should your future wife be a virgin ??

should your future wife be a virgin ?

  • Yes... im..so she must be

    Votes: 221 49.4%
  • yes.... im not a virgin but she must be.....

    Votes: 37 8.3%
  • nah... im not so why she is ??

    Votes: 32 7.2%
  • nah.... im but i dunt care

    Votes: 34 7.6%
  • i dont care...

    Votes: 123 27.5%

  • Total voters
    447

CoolCartoon

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Nash_Node said:
Obsessed with STD ?

Don't tell me you are a walking breathing living peaty dish of STD ! :lol:

lol.. that is kinda harsh....
btw that guy's post and our witch friend's posts have some points.... Imagine a guy who hang every whore house and sleeping with prostitutes... and after all he is going to marry a innocent virgin....

god... who knows what kind of STD he has.... what is going to happen that poor girl's life.... :oo:
something came to my mind after reading the posts....
 

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CoolCartoon said:
lol.. that is kinda harsh....
btw that guy's post and our witch friend's posts have some points.... Imagine a guy who hang every whore house and sleeping with prostitutes... and after all he is going to marry a innocent virgin....

god... who knows what kind of STD he has.... what is going to happen that poor girl's life.... :oo:
something came to my mind after reading the posts....
ela kiri...im in ur side..hw hw mchooo
 

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    Not every guy/girl who loses their virginity before marriage has AIDS

    It's a bad idea of loosing that before the marriage ! believe me , yes I am just 24 years old and have no experience , but we can share the experience from a person who have. Just use the google and read those blogs what ppl said about they haved sex before marriage , loose vignity before marriage ???
    Just read their life stories , please read both genders... and you can underestand it's not recommand for both genders......

    Loosing viginity means he/she is somebody's else. So why should you put your nose into someone's problem ..... well I'm a innocent boy, I don't put my nose into someone else's problems. If I want hero , I go and join army and fight with the LTTE as a real hero.But I'm not in army and not a hero. I'm just innocent boy civilian like you all.so your this point is 100% useless. Think about this , you know my story about my own ex-girlfriend , and I never had that kind of realtionship with her, anyhow she married other person , so no matter I loves her or (may be she loves me back sometimes , But I don't think) , she is owned by him now , because they are married ! and I'm not going to put the nose into them.And the good news the NATURE also helps me to forgot her very quickly , yes Nature will always helps you if you are good. Yes it automatically happning.
    There are ADIS and HIV and STD ( Sexually Transmitted Diseases ) and so on.
    Those viruses are also a part of the nature , so that means those things are bad things . So I can agree with your point , but the Nature does not , nature is
    telling that it's a bad thing. But the natur's protocol is very dangours , it's protocol is ADIS HIV and STD ..... you never get a second chance for this mistake from the nature as I get for my bad but true love story .....

    finally :
    Yeah sure bro, I agree with you, a strong bond will be formed with the person you lose your virginity with, so that person better be your wife/husband. Completely agree with that.

    Thanks , ya really thanks for the words !
     
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    Nash_Node said:
    You are welcome.

    But does that KNIFE and Killing things come naturally in your witch craft or something? :rolleyes:
    There are two Knives in Witchcraft. One is called "Boline", the white handled knife Used to cut herbs and stuff. The other is "Atheme", the black handles knife, symbolic to Male Genitalia, used to direct energy and cast circles.

    Nothing gets hurt or killed in a Witchcraft Ritual. The offerings we make to the Gods should be vegitarian (Wiccan Gods are Vegitarian :D)

    Even in LaVey satanism they do not literally do sacrifices, they just mock it.
     

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    deegopower said:
    always use a condom :):):)

    You are a person who are thinking only about the biological side of this
    realationship , but think about this , there are more than that !

    It's comming through your heart beats , you clearly know that it makes
    you weeker , but you love it and love it dreaming much more. You can stop
    it , there is no bounds , but you don't need to even , it's just a feeling ....
    But that's very stronger .......... and no words can explain.... More than that
    I cannot feel , because they are totally dead now ! But as I can remember...
    Even I never slept those days .

    It's not only thes biological realation with your partener !
    Life is like an ice-burg most of the things are not visible , sexual realationship
    is just that upper visible part of that ice-burg. What you should do is try to
    explore those other bounds....

    my advice is change the way that you thinking , it's not a bio-logical thing ...
    witout that relationship , yes with your partener's scrafice , yes the marriage
    relationship is even possible as I can feel.
     

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    Hot-Witch-Girl said:
    You scare me baby!

    I guess I have raised this question, but nobody respoded untill you.

    What if we could demand or ask for a blood test for STD before marrying a person who has had sex before...

