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cpasl123

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    I have a wife who enjoys fighting with me a lot.
    Even if a woman texts me it's a reason for a fight.
    for ex: last week I texted an old lady, who is like my grandmother asking whether it was raining or not in Nuwara Eliya, and she started a fight saying I should have told her that.

    it's really frustrating... I love her a lot... and I don't have any other affairs with women... but I'm friendly with everyone...
    I would appreciate it if someone could share an experience/ advice to get over this.
     

    cpasl123

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    ඉතින් උඹේ වරදනේ. ගැනියෙක් ඉද්දි වයසක ආච්චිලා පස්සේ යන්නේ මොකද?
    pasen giye nee... we were planning to go on a trip,,,, so I was checking the weather.

    let her enjoy that.
    be her pet. get spanked, whipped, live like a slave. make it your fantasy
    I dont my that sort of a fight..... but this is more like arguments and no food
    ------ Post added on Oct 5, 2023 at 4:42 PM
     
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    dilan_randika

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    this is sexual jealousy and state of mind of her
    and she expecting more from you too
    this is very hard to recover.
    just be patience.

    u said " I love her a lot", this is important. bcoz u anyway love to live with her. else, situation may be terrible
    @cpasl123

    that's an advice to me for not to get married :love: thank you
    HIGHLY RECOMMANDED !
    ------ Post added on Oct 5, 2023 at 4:45 PM
     

    pitiye.appu

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    I have a wife who enjoys fighting with me a lot.
    Does she have dry hair, dry skin, unusually bad oder come through her oral cavity ? Does.she have any nerve fillings ?
    Even if a woman texts me it's a reason for a fight.
    for ex: last week I texted an old lady, who is like my grandmother asking whether it was raining or not in Nuwara Eliya, and she started a fight saying I should have told her that.
    Does she prefer heavy meals, acidic meals ?
    it's really frustrating... I love her a lot... and I don't have any other affairs with women... but I'm friendly with everyone...
    I would appreciate it if someone could share an experience/ advice to get over this.
    Her digestive system is on fire.
     
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    RANJAN_SILVA

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    Dealing with frequent arguments and jealousy in a relationship can be challenging, but it's important to work on finding solutions to improve your relationship. Here are some steps you can take:

    1. Have a Calm Conversation: Try to have a calm and non-confrontational conversation with your wife. Express your concerns about the frequent arguments and ask her about her feelings and concerns as well. It's essential to create an open and safe space for dialogue.
    2. Listen Actively: Make sure to actively listen to what she says. Try to understand her perspective and emotions without immediately becoming defensive.
    3. Set Boundaries: Discuss boundaries and expectations regarding communication with others. Clarify what behaviors are acceptable and unacceptable for both of you. Mutual understanding of boundaries can help reduce misunderstandings.
    4. Rebuild Trust: If trust is an issue, work on rebuilding it together. This may involve demonstrating your commitment to the relationship and ensuring that your actions align with your words.
    5. Seek Couples Counseling: If the issues persist and you find it challenging to resolve them on your own, consider seeking the help of a couples therapist or counselor. A professional can provide guidance and strategies to improve communication and resolve conflicts.
    6. Maintain Transparency: Be open and transparent with your wife about your communications with others. This can help alleviate any concerns she may have about the nature of your interactions.
    7. Reinforce Your Love: Remind each other of your love and commitment. Small gestures of affection and appreciation can go a long way in strengthening your relationship.
    8. Self-Reflection: Take some time to reflect on your own behavior and actions. Are there any unintentional actions or behaviors that might be contributing to the tension? Self-awareness can be a crucial step in resolving relationship issues.
    Remember, it's essential for both you and your wife to work together to find a resolution that makes both of you feel comfortable and secure in the relationship. If the issues persist and become too challenging to manage on your own, seeking professional help is a valid and constructive option.
     

    cpasl123

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    this is sexual jealousy and state of mind of her
    and she expecting more from you too
    this is very hard to recover.
    just be patience.

    u said " I love her a lot", this is important. bcoz u anyway love to live with her. else, situation may be terrible
    @cpasl123


    HIGHLY RECOMMANDED !
    ------ Post added on Oct 5, 2023 at 4:45 PM
    this i have been trying for a long time... this is what kept me going....
    I have made an appointment with a counselor also...
     

    exploreslk

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    1. Confront her directly, but calmly. Be clear that you don't like that behavior.
    2. If it fails, meat a counselor.
    3. If non of those work, get the divorce. Save yourself from lifetime of suffering.

    No person is worth loosing your peace in mind.

    P.S.: I am not a counselor, this is just my personal opinion.
     
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    cpasl123

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    ithin ponnyo weather eka check karanne metro department katha karapanko, nathnma internet eke baplapan.
    eka eka ganungen check karanna onada??

    okama ube gani karala thibboth uba nikan innawada????
    gon kata kiyana epa bank.... nuwaraelaiye inna ekek gen ahana ekai .... fheather forcast ekak balana ekei wenasa dane nedda...

    i dont mind even if she asked a friend.... i'm not that possessive or insured...
     
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    ttj

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    ඉතිං නිකං බොරුවට බැනුම් අහන්නේ ඇයි... Start an affair...

    තාම බැඳලා නැති උන්ට කියන්නේ... ජීවිතේ පරදුවට තියලා නොබැඳ ඉන්න ට්‍රයි කරපල්ලා...