WOMEN IN ISLAM

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WOMEN'S LIBERATION THROUGH ISLAM
Today people think that women are liberated in the West and that the women's liberation movement began in the 20th century. Actually, the women's liberation movement was not begun by women but was revealed by God to a man in the seventh century by the name of Muhammad (Peace Be Upon Him), who is known as the last Prophet of Islam. The Qur'an and the Traditions of the Prophet (Hadith or Sunnah) are the sources from which every Muslim woman derives rights and duties.

I. Human Rights
Islam, fourteen centuries ago, made women equally accountable to God in glorifying and worshipping Him - setting no limits on her moral progress. Also, Islam established a woman's equality in her humanity with men.

In the Noble Qur'an, in the first verse of the chapter entitled "Women", Allah says:
"O mankind! Be careful of your duty to your Lord Who created you from a single soul and from it created its mate and from them twain has spread abroad a multitude of men and women. Be careful of your duty toward Allah in Whom you claim (your rights) of one another, and (do not cut the relations of) the wombs (Kinship). Surely, Allah is Ever an All-Watcher over you." (Qur'an, 4:1 ) .

Since men and women both came from the same essence, they are equal in their humanity. Women cannot be by nature evil (as some religious believe) or then men would be evil also.

Similarly, neither gender can be superior because it would be a contradiction of equality.

II. Civil Rights
In Islam, a woman has the basic freedom of choice and expression based on recognition of her individual personality. First, she is free to choose her religion. The Qur'an states:
"There is no compulsion in religion. Right has been made distinct from error." (Qur'an, 2:256 ) .

Women are encouraged in Islam to contribute their opinions and ideas. There are many traditions of the Prophet (P.B.U.H.) which indicate women would pose questions directly to him and offer their opinions concerning religion, economics and social matters.

A Muslim woman chooses her husband and keeps her name after marriage.
A Muslim woman's testimony is valid in legal disputes. In fact, in areas in which women are more familiar, their evidence is conclusive.

III. Social Rights
Seeking knowledge is a mandate for every Muslim 'Male & Female'. This includes knowledge of the Noble Qur'an and the Hadith as well as other knowledge. Men and women both have the capacity for learning and understanding. Since it is also their obligation to promote good behavior and condemn bad behavior in all spheres of life, Muslim women must acquire the appropriate education to perform this duty in accordance with their own natural talents and interests.

While maintenance of a home, providing support to her husband, and bearing, raising and teaching of children are among the first and very highly regarded roles for a woman, if she has the skills to work outside the home for the good of the community, she may do so as long as her family obligations are met.

Islam recognizes and fosters the natural differences between men and women despite their equality. Some types of work are more suitable for men and other types for women. This in no way diminishes either's effort nor its benefit. God will reward both sexes equally for the value of their work, though it may not necessarily be the same activity.

Concerning motherhood, the Prophet Muhammad (P.B.U.H.) said: "Heaven lies under the feet of mothers." This implies that the success of a society can be traced to the mothers that raised it. The first and greatest influence on a person comes from the sense of security, affection, and training received from the mother. Therefore, a woman having children must be educated and conscientious in order to be a skillful parent.

IV. Political Rights
A right given to Muslim women by God 1400 years ago is the right to vote. On any public matter, a woman may voice her opinion and participate in politics. One example narrated in the Qur'an (60:12) is that Prophet Muhammad (P.B.U.H.) is told that when the believing women come to him and swear their allegiance to Islam, he must accept their oath. This established the right of women to select their leader and publicly declare so. Abdur-Rahman Ibn Auf consulted many women before he recommended Uthman Ibn Affan to be the Caliph.

V. Economic Rights
The Noble Qur'an states:
"By Him Who created male and female; Verily, your efforts and deeds are diverse (different in aims and purposes)." (Qur'an, 92:3-4 ) .

In these verses, God declares that He created men and women to be different, with unique roles, functions and skills. As in society, where there is a division of labour, so too in a family; each member has different responsibilities. Generally, Islam upholds that women are entrusted with the nurturing role, and men, with the guardian role. Therefore, women are given the right of financial support.