    For this the answer is already given , the medical and biological thing is not the realtion and it's totally not the important thing. But ADIS is a way a protocol that how the nature is punishing them. There are criminals who are living with no trouble by the law in the free world ! But what they did is wrong !
    Totally wrong !

    So that's the point !
     

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    CoolCartoon said:
    lol.. that is kinda harsh....
    btw that guy's post and our witch friend's posts have some points.... Imagine a guy who hang every whore house and sleeping with prostitutes... and after all he is going to marry a innocent virgin....

    god... who knows what kind of STD he has.... what is going to happen that poor girl's life.... :oo:
    something came to my mind after reading the posts....

    Yes I agree with you this have a point ! Life is better ! so we should be afraid about the nature's punishment called ADIS ! that's a good point.

    There can be both male and female genders who are dirty , who should be punished ! who sell up or use dirty that biological relationship for dirty things...
    Both of that kind of ppl should be only punished !

    Yes what you think is correct .... what happen to that poor girl's life ? yes the nature is not a complete thing , but it's always tried to be fair by balancing it.
    :( , there is no answer about this. :( .... Yes that statement is correct .
    It's not fair to looking for a vigin girl if you are not vigin. Same story is true for the other side.

    So be scray about loosing it or having sex before the marriage :) , ADIS is free !
    you can get it ! like you can compile and publish any virus source code on the netlux.Viruses are part of the nature , I think viruses are fair at a some level.

    I read an story about an indian women who married a HIV inflected man :( , yes what about that womens's life. As we are all loving our lives they are also loving that life. So YES THE NATURE"S SOME OF TREATEMENTS ARE UNFAIR , COS IT"S NOT COMPLETE.

    :( :(
     

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    sanzilla jackcat said:
    For this the answer is already given , the medical and biological thing is not the realtion and it's totally not the important thing. But ADIS is a way a protocol that how the nature is punishing them. There are criminals who are living with no trouble by the law in the free world ! But what they did is wrong !
    Totally wrong !

    So that's the point !

    Ok.. now I am really
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    What in the world makes you so much obsessed with Viruses and justifying them as well?

    There could be two options...

    1. You are an Insurance company risk assessment executive

    2. You are just over-reacting

    Which one is it?
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    I thought this thread is talking about the Virginity.. not the whole issue of STD's.

    But then again, take my word... you don't really have to TRY HARD to avoid it by going into extreme actions.

    Believe it or not :eek: ... my insurance requires me to do a full medical check up every year.. and this year too I passed without even a flue ! :lol: :lol:
     
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    Sex is not a dirty thing! Sex is Sacred!! It is very natural. Well, I worship nature... :D

    Nature does not punish like that. Well, Other "wild" animals can have sex freely!! That is natural!! Humans have this thing called marriage, that is why (only why) virginity is valued. Human is also an animal, but not a wild animal... ;)

    There is one thing (should be) for sure. Once you are married, there should be no more wild things...
     
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    sanzilla jackcat said:
    For this the answer is already given , the medical and biological thing is not the realtion and it's totally not the important thing. But ADIS is a way a protocol that how the nature is punishing them. There are criminals who are living with no trouble by the law in the free world ! But what they did is wrong !
    Totally wrong !

    So that's the point !
    You are a psycho, or paranoid! Anyway... P...
     

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    CoolCartoon said:
    this is sound crazy ??? you guys may tell "" ahanna dewal nedda thota or bla bla ". this thread may sound like " r u a virgin ?? or r u masturabating ?? " threads. but this thing really bother in my head. :P

    bla bla bla

    what u guys think???

    This is sri lanka.. not US... :yes:

    CoolCartoon said:

    ps :: sorry guys this thread may not suitable for EK. if yes.. sorry.

    i dnt think so...
     

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    sanzilla jackcat said:
    For this the answer is already given , the medical and biological thing is not the realtion and it's totally not the important thing. But ADIS is a way a protocol that how the nature is punishing them. There are criminals who are living with no trouble by the law in the free world ! But what they did is wrong !
    Totally wrong !

    So that's the point !
    :yes::yes::yes::yes::yes::yes:
     

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    Hot-Witch-Girl said:
    Sex is not a dirty thing! Sex is Sacred!! It is very natural. Well, I worship nature... :D

    Nature does not punish like that. Well, Other "wild" animals can have sex freely!! That is natural!! Humans have this thing called marriage, that is why (only why) virginity is valued. Human is also an animal, but not a wild animal... ;)

    There is one thing (should be) for sure. Once you are married, there should be no more wild things...

    :yes::yes::yes::yes::yes: