friend
Don't reply for the sake of replying
I did not attempt to call your religion dumb in a subtle way

Trust me I did not
Every religion contains some advise targeted to keep the masses in order.
Those advise are in most cases directed at the society and at that time and reflect the set of values of those ages.
You have to understand that as people develop better values some of those earlier absolutes become outdated.
I don't agree with some of those elements of my religion.
But the stuff not designed to keep the masses in order appears to be timeless to me. And I wont shift because of that.
If Questioning my religion makes me a half baked cake so be it
I'm not going to believe
everything somebody told thousands of years ago to a
different audience without questioning it first.
i already made it clear to u that i am happy answer any questions put forward by u...
do you even believe something somebody says even now to you without thinking about it.
i believe in the quran ....and the life of our beloved prophet...
Anyway you successfully pointed me in a wrong direction
My problem was, is that you are using your religion to justify sticking to some ancient value system where people did not treat women equally
Whilst not exactly following other things in your religion that does n't look profitable (hinders financial success ,survival etc)
where does it say so...do you want me to believe wot u say with out proof
see that's double standards and that's ugly and That's what I want changed
wot is the double standard i dont understand a word wot ur saying please specify with proof...
Do something about this.
rather than talk about the nice things in the book.