~wt do u go 4? luv marriage or proposed marriage~

what do u go for? love marriage or proposed marriage


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~ShImMeRiNg~

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nabil said:
heres my reply to neon's post:
7/10 love marriages hav probs actually thats my personal experience. any1 can deny. true in luv marriages u kno da whole peson b4 u marry, but thats wat makes it all interesting in proposed marriages. in luv marriages u luv the girl/guy b4 marriage n start hating (most of da time) afterwards.. its da opposite in proposed marriages. than again there r exceptions but im talking bout majority of da cases.
well as far as i know...ppl who i know who have had proposed marriagess really dont go that welll..i think it depends on the parents too..sometimes in some families u have to marry who da parents like and not who da guy or gal like, so they dont get ny choicee:( :eek: ..which sux big time..thats y my life is kinda a living hell:( :(
 

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love marriage cauz then i'll defintely knw the person well....i will try to knw abt his past n everything...n after knowing abt everything abt the person's life n wen he knws u there wud be few problems in the future...

in case of proposed marriage i wont knw the person well....plus wen we start being together he might not fit into my way of life n i might not fit into his way of life....

i have seen arranged marriages being successfull but i wudnt want to go there....i dont want to have a boring marriage.....u knw even i want to experience everything in life with my partner....n arranged marriage will make everything seem odd.....it seems weird, deciding to marry a person u have never knw in ur life....

i will defintely go for love marriage......:) :) :) :) :) :) :)
 

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~ShImMeRiNg~ said:
well as far as i know...ppl who i know who have had proposed marriagess really dont go that welll..i think it depends on the parents too..sometimes in some families u have to marry who da parents like and not who da guy or gal like, so they dont get ny choicee:( :eek: ..which sux big time..thats y my life is kinda a living hell:( :(

yeah that sux , wen u have to get married to the guy who ur parents want....but i think the society has changed to sum extent....sum freedom is given to the girl to pick her choice....

i have seen successfull ones + not soo successfull ones....so i dont knw whether its bad...but for me , i wud go for love marriage only...hehe:yes: :yes: :yes:
 

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luv marriage for sure!! then u know its real love, before getting into a marriage with that person...if u have a proposed marriage, ur not 100% sure if its really love...i think it would be a lil akward too....anyway i would like a luv marriage...
 

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~ShImMeRiNg~ said:
well as far as i know...ppl who i know who have had proposed marriagess really dont go that welll..i think it depends on the parents too..sometimes in some families u have to marry who da parents like and not who da guy or gal like, so they dont get ny choicee:( :eek: ..which sux big time..thats y my life is kinda a living hell:( :(
ppl who i kno who had love marriages don hav a gud time afterwards (most of them).
as i said it depends according to da parents choice n classes.
 

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    nabil said:
    mama kiyanne marry karata passe.. after marriage hungak prashna enawa luv marriages wala. ewa adui proposed marriages wala. mama kiyanne mage experience eken iganagathu ewa.. there mayb different opinions depending on different cultures n classes. ;)
    oyage experience walin?? e kiyane dan oya yalu wela bandath da????? :shocked:? hehehe
    anywyzz mama nam hithane na ehema.. yalu wela badina ayata prob vadi kiyala..
    eka anith patha nam wenna puluwan.. mokada proposed marages wala denna thama thaman gana danne nathi nisa..

    anywayzzz dats wat i think.. eka wenas wenna puluwan anith katiya hithana dewal anuwa:D
     

    ~ShImMeRiNg~

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    Dark-Angel said:
    yeah that sux , wen u have to get married to the guy who ur parents want....but i think the society has changed to sum extent....sum freedom is given to the girl to pick her choice....

    i have seen successfull ones + not soo successfull ones....so i dont knw whether its bad...but for me , i wud go for love marriage only...hehe:yes: :yes: :yes:
    ok cool:D
     

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    ~ShImMeRiNg~ said:
    well as far as i know...ppl who i know who have had proposed marriagess really dont go that welll..i think it depends on the parents too..sometimes in some families u have to marry who da parents like and not who da guy or gal like, so they dont get ny choicee:( :eek: ..which sux big time..thats y my life is kinda a living hell:( :(

    :love: :love: :love: :love: :love:
     

    nabil

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    nEoN_wHitE said:
    oyage experience walin?? e kiyane dan oya yalu wela bandath da????? :shocked:? hehehe
    anywyzz mama nam hithane na ehema.. yalu wela badina ayata prob vadi kiyala..
    eka anith patha nam wenna puluwan.. mokada proposed marages wala denna thama thaman gana danne nathi nisa..

    anywayzzz dats wat i think.. eka wenas wenna puluwan anith katiya hithana dewal anuwa:D
    experince other ppls experiences.. :D ugh just 4get it.
    its a long n complicated issue.