife be a virgin ??

[madurax86]

ne ban...it is that blood spot thing ne...

i mean.... eken komada ban kella pure kiyanne..if she had anal sex with someone........ still she can prove that she is a virgin... it is not fair yeah ??

LMAO u think about weird stuff....checking might give wrong results too man lol even the girl who is truly a virgin might fail to get the blood stain on tha bed sooo people fight like shit...its only a matter of trust both partners should be trustworthy to each other if not nothings gonna work
PS: even though they get the blood stain on the first night after that he cant check her and always she cant check him ...both will have to settle for what they say to each other so trust plays a big part

 

[Hot-Witch-Girl]

ane ,manda culture eka thama hama ekatama harahata inne

Culture is what you define. It is just another excuse to not to have enough testicular fortitude to stand for what you WANT...

 

[Hot-Witch-Girl]

OK let me put it in another way.....

Now you're having sex for the first time. But you can't see any blood.

What'd be the instant reaction of yours?

Oh dear! That whole thing about the Blood is very complecated...

We get blood once a month, right! So it is not a measurement of Virginity.

So, if you really love a woman, Don't expect blood! If you expect blood, stab her right at the heart!!

 

[chamidilk]

no machan still v hv gud girls in SL

 

[Hot-Witch-Girl]

no machan still v hv gud girls in SL

Like Me!

 

[Mal Aiyya]

There seems to be an exquisite taste for topics of this manner...

 

[gtkisaru]

We should not play with girls. That's my idea. I mean if you saying to a girl that you are really love her and gonna marry her and after all the thing happen you going away from her that's a very bad thing. Because she is having that deep relationship only if she trust you.

Think.. that can be your sister..!! What do you think if that kind of thing happen to your sis. What you gonna do...???

But if a girl wanna relationship that kind of it's doesn't matter.

Don't betray a girl who is really love you.

 

[qazxsw]

Originally Posted by Hot-Witch-Girl

Oh dear! That whole thing about the Blood is very complecated...

We get blood once a month, right! So it is not a measurement of Virginity.

So, if you really love a woman, Don't expect blood! If you expect blood, stab her right at the heart!!

U R quite right sis, My theory is "If U R not pure, Don't expect her to be so..."

So I am & I expect her to be... Is it wrong???

 

[gayancc]

ammooooooooooooo ow 0w

 

[kalanaweerlk]

Like Me!

nyc meeting u.

 

[madurax86]

viewed 6430+ times mann that deserves a thumbs up seems like the thread starter pointed to a "dawena prashnayak" in SL!!

 

[kalanaweerlk]

some how i get the feeling dat dis thread will keep bumping in ek for quite a sm time..

 

[madurax86]

some how i get the feeling dat dis thread will keep bumping in ek for quite a sm time..

dawena prashna ehema tama
mekai dan minissunta kawa wath trust karana ba not even their own partner komada trust karana ada ina eka eka neme heta ine loke wenas wena bawa atha eth meka dan style ekak wela

 

[Hot-Witch-Girl]

U R quite right sis, My theory is "If U R not pure, Don't expect her to be so..."

I mean, we get this Blood once a month and We Witches call it "Blood of the Moon". It is a Sacred and very Powerful thing! This blood is even used for spells. Many people consider menstral blood as a dirty and negative thing, but for us (Witches) it is the opposite...

But the real issue is that, even a Virgin would not get blood if she does not have blood at that point in that time. And even a whore could get blood if it is her right time...

Besides the "Patalaya" thingy or more accurately the "Hymen" could be repaired with a simple surgery. So even a whore could get her hymen repaired and come as a Virgin.

What you see is not always the truth!

So I am & I expect her to be... Is it wrong???

I can't answer this question! LOL... I am a Virgin! Yes... But how could I prove. I can't expect "Him" to be virgin, because there is no way to find it out...

We have a verse in Wiccan Rede as "True in love ever be, Unless they lovers false to thee..."

I could forgive to whatever he has done before, But after he is committed, he has to be true to me...

 

[qazxsw]

Quote:
Originally Posted by qazxsw
U R quite right sis, My theory is "If U R not pure, Don't expect her to be so..."

I mean, we get this Blood once a month and We Witches call it "Blood of the Moon". It is a Sacred and very Powerful thing! This blood is even used for spells. Many people consider menstral blood as a dirty and negative thing, but for us (Witches) it is the opposite...

But the real issue is that, even a Virgin would not get blood if she does not have blood at that point in that time. And even a whore could get blood if it is her right time...

Besides the "Patalaya" thingy or more accurately the "Hymen" could be repaired with a simple surgery. So even a whore could get her hymen repaired and come as a Virgin.

What you see is not always the truth!

Quote:
Originally Posted by qazxsw
So I am & I expect her to be... Is it wrong???

I can't answer this question! LOL... I am a Virgin! Yes... But how could I prove. I can't expect "Him" to be virgin, because there is no way to find it out...

We have a verse in Wiccan Rede as "True in love ever be, Unless they lovers false to thee..."

I could forgive to whatever he has done before, But after he is committed, he has to be true to me...

I agree.. but for what? OR to whom? is there to prove, only to his/her own heart. I am not saying that I want a virgin if she[the one I love] isn't because of something before we met. I can totally 4giv her for that if she agrees to be only mine afterwards... but the thing is if someone is a virgin & expect the significant other to be so that is OK. But that doesn't mean I approve deserting her or insulting her or hitting her is the thing to do after finding out that she is not a virgin. If someone is already in love with somebody the thingy doesn't matter.

 

[Hot-Witch-Girl]

In Sri Lankan Culture the Word Virgin (Kanya) only applies to women. But in English Language the word "Virgin" is someone who had no sex with opposite sex, or New, Fresh... This applied to both Men and Woman...

That means, in our culture it does not matter what the men does. Everyone looks at small mistakes of women.

 

[Hot-Witch-Girl]

There is another issue... Lets say you marry a guy who has been married before, so that means he had sex before for sure.

So if you marry such a men (or woman), is it alright to ask for (demand) a blood test for STD (sexually transmitted diseases).

Because, since someone does not caarry STD, weather he/she is virgin or not really does not matter....

 

[sachithmax]

ela thamai
hebyi mama eka deyak venavanam kemathiyi

oya mod vechcha kellonta e vagemod vechcha kollo lebeva

evagema marrage ekata kalin mukuth karanne nethiva thamange husband /wife ekka inna balaporoththu vena ayata e vagema ayata evagema aya lebenavam hodayi
ethakota prashnayak nehe
namuth meka petalunoth pavul jeevithaya prashna godak venava

sahathika aththa lokka

 

[dhanusha83]

this is differ one person to other..Hebei Thaman virginity newee anunge virginity hoyana eka anthima char wedak. oya seen issara samajaye thibbe den adui.

 

[qazxsw]

Originally posted by Hot-Witch-Girl

In Sri Lankan Culture the Word Virgin (Kanya) only applies to women. But in English Language the word "Virgin" is someone who had no sex with opposite sex, or New, Fresh... This applied to both Men and Woman...

That means, in our culture it does not matter what the men does. Everyone looks at small mistakes of women.

Change expected.... Soon... This system doen't look good for Women. It is not fair, I agree. But don't worry there are ppl like me also, who hav differet opinions.. And I am a Virgin too...

ALL EK members, HELP TO BREAK THE SYSTEM !!! for SL womens sake.