Why is a man allowed to have more than one wife in Islam?

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    cthabrew said:
    aiyo machan mama umbata kenthi ganna deyak qwe nane ban mama a ai kiyala danne nathi hinda ahuwe

    api rataka jeewath wenakota apith akka inna anith hama jathiyakama aya akka samagiyen inna ona akata api ayalage sirith wirith danagana inna ona mama waradi naa neda anika mama ahuwe

    machan moona wahanne nathi Muslims lath dakala thiyenawa machan a machan nikayawal anuwada moona wahanne

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    ahema nikayawal thiyenawa neda ban



    haaa machan enam oyata dena ganna oni ey face 1 cover karanne ri kiyala neda ei kiyala kiyannam...here :)

    macan me article 1 kiyawanna oyata terei



    Hijab

    III&E Brochure Series
    (published by The Institute of Islamic Information and Education (III&E) and reproduced in electronic form by Islamic Academy for Scientific Research with permission)

    THE QUESTION OF HIJAB: SUPPRESSION OR LIBERATION?

    "Why do Muslim women have to cover their heads?" This question is one which is asked by Muslim and non-Muslim alike. For many women it is the truest test of being a Muslim.

    The answer to the question is very simple - Muslim women observe HIJAB (covering the head and the body) because Allah has told them to do so.

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    "O Prophet, tell your wives and daughters and the believing women to draw their outer garments around them (when they go out or are among men). That is better in order that they may be known (to be Muslims) and not annoyed..."


    [Noble Quran 33:59]



    Other secondary reasons include the requirement for modesty in both men and women. Both will then be evaluated for intelligence and skills instead of looks and sexuality. An Iranian school girl is quoted as saying, "We want to stop men from treating us like sex objects, as they have always done. We want them to ignore our appearance and to be attentive to our personalities and mind. We want them to take us seriously and treat us as equals and not just chase us around for our bodies and physical looks." A Muslim woman who covers her head is making a statement about her identity. Anyone who sees her will know that she is a Muslim and has a good moral character. Many Muslim women who cover are filled with dignity and self esteem; they are pleased to be identified as a Muslim woman. As a chaste, modest, pure woman, she does not want her sexuality to enter into interactions with men in the smallest degree. A woman who covers herself is concealing her sexuality but allowing her femininity to be brought out.

    The question of Hijab for Muslim women has been a controversy for centuries and will probably continue for many more. Some learned people do not consider the subject open to discussion and consider that covering the face is required, while a majority are of the opinion that it is not required. A middle line position is taken by some who claim that the instructions are vague and open to individual discretion depending on the situation. The wives of the Prophet (Peace be upon him) were required to cover their faces so that men would not think of them in sexual terms since they were the "Mothers of the Believers," but this requirement was not extended to other women.

    The word "Hijab" comes from the Arabic word "hajaba" meaning to hide from view or conceal. In the present time, the context of Hijab is the modest covering of a Muslim woman. The question now is what is the extent of the covering? The Quran says:

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    "Say to the believing man that they should lower their gaze and guard their modesty; that will make for greater purity for them; and Allah is well acquainted with all that they do. And say to the believing women that they should lower their gaze and guard their modesty; and that they should not display their beauty and ornaments except what must ordinarily appear thereof; that they should draw their veils over their bosoms and not display their beauty except to their husbands..."

    [Noble Quran 24:30-31]



    These verses from the Quran contain two main injunctions:

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    A woman should not show her beauty or adornments except what appears by uncontrolled factors such as the wind blowing her clothes, and

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    the head covers should be drawn so as to cover the hair, the neck and the bosom.

    Islam has no fixed standard as to the style of dress or type of clothing that Muslims must wear. However, some requirements must be met. The first of these requirements is the parts of the body which must be covered. Islam has two sources for guidance and rulings: first, the Quran, the revealed word of Allah and secondly, the Hadith or the traditions of the Prophet Muhammad (Peace be upon him) who was chosen by Allah to be the role model for mankind. The following is a Tradition of the Prophet:

    "Ayshah (May Allah be pleased with Her) reported that Asma' the daughter of Abu Bakr (May Allah be pleased with Him) came to the Messenger of Allah (Peace be upon him) while wearing thin clothing. He approached her and said: 'O Asma'! When a girl reaches the menstrual age, it is not proper that anything should remain exposed except this and this. He pointed to the face and hands." [Abu Dawud]



    The second requirement is looseness. The clothing must be loose enough so as not to describe the shape of the woman's body. One desirable way to hide the shape of the body is to wear a cloak over other clothes. However, if the clothing is loose enough, an outer garment is not necessary. Thickness is the third requirement. The clothing must be thick enough so as not to show the color of the skin it covers or the shape of the body. The Prophet Muhammad (Peace be upon him) stated that in later generations of his Ummah there would be

    "women who would be dressed but naked and on top of their heads (what looks like) camel humps. Curse them for they are truly cursed." [Muslim]



    Another requirement is an over-all dignified appearance. The clothing should not attract men's attention to the woman. It should not be shiny and flashy so that everyone notices the dress and the woman. In addition there are other requirements:

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    Women must not dress so as to appear as men.

    "Ibn Abbas narrated: 'The Prophet (Peace be upon him) cursed the men who appear like women and the women who appear like men.'" [Bukhari]



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    Women should not dress in a way similar to the unbelievers.

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    The clothing should be modest, not excessively fancy and also not excessively ragged to gain others admiration or sympathy.