The Noble Qur'an states:
"Men are the protectors and maintainers of women because Allah has made some of them to excel others and because they spend of their wealth (for the support of women)." (Qur'an, 4:34 ) .

This guardianship and greater financial responsibility that is given to men, requires that they provide women with not only monetary support but also physical protection and kind and respectful treatment.

The Muslim woman has the privilege to earn money, the right to own property, to enter into legal contracts and to manage all of her assets in any way she pleases. She can run her own business and no one has any claim on her earnings including her husband. The Qur'an states:
"And covet not the things in which Allah has made some of you excel others. For men there is reward for what they have earned, (and likewise) for women there is reward for what they have earned, and ask Allah of His Bounty. Surely, Allah is Ever All-Knower of everything." (Qur'an, 4:32 ) .

A woman inherits from her relatives. The Qur'an states:
"For men there is a share in what parents and relatives leave, and for women there is a share of what parents and relatives leave, whether it be little or much - a legal share." (Qur'an, 4:7 ) .

VI. Rights of a Wife
The Noble Qur'an states:
"And among His signs is that He created for you wives from among yourselves that you may live in tranquility with them, and He has put between you affection and mercy. Verily, in that are indeed signs for people who reflect." (Qur'an, 30:21 ) .

Marriage is therefore not just a physical or emotional necessity, but in fact, a sign from God! It is a relationship of mutual rights and obligations based on divine guidance. God created men and women with complimentary natures, and in the Qur'an, He laid out a system of laws to support harmonious interaction between the sexes.

"...They are garments for your and you are garments for them." (Qur'an, 2:187 ) .

Clothing provides physical protection and covers the beauty and faults of the body. Likewise, a spouse is viewed this way. Each protects the other and hides the faults and compliments the characteristics of the spouse.

To foster the love and security that comes with marriage, Muslim wives have various rights. The first of the wife's rights is to receive mahr, a gift from the husband that is part of the marriage contract and required for the legality of the marriage.

The second right of the wife is maintenance. Despite any wealth she may have, her husband is obligated to provide her with food, shelter and clothing. He is not forced, however, to spend beyond his capability and his wife is not entitled to make unreasonable demands. The Qur'an states:
"Let the man of means spend according to his means, and the man whose resources are restricted, let him spend according to what Allah has given him. Allah puts no burden on any person beyond what He has given him. Allah will grant after hardship, ease."
( Qur'an, 65:7 ) .

God tells us men are guardians over women and are afforded the leadership in the family. His responsibility for obeying God extends to guiding his family to obey God at all times.

A wife's rights also extend beyond material needs. She has the right to kind treatment. The Prophet (P.B.U.H.) said: "The most perfect believers are the best in conduct. And the best of you are those who are best to their wives." God tells us He created mates and put love, mercy, and tranquility between them. Both men and women have a need for companionship and sexual needs, and marriage is designed to fulfill those needs.


VII. Duties of a Wife
With rights come responsibilities. Therefore, wives have certain obligations to their husbands. The Qur'an states:
"The righteous women are devoutly obedient, and guard in the absence of their husbands their rights as Allah has enjoined upon them to be guarded." (Qur'an, 4:34 ) .

A wife is to keep her husband's secrets and protect their marital privacy. Issues of intimacy or faults of his that would dishonor him, are not to be disclosed by the wife, just as he is expected to guard her honour.

A wife must also guard her husband's property. She must safeguard his home and possessions, to the best of her ability, from theft or damage. She should manage the household affairs wisely so as to prevent loss or waste. She should not allow anyone to enter the house whom her husband dislikes nor incur any expenses of which her husband disapproves.

A Muslim woman must cooperate and coordinate with her husband. There cannot, however, be cooperation with a man who is disobedient to God. She should not fulfill his requests if he wants her to do something unlawful. A husband also should not take advantage of his wife, but be considerate of her needs and happiness.

VIII. Conclusion
The Qur'an states:
"And it is not for a believer, man or woman, when Allah and His Messenger have decreed a matter (for them), that they should (after that) have any option in their decision. And whoever disobeys Allah and His Messenger, he verily goes astray in error manifest." (Qur'an, 33:36 ) .

