wife advice

Emios

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    My mom used to be like that.Dad send her to be with her parents for a year after a fight.Then it calmed down.Now again at age 60 she's turning to be nasty.Dementia type of symptomps.
     
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    Fade

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    බදින්න කලින් අපෙන් ඇහුවේ නෑනේ කෙල්ල මෙහෙමයි බදින්නද එපාද කියලා. බැන්දට පස්සේ ඒකි මෙහෙමයි කියලා අපිට මොකක්ද දැන් කියන්නේ. වටේ යනවනම් අහු වෙන්නේ නැති වෙන්න කරපන්. නැත්තන් මේකේ අදෝනා තියන්න ගනීවී ගෑණි ගැහුවා කියලා.

    this is sexual jealousy
    jealousy නෙමෙයි බන් toxic
    ------ Post added on Oct 5, 2023 at 10:19 PM
     
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    vishamacharya

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    nee macho... I know by heart that she will not do that... but she's so insecure... I don't have a family person to discuss this... we don't have any financial issues even.... what she expects is me to tell every detail of the day... like a log book...who can do that...

    Machan, this is called domestic abuse. Believe it or not. In Europe, she can be sent to prison for doing this.

    This kind of characteristics are related to previous experiences. most likely someone in her family (maybe mother, father or a sibling) cheated or was cheated by someone. If not, she could be having a psychological problem.

    Right now, you are being abused and your mental health is suffering.

    You should consider:
    1. Have a stern conversation with her - if possible
    2. Seek professional counselling (I think this might be the best option)
    3. Speak to any religious leader if you follow a religion

    DO NOT think too much and get depressed because of her. You must keep your mental stability no matter what. YOUR LIFE is yours, no matter what happens.
     
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    cpasl123

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    cpasl123 you should take this advice seriously,​


    Sirawatama kiyanne, Wifewa Exhaust wenna Dawasak try karala balapan, Ubata loku wenasak danei,
    Ganu amuthu jivin kotasak, oya vidihata hasirenna hethu ekka, ema naththan oya upan gathiya marenakan okata hda gahila jiwath weyan.
    owa karala thiyene.... its not about the sex.... she expects to run all my actions through her... I have shouted enough and more.... it doesn't help.....

    this is her habit.... trying to seek a counselor.

    can anyone suggest me a good psychiatric or a counselor?
    ------ Post added on Oct 6, 2023 at 9:25 AM

    can anyone suggest me a good psychiatric or a counselor?
    ------ Post added on Oct 6, 2023 at 9:39 AM

    My mom used to be like that.Dad send her to be with her parents for a year after a fight.Then it calmed down.Now again at age 60 she's turning to be nasty.Dementia type of symptomps.
    can anyone suggest me a good psychiatric or a counselor?
    ------ Post added on Oct 6, 2023 at 10:18 AM
     

    Honda.putha

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    I have a wife who enjoys fighting with me a lot.
    Even if a woman texts me it's a reason for a fight.
    for ex: last week I texted an old lady, who is like my grandmother asking whether it was raining or not in Nuwara Eliya, and she started a fight saying I should have told her that.

    it's really frustrating... I love her a lot... and I don't have any other affairs with women... but I'm friendly with everyone...
    I would appreciate it if someone could share an experience/ advice to get over this.
    @emoji diaries
     
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