    Often forgotten is the fact that modern Western dress is a new invention. Looking at the clothing of women as recently as seventy years ago, we see clothing similar to Hijab. These active and hard-working women of the West were not inhibited by their clothing which consisted of long, full dresses and various types of head covering. Muslim women who wear Hijab do not find it impractical or interfering with their activities in all levels and walks of life. Hijab is not merely a covering dress but more importantly, it is behavior, manners, speech and appearance in public. Dress is only one facet of the total being. The basic requirement of the Muslim woman's dress apply to the Muslim man's clothing with the difference being mainly in degree. Modesty requires that the area between the navel and the knee be covered in front of all people except the wife. The clothing of men should not be like the dress of women, nor should it be tight or provocative. A Muslim should dress to show his identity as a Muslim. Men are not allowed to wear gold or silk. However, both are allowed for women.

    For both men and women, clothing requirements are not meant to be a restriction but rather a way in which society will function in a proper, Islamic manner.
     

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    blood_brotha said:
    sick comment?? dude how can that be sick?? its just a valid practical question..

    wow a sick comment.. want some irony...take multiple wives put them in differeant houses... jump around the houses from week to week to f**k them... thats SICK.. :lol:

    Ah well.. im so sorry if dis is hurts u but u r jst proving out 4 all of us dat u got a sick mind bro..

    marriage is not only about having sex ... better brush up ur knowledge about WHAT IS MARRIAGE :)
     

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    TΞΞNSTAR™ said:

    Ah well.. im so sorry if dis is hurts u but u r jst proving out 4 all of us dat u got a sick mind bro..

    marriage is not only about having sex ... better brush up ur knowledge about WHAT IS MARRIAGE :)


    well certainly its a big part in it... bring the marraige part of it?? read all my posts in this thread...
     

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    blood_brotha said:
    in my eyes the artical has flaws..



    there maybe 25 million gay men..but the article does not say anything about lesbians.. if there was 25 million gays...there is roughly the same amout of lesbinas as well.. (basic logic)

    and the quaran says marry only one?? then if u follow the quaran to the detail why do you want to marry more..

    the idea is totally alien to me... u love a woman..u respect her. u care for her.. and yet you want another?? well to put it another way.. its just f**ked up

    Cummmon,, u knw very well abt gayz iznt it.. lol... nyway

    the above are just ur statics nd statements .. just use some statistics nd points which supports ur argument.. btw.. im repeating my self bro.. read the post again..:rofl:


    "Marry women of your choice, two, or three, or four; but if ye fear that ye shall not be able to deal justly (with them), then only one."

    [Al-Qur’an 4:3]

    got it??? ah k ... ill make it in simple language if its hard 4 u...:)

    Islam gives a man permission to marry two, three or four women, only on the condition that he deals justly with them.:)
     

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    Watch this video!!
    Dr. Zakir Naik Explain this problem!! in this video!!
    Watch this video Fully......they are discussin about two topicz......one is Men Marryin More than one Women!
    he explains it nicly!! worth watchin this!!

    Part 1


    Part 2
     

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    blood_brotha said:
    well certainly its a big part in it... bring the marraige part of it?? read all my posts in this thread...


    Ah yeah.. sex is a just another part of it bro... if u marry a gal only wit d intension of f**ck up.. as u mentioned earlier... Marriage is nt d best word for dat..

    Btw.. yep.. im reading ur posts... :)
     

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    blood_brotha said:

    Tnx 4 giving a source dat supports my point..

    Just take a look at the young generation .. Dnt u c a wide gap between d round figures??

    0-14 years: 13.8% (male 5,826,066/female 5,524,568)
    15-64 years: 66.2% (male 27,763,917/female 26,739,934)

    Btw... Nt day say d gap is 4 gayz nd lesbians k.. if u say so.. jst use some points to support ur arguement!! :)
     

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    TΞΞNSTAR™ said:
    Cummmon,, u knw very well abt gayz iznt it.. lol... nyway

    the above are just ur statics nd statements .. just use some statistics nd points which supports ur argument.. btw.. im repeating my self bro.. read the post again..:rofl:


    "Marry women of your choice, two, or three, or four; but if ye fear that ye shall not be able to deal justly (with them), then only one."

    [Al-Qur’an 4:3]

    got it??? ah k ... ill make it in simple language if its hard 4 u...:)

    Islam gives a man permission to marry two, three or four women, only on the condition that he deals justly with them.:)


    can u ellaborate on the justify part again?? justification??
     

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    ni_shi2005 said:
    Watch this video!!
    Dr. Zakir Naik Explain this problem!! in this video!!
    Watch this video Fully......they are discussin about two topicz......one is Men Marryin More than one Women!
    he explains it nicly!! worth watchin this!!

    TNX A LOT BRo... Dis is realllly worth watching....

    hope those who wants to clarify the doubts will watch this!!
     

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    TΞΞNSTAR™ said:

    Tnx 4 giving a source dat supports my point..

    Just take a look at the young generation .. Dnt u c a wide gap between d round figures??

    0-14 years: 13.8% (male 5,826,066/female 5,524,568)
    15-64 years: 66.2% (male 27,763,917/female 26,739,934)

    Btw... Nt day say d gap is 4 gayz nd lesbians k.. if u say so.. jst use some points to support ur arguement!! :)


    that is not gay and lesbian pop..its the country's pop.. and if u read the article..it says the differance in nearly 5 million?? do u see an five million gap??
     

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    Let small loss take place to prevent a big loss!! :lol::lol:

    Anyway I have this question.. Dr. Naik says females are born with higher capability of fighting diseases than a male child.. I don't know whether this is true or not!

    But lets say it is true for the sake of argument!

    But why did Allah created females with such a special ability?

    So the number of females will exceed males and males can marry more than one?