The Muslim woman was given a role, duties and rights 1400 years ago that most women do not enjoy today, even in the West. These are from God and are designed to keep balance in society; Islam is a complete way of life.

For more information about this subject:
www.jannah.org


 

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plees guys dont make this a fight.

i feel this like u guys going to start a big wor in EK.

the post is good, but others replyes (specialy "walbada") r not good (in my point of view)
 

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zed said:
plees guys dont make this a fight.

i feel this like u guys going to start a big wor in EK.

the post is good, but others replyes (specialy "walbada") r not good (in my point of view)

wadak naha kiyalaa Islam Eka viwechanaya karanna Nam Lankawe O'natharam Aya Innawa.. Walbada Doctor kenek kiwwata Eyata Katha kara hati danney naha Eyage Kalin (Parana A'wa) baluwama therei... Kenek thamange aagama gana kiwwama mechchara kattiyak A'kata wiruddawa katha karanawada...?
Namuth kohewath EK eke dakala thiyenawada Muslimsla Ho Christiansla Buddagamata baninawa Dakala thiyenawada But Aagam gana kathaa karana hama welema Islam Ekatai Chrithiyani aagamatai witharai kattiya baninney..
wadak naha kiyalaa samahara honda nama thiyana inna Ayath Islaama Kiyala aawama Mey site eke Eyalage athul paththa pennanawaa...:yes:

Eyala hithanney Eyala Okkoamma Dannawa,Eyalata Islam kiwwama Ara suddo Ehema kiyana deyma meyalath kiyanawaa kisima kenek Kisima deyak danagena newei kathaa kataa karanney Eyalata Muslim Apita wada Islam Eka gana Dannawa ... Kawru hari kenenk maruwoth Ikmanata Balanney Muslimda kiyalai... but lankawe Dawasakata Paththare Aran baluwama Oya Budunge deshaya (wena jathinta meyke Ida naha) Kiyala kiyana aya A'ke keeyak nam aparaada sidda wenawada? Ada Lankawa Pawala denney Demala kotinta wadaa Sinhala koto kiyana Eka Api hamoma dannawa but A'ka Gana katha karannako A'wa kiyanney naha Wena aagam Viwechanayata nam ready wela inney..A'kada budu dahamen kiyala deela thiyenney.. Jaathiwadayada nahaney?Ai Lankawe ayata Oyatharam tharahak sulu jaathin ekka?
mama kiyanney naha Hamoma Ehemai kiyalaa samaharu Innawa Eyala harima hondi Apith Ekka Aashraya karanawaa.. Owa kiyala hadena Aya nawei lankawe inney.
 

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thanks for the info ..

but yet I,m surprised to see the things happening in some Muslim countries..
According to your argument,..if they are good muslims they must respect the womens no?

are there difference Islamic sects who have different approach regarding the womens liberty?(like shite and Sunnis)

regards
 

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gazaly said:
wadak naha kiyalaa Islam Eka viwechanaya karanna Nam Lankawe O'natharam Aya Innawa.. Walbada Doctor kenek kiwwata Eyata Katha kara hati danney naha Eyage Kalin (Parana A'wa) baluwama therei... Kenek thamange aagama gana kiwwama mechchara kattiyak A'kata wiruddawa katha karanawada...?
Namuth kohewath EK eke dakala thiyenawada Muslimsla Ho Christiansla Buddagamata baninawa Dakala thiyenawada But Aagam gana kathaa karana hama welema Islam Ekatai Chrithiyani aagamatai witharai kattiya baninney..
wadak naha kiyalaa samahara honda nama thiyana inna Ayath Islaama Kiyala aawama Mey site eke Eyalage athul paththa pennanawaa...:yes:

