thanx lili wang youve been such an angel...

Thank you, but on my own I am not good, but only through understanding the love of Jesus Christ can I truly show love to others without wanting anything else in return. This is what many do not realize, I was one of them. To love is love unconditionally even under brutal circumstances without forcing to gain anything in return.
John 13:35 - "Everyone will know that you are my disciples because of your love for each other."
1Cor 13:3-7 - "If I give away all I have, and if I deliver up my body to be burned, but have not love, I gain nothing.
4: Love is patient and kind; love does not envy or boast; it is not arrogant
5: or rude. It does not insist on its own way; it is not irritable or resentful;
6: it does not rejoice at wrongdoing, but rejoices with the truth.
7: Love bears all things, believes all things, hopes all things, endures all things.
8: Love never ends. As for prophecies, they will pass away; as for tongues, they will cease; as for knowledge, it will pass away. 9 For we know in part and we prophesy in part, 10: but when the perfect comes, the partial will pass away. 11: When I was a child, I spoke like a child, I thought like a child, I reasoned like a child. When I became a man, I gave up childish ways. 12: For now we see in a mirror dimly, but then face to face. Now I know in part; then I shall know fully, even as I have been fully known.
13: So now faith, hope, and love abide, these three; but the greatest of these is love.
You may not understand the Scripture in its entirety, but this is to show that the motto of a
true disciple of Jesus Christ is love.