Eranda200 said:
ur clothes ur choice. itz true that clothes reflect personality n quality but 1 shudnt b too attentiv 4 these stuff. coz u'll never b able 2 live if u think wot other peopl r thinkin all the tym.
i absolutely agreee. but one thing that i have seen with my own eyes and even i find very trashy, are alot of girls wearing shorts with their butt cheeks hanging out the bottom. or a skirt so short that if they bend over u will see all they have. there has got to be a boundary, otherwise u will look like, not a prostitute, but that u will give it away for free.
now once when i was in sri lanka, i went to a few clubs there, h2o being on that i saw the most discusting thing that i would never in this world wear, not even to the beach (and im all for a 2 peice bikini). this chick in h2o, had on a shirt, that was completely backless, it had no back to it, and it only covered her boobs in the front, all the rest was exposed, her shorts were so short her buttcheeks were out and they were so tight she looked like it was hard for her to walk. that was gross, okay it wasnt the most discusting thin i have ever seen, but it was damn close.
the most important thing to me is respect. i would not want to go out somewhere with my husband and my children and have to watch a woman who have her tits hangin out or her ass. a little respect for decent families like us.
my sister used to work at rok ola cafe here in the states, and they had to wear low cut shirts and short shiort skirts, and i told her that if i ever camr to eat tehre, i would make a huge scene, b.c i would want someone clean looking to serve us our food, not looking like she is working a brothel.
another time i was in coney island beach in brooklyn, a family beach keep in mind, this nasty puerto rican bitch was on the beach in a thong, YES A THONG..... she wasnt even cute, her legs and her ass was sooooo fat and full of stretch marks, and everyone on the beach was all looking and laughing at her. no one even said anything to her that their children had to be out on that beach looking at her nasty stretchy jiggly ass that should have been covered. lmao....
anyways. to me that is where the line should be drawn, and u should have ur ass beat for walking out of the house lookin like that!
im american so dont think im saying that women should be dressed in traditional or watever, i just think women should be more aware of the reputation they are giving themselves and being respectful of people who have to look at them thats all. i still say show some leg show some cleavage, but keep the rest to the imagination!