Eyala hithanney Eyala Okkoamma Dannawa,Eyalata Islam kiwwama Ara suddo Ehema kiyana deyma meyalath kiyanawaa kisima kenek Kisima deyak danagena newei kathaa kataa karanney Eyalata Muslim Apita wada Islam Eka gana Dannawa ... Kawru hari kenenk maruwoth Ikmanata Balanney Muslimda kiyalai... but lankawe Dawasakata Paththare Aran baluwama Oya Budunge deshaya (wena jathinta meyke Ida naha) Kiyala kiyana aya A'ke keeyak nam aparaada sidda wenawada? Ada Lankawa Pawala denney Demala kotinta wadaa Sinhala koto kiyana Eka Api hamoma dannawa but A'ka Gana katha karannako A'wa kiyanney naha Wena aagam Viwechanayata nam ready wela inney..A'kada budu dahamen kiyala deela thiyenney.. Jaathiwadayada nahaney?Ai Lankawe ayata Oyatharam tharahak sulu jaathin ekka?
mama kiyanney naha Hamoma Ehemai kiyalaa samaharu Innawa Eyala harima hondi Apith Ekka Aashraya karanawaa.. Owa kiyala hadena Aya nawei lankawe inney.
machan. the big reason i see hear is sri lanken TV channels, thay always show ppl tochered and comming from middoleast, but newer show howmeny comes with happy and calmness. dont worry bro, only few r few r talking againset mulim (dont know exsacttly, but i sow only4 -5 ppl talking againsest muslimes) menny ppl is out there, think clear and diside wt is rite and wt is wronge.:yes::yes::yes::yes::yes:
 

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uhox said:
thanks for the info ..

but yet I,m surprised to see the things happening in some Muslim countries..
According to your argument,..if they are good muslims they must respect the womens no?

are there difference Islamic sects who have different approach regarding the womens liberty?(like shite and Sunnis)

regards
i have seen restractions (like in cloths, some rules) but newer seen all muslime male ppl act against muslime womens, (have seen some things, but that kind of things happen in any country in any religon coz all r humon beings
 

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  • zed said:
    the post is good, but others replyes (specialy "walbada") r not good (in my point of view)
    So you are saying that quoting Qu'ran is not good?:lol:

    If my sources have a problem with it, it's open for discussion. I am not putting my own arguments. I am only concerened about women's status in Islam because of two reasons.

    1. 500,000 SL women are working in Arab. They are our sisters.
    2. Muslim women have huge problems with their health. Especially reproductive health.

    Otherwise I woudn't care at all about what Islam says about women, because I'll not be a part of it.
     

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  • gazaly said:
    wadak naha kiyalaa Islam Eka viwechanaya karanna Nam Lankawe O'natharam Aya Innawa.. Walbada Doctor kenek kiwwata Eyata Katha kara hati danney naha Eyage Kalin (Parana A'wa) baluwama therei... Kenek thamange aagama gana kiwwama mechchara kattiyak A'kata wiruddawa katha karanawada...?
    Gazly, machang, you have to grow up a bit. Yes, I had fights with few, but I was not the one to start any of them. Did I ever had a fight with you or used detrogratory language ever?

    If you post anything in EK be prepared for admiration and critisicm both. Don't take critisicm as insults.

    I have quoted reputed web sites and quotation from Qu'ran. But you accuse me of "baninawa". If you cannot withstand critisicm, don't post sensitive subjects. When I am talking with information, I can bargain with feelings.


    gazaly said:
    Namuth kohewath EK eke dakala thiyenawada Muslimsla Ho Christiansla Buddagamata baninawa Dakala thiyenawada But Aagam gana kathaa karana hama welema Islam Ekatai Chrithiyani aagamatai witharai kattiya baninney..
    wadak naha kiyalaa samahara honda nama thiyana inna Ayath Islaama Kiyala aawama Mey site eke Eyalage athul paththa pennanawaa...:yes:
    Once again you use that word. No one had insulted Islam. Evrybody in this thread brought their arguments with the help of sources they selected. If they were wrong, onus is on you to correct them. No point in whining when you are under the cosh.

