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[Lankaputhra16]

https://www.hindawi.com/journals/isrn/2014/934839/

3.1. Condom Use at Massage Parlors
Focus group participants reported frequent visits to massage parlors and expressed having strong intentions to use condoms for vaginal sex with Asian masseuses due to fear of HIV/STIs. The participants also reported that condoms were usually available at massage parlors and that masseuses initiated using condoms with them.

“They usually put it (a condom) on you.You do the shower or bath thing and then you lay down, and then they start rubbing you, and after you do the extra, like kissing on your neck, rubbing your leg, then they do their thing down there. Then, next thing you know the bitch (condom) is on. You know, most of them are pretty smooth by not breaking the moment.”

Another echoed: “Some of them put it on with their mouth. Yeah, they are pretty smooth.”
However, several participants expressed their preference to not use condoms.

“Basically, I had full (services)—oral sex, vagina sex, everything. No condoms or nothing. No condoms in the room ever. No condoms mentioned anything.”

“Honestly, I’ve been HIV (positive) for three and a half years, but yeah, since that point (I started using condoms). But, before then, no (I did not use condoms). I’m not a really good condom fan.”

Participants described instances when masseuses agreed to have unprotected sex with customers for extra money. However, none of the participants in the focus groups admitted to this behavior.

“And I really feel that the guys who come in there and he’s gonna drop $400 to $500, and girl, he says I do not wanna use a condom, they gonna let them go without a condom. It depends on what you’re spending.”

“A friend of mine said that they use condoms during the first time and may be during the fifth visit, she will offer no to use it and she will say something like “I will offer this to you because you are special, you come and see (me) all the time. Do not tell anyone else.”

Another participant followed stating that experienced masseuses did not negotiate extra money for not using a condom.

“They aren’t experienced as to what happens if they do not use it. However, it gets around pretty quick that if this girl is not using one that a lot of the clients stay away from (her) and she get a bad reputation because you are really taking a gamble on having unprotected sex with this person.”

3.2. Infrequent Condom Use for Oral Sex
Unprotected oral sex was reported by a number of participants because they perceived that unprotected oral sex is not risky for HIV/STIs. Participants preferred having oral sex without using a condom unless masseuses insisted on using it.

“it seem oral sex with a condom, first of all, I think it’s almost completely unnecessary.”

“The only time I wouldn’t (use condoms) would probably be oral sex, but if it’s vaginal, definitely has to (use a condom).”

“And even oral, a lot of these girls are really conscious about HIV and they know it, they won’t even give you oral without (using) a condom sometimes. But sometimes, I do not know, may be the girl is attracted to you and they feel safe or something and then they give you oral without (using) a condom.”

 

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