    gazaly said:
    Eyala hithanney Eyala Okkoamma Dannawa,Eyalata Islam kiwwama Ara suddo Ehema kiyana deyma meyalath kiyanawaa kisima kenek Kisima deyak danagena newei kathaa kataa karanney Eyalata Muslim Apita wada Islam Eka gana Dannawa ...
    If you know more, the stage is open for you ti perform. Don't run and hide. When was quoting Qu'ran was learnet from sudda?:confused:

    gazaly said:
    Kawru hari kenenk maruwoth Ikmanata Balanney Muslimda kiyalai... but lankawe Dawasakata Paththare Aran baluwama Oya Budunge deshaya (wena jathinta meyke Ida naha) Kiyala kiyana aya A'ke keeyak nam aparaada sidda wenawada?
    Onna panna balala mallen eliyata!:lol: Al Qaeda wlayi lankawe wena killings walai wenasa dannawada? Al Qaeda eke porawal maranne Qu'ran eka athe thiyan. Eth lankawe aya Tripitakayawath, Thirukkural ekawath, Bible ekawath athe thiyan maranne naha. Try to understand the difference.


    gazaly said:
    Ada Lankawa Pawala denney Demala kotinta wadaa Sinhala koto kiyana Eka Api hamoma dannawa but A'ka Gana katha karannako A'wa kiyanney naha Wena aagam Viwechanayata nam ready wela inney..A'kada budu dahamen kiyala deela thiyenney.. Jaathiwadayada nahaney? Ai Lankawe ayata Oyatharam tharahak sulu jaathin ekka?
    mama kiyanney naha Hamoma Ehemai kiyalaa samaharu Innawa Eyala harima hondi Apith Ekka Aashraya karanawaa.. Owa kiyala hadena Aya nawei lankawe inney.
    Mate once again you have missed the bus by an hour. Buddhism teaches to critisice any teaching, even Buddhism, constructively, so then you would learn it more.

    Next, I am very sorry to find that you have forgotten the history lessons. Europeans, for 500 years, looted us to the last milligram of gold, last speck of gem, to the last elephant and destroyed our environment to the last square foot of highland forests. They killed thousands and thousands of people. Converted people to their relgion with the power of sword. Have you ever thought why Muslims inhabit the east now? Portugese started to massacare them at Kotte, Galle and Matara areas. Sinhala king intervened and gave them land in the east. Now what do they do in the east? Why that Tamil woman at Kattankudy was beaten to death for not covering her head in front of the Mosque?

    Then I have no problems accepting you as a friend. That is a another story. My personal universe and actual world have differences. :cool:
     

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    Wal Bada said:
    So you are saying that quoting Qu'ran is not good?:lol:

    If my sources have a problem with it, it's open for discussion. I am not putting my own arguments. I am only concerened about women's status in Islam because of two reasons.

    1. 500,000 SL women are working in Arab. They are our sisters.
    2. Muslim women have huge problems with their health. Especially reproductive health.

    Otherwise I woudn't care at all about what Islam says about women, because I'll not be a part of it.
    Actually you not quoting quran its translation. i remember when teenstar gave you some videos from a scholar you said you dont want twisted views by people.

    if you want to understand the context, you need to understand the original language of the book :yes:. if you doing it with translation you should be able to understand what a scholar says who knows the language as well..;)

    yeah i understand your worries about 500,000 SL women.we should be concerned cos they not only just working but also contributing hugely to the economy.
    i personally think we should be ashamed of ourselves first place for letting this happen. we cant correct Arabs we should correct us first. we should be able to keep our ladies here with dignity. if we send and then try correcting whome their working for it want work..:no::no:..again my opinion

    ur concernes about giving better health for muslim women...no comments:lol::lol:
     

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    uhox said:
    thanks for the info ..

    but yet I,m surprised to see the things happening in some Muslim countries..
    According to your argument,..if they are good muslims they must respect the womens no?

    are there difference Islamic sects who have different approach regarding the womens liberty?(like shite and Sunnis)

    regards
    yeah i agree its mostly about oppression and violence that you hear. especially after this war against terror thing :yes:

    but just my 2 cents. if thats what the religion does how come there's an active rate of conversion especially in West.

    Ivon Ridley, a british journalist, said " i was so glad i was captured by the most evil regime on the world, rather then the Americans..."

    "Britain must inevitably give some recognition to sharia law.." Dr Rowan Williams,Archbishop of Canterbury.

    would a women in west especially a journalist will accept a religion which undermines woman's rights?would a bishop suggest to recognize a law practiced by the most uncivililsed on the face of the earth to UK?

    i would say dont judge a book by its cover...;);)